
berlieme1
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they are only as lazy as you let her to be, and maybe she's stuck in the 60's and 50's. you need to have an adult talk because communication is the best, and it helps the relationship |
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cutekeeps
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I too ask do you help? I have a two year old and two stepsons and going to school full time . Have you ever taken care of your one year old for a full day? that takes a lot of work. Being a mom is a 24 hour job give her a break and help out if you both pitch in it will seem like nothing. |
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aurora_xtc
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This might be a novel idea but why not get off ur backside and HELP. Its ur house/child as well. As for the intimacy she probably doesnt fancy u any more. Wonder why... |
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trade_info
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do some reading on the subject, if it continues to be a problem, both of you should seek counseling.
postpartem depression |
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steveswifeof16years
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no |
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keekee
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and what are you doing to help her out?? Of course she is tired caring for a 1 year old and when you are tired intimacy goes right out the window.
Help her out man and she might just give you what you need if you meet her half way. :D |
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jeffrey589
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Is all husbands that don't appreciate their wives have four grade edgimacation |
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Rabi
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no my mom is very very active she is an actor name aishwarya |
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evulhotdog
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you need to get moving with her |
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charleedude
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Maybe she is stressed out and needs help from YOU! You have to remember that she had the baby inside of her for 7-9 months and that wasn't as fun as you may think. Maybe she need to be made to feel that she is important and you are willing to help out with the child without being asked to do so. Try a little tenderness and understanding and if that doesn't work find counseling. |
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youngwoman
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Not all wives are lazy nor as all husbands. There are some wives that are more hardworking and their husbands are just the opposite. To my point of view, I would say in most families, the wife does more housework than the husband. Are you trying to critize women now? |
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maillemail
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only if they have lazy husbands |
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oohhbother
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yes. you should immediately divorce and stay unmarried for life. |
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Simply_Renee
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She might be depressed, and she is busy.
Try cleaning up and taking care of your child more, you wouldn't believe what a turn on it is to us women. Cherish her, and she will cherish you back!
You do the first move! |
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rachealt_ff52786
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no no noimagind quirting a water melon out our a$$ and have all the hormones raging through your body and see if you recover a year later. plus you try handle a 1 year old all by yourself fora year |
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zoya
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Sorry,doesn't apply to me! I have a job and 3 kids and a husband and a small hobby farm for the kids PLUS... and keep up with it all. HOWEVER!!! MY husband pitches in and helps out! DO YOU??? |
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melchiahus
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Yes Be wives is allz beenz lazy butz sometimz dey willz workz if youz payz dem. or gib dem fried chiken ! |
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High on Life!!!
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Talk to her. You also need to help and be nice to her. It is not easy taking care of a child. |
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thisisme
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maybe you are the one who has changed. maybe you are jealous of the baby and maybe you got fat and she does not want to be intimate with you because your attitude. |
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fucjihad
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ya until you slap the old ball and chain |
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Margaret
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Kids take a lot of time and energy...If you don't ever help her, no wonder she's tired a lot....Do you ever go on dates anymore and get a babysitter? |
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swt_hmf
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No and i know that because my mom is a very hard working woman and her a nd my dad has been married for 8 years |
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iris
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Let her leave you for a month with the kid(s) and the house work and everything else and see how easy it is! |
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Scarlet
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Ugh....thats so sad.. What do you do around the house to help??? |
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sexyjeny
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only your wife. |
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abalakris
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Well talk to her about it. how do you know what is running in her mind? Tell her what you think and how you feel...And then ask her if things can be worked out. |
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m434u
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why would any girl want you. you can't even form a question correctly. |
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eminem11
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not mine she does everything |
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