Is it cheating to receive a lap dance?

leerus	no i don' think it is but if it goes any father then it is cheating

C_DOGG	no

Just Some Girl	It all depends on the feeling of the couple. Would it be cheating to have a stripper come to your house? Only if YOU and he agreed that it was. It's not for one person to decide. Would it be cheating if you two went to a strip club together and YOU got a lap dance from a female stripper?

Pink 23	Hmm...good question. I guess I would have to say no, its not cheating. So long as it is strictly a dance, but I've been to strip clubs and sometimes a lap dance could lead to kissing and touching, etc... I would, however, be upset if I wasn't there to monitor the lap dance being done on my husband. Or, if he does it when I'm not around, I would hope that he would conduct himself appropriately.

mjmayer188	No, probably not. (At least it would not be if I was getting one.) On the other hand, regular trips to a strip club isn't right either.

Steve Dave	no its not, strippers are not real people.

Vivianna	It's not cheating exactly but it's not appropriate behavior for a husband either.

Classy Lady	If you're married hell yes.

867-5309 "Jenny"	Depends on what kind of establishment the strip club is,, some have dark little V.P. sections were for a couple hundred bucks the stripper does more than dances on the man's lap.. Those G-strings slip to the side very easily and the man never has to put his hands on her.. So yeah it's cheating.

nikie_atkinson	no its not cheating but it is definitely inappropriate! if you want a lap dance so bad then have him give you one or if its him wanting one then give him one. I did it for my husband and he LOVED it! :)

Josh L	Lap dances are pretty dang nasty, the whole purpose it to make the guy **** his load in his pants. It is like getting a hand job except a girl does it with her booty.

I miss Thailand!!!!	I don't know about anyone else...but the thought of some disease infested hoochy rubbin her poon tang on my man makes me want to throw up...ugghhhh. I guess it's not cheating, but how would you guys feel if you knew your woman was out gettin all hot and bothered by a guy rubbin his package all over her LOL..not a pretty picture is it...

drewxjacobs	Let's put it this way, I don't think married men should even be in strip bars. But I'm sure that is at least 60% of their clientel.

HEY...WHAT CAN I SAY?	yes it is!!! it all starts in the heart travels to the head and then into real actions... it all starts like that....

Christie Brucks	it isn't cheating, but it is definately thinking about cheating which usually leads to cheating. not a healthy environment for a happily married man to stay in.

Lulu	It depends, how would he/she feel if their partner gets the same treat?

LadyRed4u727	Not cheating but VERY disrespectful!!

Thatgrumpyguy	Switch it up, what if you got the lap dance, or gave it? Would you feel as if you cheated?

Barb	Not in my opinion. My husband has had lap dances before and I never felt threatened. (and I've been married for 18 years)

Mrs. Neil	I think so .... if your husband is lusting over another woman and she us rubbing all her stuff all over him WHILE he is lusting over her ... it may as well be cheating even its technically only emotinal cheating

Jason F	I guess it is up to you and your man. I would say no, as would most of the GFs I've had.

I say this and that	No, but you should discuss your COUPLE boundaries in advance

Becky B	its not cheating, but its sure cheating the other one out of trust, thats for sure. now it will make you feel insecure, and that cheated you..

Chucklehead	no

br@ski	i guess it just really depends on the person to me it would be considered cheating

Mickey V	I sure hope not.

Fantasy Dominator	No but it's putting the physical idea of it in one's head--a major NO NO!

KissMyBuk!	no

pitchingcoach	No but it's tempting fate.