Is a 8 month relationship long enough to get married?

moi	no! but it depends...!!!

scar	I'm not sure I've heard of people,deciding on the spot this is the person I think I can live with it you love him and he Loves you, I don't see any problem with it.I hope it works out for you guys whatever your answer maybe Congratulation to you both. Have A Blessed Life & read your Bible everyday

Betsy	I would be weary. I was 22 when I got married after 13 months of dating. Big mistake! He swooped me off my feet, and then ended up cheating on me, abusing me, and was constantly lying. My other girlfriends that got married at that age ALL are divorced, and regret having gotten married. If you want sorrow, and a lot of life lessons, go ahead, and take the plunge. However, no matter how wonderful it may seem right now, be VERY VERY careful, and ONLY look out for yourself. You cannot worry about his feelings. He will recover. You however, may not. Especially after you have spent thousands of dollars on a wedding, and turn yourself over to a therapist for the next several years. I have since found love again, and you will eventually find the right man. Not to say that this currant man could not be him, just give it more time, the colors will eventually show.

wmp55	Whether you want to get married now or not is not the question. If you have already been around him for eight months and don't know if he's the right guy for you, then break it off. If you feel right now that you can forsake all others for the next 75 years. Call him NOW and say yes!

Perhaps I love you more	Time is only a measure of ones ability to get to know something or someone, therefore it has nothing to do with if you are ready or not to be married. I dated my now wife for 2 months, but from the moment I met her I knew that she was the one, and never looked back. If you feel the same and same goes with your partner for life, then go for it and may your lives be filled with many blessings. But if there is an iota of doubt, then dont, because your relationship may need more time to grow.

loshea65	Why not have a long engagement? You can still get to know each other better, and be sure you're doing the right thing when you finally do tie the knot. Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime commitment. It's worth taking the time to be sure this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.

ore2nc	My sister met a guy in February and they are getting married in October. My husband and I did the quick thing last year over about ten months. When you know it's right, you know. Don't second guess yourself too much. Good luck!

*<Dani>*	well if u really love him, then go 4 it. but i think a relationship should last 4 about a couple years.

Foxy	I'd say no, it's too soon , you have to get to know each other better! If he loves you he'll understand! And the fact that you're not sure and that you're asking about it, also means that you want to wait before taking such a big decision. If he's the one for you, it'll show.

aangie781	no you need to take time to truly get to know this person.I would never marry someone after 8 months but every one is diffrent

intelligentbooklady	i think it depends on the relationship...and also how you feel....and how long the engagement will be... i am in a relationship now that i am sure is the "one", we have been dating since February...and i am thinking of making it permanent... if you have no bad vibes, i say go for it...

M D	I personally say NO, that's not long enough. There is no way in 8 months you can learn half of what you need to know in order to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with this person!

Phozzie	why are u asking ppl who don't know you??? The answer is with in urself... Do u love him or not if so nothing in the world should matter

tajames_2010	I do not think that is long enough but if you think you are ready than i think you are ready! It is up to you!

ulagam	In India, there is no prior relationship, before marriage. In majority of the cases, the marriage survives, and in a good many cases, it is blossoms into an enduring success.

your noon	Yes luck girl go ahead and enjoy and explore your happy hours , good luck to you both .

HastyBabe	sure if you love him.

Lilmisssassy	If you love him yes..my parents only knew eachother 18 DAYS when they got married its 30 years and they are still together..so yes it can work, just make sure you know what u are doing before you take that plunge, maybe move into gether 1st

sweetypie9	If you're asking this question online then the answer would have to be NO. That answer should come from within not from others. It doesn't sound to me like you're old enough to decide this right now because you haven't had enough life experiences. I've been divorced twice and I know an answer like that won't come from other people. You figure it out on your own.

ready4it45	you mean you are going to go by the responses to this question on whether or not you are going to marry him? Yeah, ummm maybe you are not ready yet. I say no.

indokee	no

Mummabear	If you feel he's Mr Right, go for it.

Katie	Do you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him?

Joe	nope.. u watched a movie ' Just Marry ' ?

Selnyk	Sure, I proposed to my wife at 10 months... that's pretty close.

awesomefb	My younger brother was in a relationship for two months, then married. They have been married for 3 years.

preferablyyoung	If you love him or in love with him, go for it. It is the way you feel about him. I would go for it..... Congratulations.

jiexidi	Depends on how much time you have spent together in those 8 months to really get to know each other. I am leaning towards yes.

Jacky	no