Is it a good idea to share your fantasies with your lover?

~just_jd~	It didn't do any good to voice them...he didn't shave his head an wear his army cap for me! So I am still stuck with my naughty fantasies...

JAY J	A solid marriage should mean that anything in the bedroom between two people should be open and possible. If your lady asked you to do some crazy stuff to her, wouldn't you do it for her to satisfy that curiosity? I would hope she would feel the same way. You just got to watch out for those hang-ups, and be really careful if your fantasies include other women. those things can create jealousy and regret.

PDH	It depends on the fantasy. You need to know your lover first and know what kinds of things will cause problems. If your partner is the jealous type and your fantasy involves another person, it is probably best to keep that to yourself. Use discretion and be sensitive to your partners feelings, but within reason sharing fantasies is a good way to communicate intimate feelings together. Your partner may have some to share with you as well. :-)

mamachula01	It depends how open minded your lover is!! I had a bad experience with that, just be careful!!

rpoker	yah I did my oldlady, shes a freak now

momof3	Absolutely...how else would he/she know how to please you in the way you want to be or dreamed of? Men can't mind read that's for sure! And neither can we! Have fun...

big_family_12	As long as your fantasies are not about a someone you know that is not your lover...that can lead to a planted seed

B K	Usually not a good idea at all.

Jacinda	yes... it's OK to share your fantasy with a lover, only if they're in it

James C	If the fantasies are about 2 other women together...probaly not. But if your fantasies are about your partner...why not? Things may just happen where those may come true, because you expressed to that person what you really wanted. Good luck.

dianesomeone	yes...as long as you don't think they will threaten his ego....

Just_gone	It will make it or break it, but if you share fantasies, you have just kicked in the afterburner, fasten your seatbelt!

sarabmw	Fantasies should be left as fanstasies, strictly for your mind and your mind only, either your partners could be hurt by them, shock, insulted, jealous, or may want to try at everything to fulfill them, which means you'll only find new fantasy's. Enjoy your imagination!! It's all yours!

Gummy Bear	well it would all depend on how open you both were to letting each other know your fantasies. I mean only you know your lover and no one can tell how that person will react. I mean ask them if anything you can trade you tell one and they tell one. Take it slow dont just jump in and start spilling your guts and then come to find out they aren't so willing to share now b/c they will think you will think less of them. Good luck

Chuck	No it is good! I share mine with my wife and lover...

jane c	of course you must tell them - how else will they ever happen! probably tell them when you are in an intimate moment!! its not a good idea to just tell them when you're out at Sainsburys!! lol

TIA	no don't tell unless you are sure they will be into it.because if they are uptight it will cause some friction in your life .some people just aren't as open as others.

Alana â™¥PeAcEâ™¥	Yes...its an excellent idea. It can only improve your relationship.

shambuca	if you feel comfortable enough with this person - then by all means share away!

Rebecca	Only if you want them to come true..

Candi	If you want your fantasies to come true, then you must speak out! Maybe it may just happen and then you'll have to find a new fantasy

â™¥Sabreâ™¥	if your fantasies are about your lover then yes

Jeff	Sure. Why not? I mean, if you share in every other area of your life, why not share fantasies? It could be fun.

Bella	only if the other party wants to hear it. and even then go slow. take it a step higher a little at a time.

silver01222000	yes if they are open to

Wayne T	Probably not, unless your fantasies are only about your lover.

,	SHARE WHAT FANTASIES?