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I think there is nothing wrong with chatting but flirting can easily lead to adultry there is alot of temptation that can be involved |
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♥♥ LINDA ♥♥
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DEPENDS ON WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT. JUST ASK YOURSELF THIS, IF YOUR WIFE WAS DOING THE SAME THING WOULD YOU BE OK WITH IT? |
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cmdrbnd007
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Would you consider it cheating if you were doing it face to face? Would you like your spouse doing it to you? Ask yourself these questions and base the answer to your question on how you answered my two questions. |
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HappyBunny
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It could potentially be a stepping stone to actual cheating. Finding something in someone else that your spouse isnt fullfilling can lead to that and its really easy to do that online because you think its not wrong and you think its not going to lead to anything. flirting with someone else in any manner is disrespectful to your spouse. |
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gone!
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certainly. the thoughts are there and if the person were there you'd probably act on the thoughts |
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taken072304
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in a way yes your opening the door for something more to happen. I'm sure it feels good to have that extra attention but in your heart if you feel gulity then don't do it, especially if you love your husband and don't want problems in the future! |
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gfrog82
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no. if he chats with a woman/man @ work is that cheating? NO IT ISN"T. Just shows the other persons insecurity which is a major turn off. |
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samans442
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If feelings of lust or love come into play, then yes. Giving that type of attention to anyone else is being disrespectful to your spouse. If you're in a situation that you think might develop into something romantic, you should probably cut off the relationship now before things get worse.
The more love and attention you pour into your significant other, the more you'll get back in return. |
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Artemis
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Yes, its the same as flirting with the checkout girl at Stop and Shop. |
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ilmlm
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I suppose it depends on the extents of the flirting, like is it really outrageous or just casual flirting? In my group of friends we have casual flirting which our other halves don't mind as we're all really close so nothing would come of it.
However if it was flirting like, "I want to do you right now", that's DEFINITELY cheating.
Just put yourself in the position of your other half. Would you want them to flirt online with other people? |
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Me
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yes |
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steven25t
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its not only cheating but its pathetic, plus how you know you chat with a girl. it can be a guy as well. :) |
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Wolfithius
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It depends on the motives and content, but generally we would all look at flirting as cheating (but not adultery). |
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LJ
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Yes I think so if your flirting online
your cheating emotionally |
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chuck
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YES! |
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evelyngrz
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yes..and why would you even want to do something so stupid like chat online with someone that you don't even know.. |
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Roxanne G
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yup if your signifigant other did it would you like it? |
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Shady Lane
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are you trying to separate yourself from him/her or trying to make them jealous? |
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booboo
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Thats a toughy...you shouldn't flirt with people really, but I wouldn't go right for cheating. I would just stay away from any of that, sounds like muddy waters...peoples opinion of what is or isn't cheating varies from person to person...so I wouldn't mess with that situation. |
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Greasy Tony
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Yes, and it could lead to more. |
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Savannah
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yes definitly....ask your spouse what they think |
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Lotus Phoenix
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if you can both do it then its fine. Would you mind if your spouse was chatting and flirting online???? |
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sunflower
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Yes, I think it is cheating and it can lead to adultery. |
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jocln312
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It's not really cheating but would you want your spouse to do it behind your back??? |
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drea D
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yes. |
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Orly?
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no its just pathetic. |
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brainfreeze007
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Yes |
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