Is anyone as upset by this question (and many of the responses) as I am?
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Is anyone as upset by this question (and many of the responses) as I am?
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Do people actually think women have "sold" their bodies to their husband, and that a woman should never say no if she love her husband? And if she does say 'no', that the husband has the right to force her, anyway?
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sheloves_dablues
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I'm not upset with the question. When someone is ignorant, the right thing to do is to seek clarification. Obviously, this person thinks that all married women just spread their legs whenever thier husbands want them to, and doesn't know why they wouldn't. She's entitled to her own viewpoint.
The answers I read (I didn't read them all) were all pretty clear that they thought she was missing the point, but like a lot of Q&A here, the best answer was awarded to the person who validated her opinion, not the "best" answer. |
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bindysdogs
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A man, A husband, A boyfriend, A friend, No one but no one has the right to take something that is not theirs without permission. When a woman says no, she may have a headache, be overly tired, not in the mood....what ever her reason is...it's a NO. No one has the right to force anyone into anything. If a father or mother tells their child no, and the child does it anyway, it does not give them the right to hit the child with their hand, switch or belt or whatever. Just because it's their child, they do not own the child. When you marry he or she does not own you. I don't think this could get any plainer. or simpler |
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Sandy Ego
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Chill, it's a fake question asked by a troll to get exactly this kind of reaction out of you. |
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Happy-2
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I honestly don't think they're using the term "sold" in a literal sense, any more than people who use the euphemism, "Why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free?" When you get married, you're obviously not buying anything. It's just an expression. Don't get bent out of shape. |
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L B
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You have to accept that everyone has different experiences, different values, different cultures. We don't have to agree with it but we should try to help them where we can. |
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charlotte
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yeah i see what you mean, even if the woman is married to her husband it doesnt automatically mean he owns her and there she must do everything he wants her to, that would not be a marriage at alll..its a two way street |
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Georgio Golgani Top Contributor
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Sold?
yes when you get married you sell your soul and your body to the devil known as marriage. |
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Antonia
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what the heck , that happens to be one of the dumbest things ive read in a long time . no man ever has the right to force his self on a woman married or not . you can never be sure about anybodys situation so how dare them judge |
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maggie
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the answer she picked was pretty retarded. she obviously didn't pay any attention to people who really answered her question and had her mind made up from the beginning. |
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Shortii <3
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i am =C |
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Valerie X Account #17 MEAN GIRL
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Those women are morons...well, most of them are.
ANY woman who has been attacked by a spouse or significant other KNOWS it is possible to be raped by them. |
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gracie2
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that is VERY upsetting and WRONG!!! a women has control of her body and no man should tell her other wise |
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Liberty R
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That is awful
That is a very unfair way to treat a woman, we arent objects! We have just as many rights as a man, dont we? We should have a say in what we want and what we recieve and give. That is appaling and obviously there are people who actually think that is an okay way to treat females! x |
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applecheeks
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That's very sad and pathetic. Obviously those people have never heard of domestic violence and how to treat you partner with respect.
Sometimes you just have to wonder about people in this world.... |
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kaathuhhrine
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yea i agree with you.
that question about rape
was due to ignorance |
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Beige Brown Blues
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ugh.people like that are sick |
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Sabine É
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people are silly- asking silly questions, getting silly answers |
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pookiemama
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what is this guy foreign or from the dark age's that is upsetting! |
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