Is being honest with my wife the best course when I cheated on her with her sister?

smw	Hey dude!! It's no biggy. Go to Mexico. Her and your brother will be just fine.

marisu	at this point when you are deliberating on being honest with her, there is still that option of jumping back to her sister. if you really love your wife, you should be honest and tell her about it but you have to be prepared for the consequences, aside from the making up that you will have to do. a stable relationship should have trust as its foundation, you will have to be willing to work hard to earn that trust back. as you think of doing that, are you ever feeling sorry for what you did? if you're not, and you feel within you that you will do it again the next chance you get, then save the drama, get a divorce and if you feel it's her sister that you really want to spend the rest of your life with then go for it.

LUIS A	you know you messed up and you can't sleep at night, yet you're trying to hear from others that it's ok and that all will be alright. NO!!! It isn't and will not be alright......ever. You will have to live with your conscience of having hurt your wife.....if you "love her", which is obvious you don't since your still debating whether to keep her or run off with the sister. I hope she catches you and kicks your *** to the curb. I could understand if for some reason you fell in love with her sister and ended your relationship to be with the sister....no one can control the heart, but not to sit there and wonder if you should still hide it. How much longer do you think this will last? You don't know what you want and you're dragging your loved ones in your mess. If you no longer love your wife, then for everyone's sake, move on and end it already!

chris l	dammit man, you did the worst thing you could possibly do. what you do now, will come back to you. if you run, go by yourself. your in a no win situation. no matter what you do, youll be wrong in someones eyes. its this kinda stuff that makes me glad im single.

xodusj	wow you must want to die!!!! i mean you really cheated on a woman in this day and age with her sister??!! anyway i think you and your wife's sister should sort out yourselves because if you tell her that leaves her sister hanging in the balance but if you dont then you might have to live it for the rest of your life. goood luck and i mean that in the most symapthetic of ways

Hollynfaith	Aren't you a bright one? The sister? Heck, why not go for the mom while you're at it? Unreal buddy. Not much to patch up here beside the hole in your head that oozed out the brains.

jim z	I think her sister knows that you can't be trusted very far

Just_Curious	Why not? If you don't tell her now, then she will just find out later. Why keep her hopes up till then? I can't believe you and her sister don't have any more respect for her feelings or your marriage than that. That's cold.

JustMe!	you dirty, dirty man!!!

Betty	I don't believe in divorce. But, you should be honest with your wife and leave anyway. I'm sure she deserves a better life than this. You should really be ashamed of your actions!

tinamaries43	Your so full of sh=it. G o on jerry springer.

WKDPIXY	You wouldn't last long...pale skin white boys don't reside long in Mexico... You're cracking me up with this shite you know....

inmate3685	Take the tramp sister and your stupid ***, and go to Mexico, and stay there.

Ed Y	If asking about verbal honesty is your only question, you have a lot of learning to do.

swright76@sbcglobal.net	well after the divorce she is taking half of everything..........best thing you can do is stop nailing her sister. and pray to god she does not take you to the cleaners when she does find out......your *** is grass..........ROTFLMFAO

Eric F	honest in this case will probably get you a divorce and her sister losing her sisters trust and friendship. you can try it the old fashioned way.. all 3 of you get together, and just say the truth, say it was a 1 time thing, you're both sorry and hope she forgives both of you. (if you want to keep her as your wife, if not, file for divorce and move out while she's gone).

iwantsomeonetoeatcheeesewith	dude. u are one lucky son of a *****! u got it on with your wife's sister! holy cow man. i am so jealous. its up there with other male fantasies. like nurses or college girls. anyway, u should let her know. running away is kinda chicken like

kimmy t	OH MY GOD ......YOU SON OF A B****

?	Go with the sister..........hmmmm , forbidden fruits ...yum yum

Carlos	run away with her mom that should send a message

Naomi	Do to others what you would like done to you. Tell the truth!!

cherry-o	Tough one dude. Honesty is best policy, but in this case, it will only trouble the relationship to the 1st degree.

Lady D. J.	YEAH JUST GO AWAY GOOD RID!!!!

jobugg257	run, run far and fast. if my husband cheated on me with my sister, i know i could make his death look like an accident, especially with hunting season coming

chew	how about you tell her...patching things up...isn't going to work unless she really really truly loves you...if i was her i would tell you buy and get a divorce and take all your money loll...just being truthful

mhykz	be brave enough to settle yopu accounts with your wife!!!!

Jen G	That is the lowest of lows. I don't know who should be more ashamed, you or her sister. Maybe you should go on Jerry Spring and tell your wife.

Michael W	It depends. How much do you love her sister? And is she such a good lay that it's worth breaking up your marriage?

janette_631	dork

Carrie!	You should ask Bill Clinton first.