Is it necessary to tell the wife

WhyNotMe	in today's world life is to short, @ the end of the day if u have someone u can go home 2. then YES tell ur wife daily as much as possible how much u love & appericate her.

duvaldiva.com	Yes, we need to hear it...Do what it takes to make her happy. I'm guessing you're asking this because wifey has gotten on your azz about not telling her how you feel. We all know that men are not sentimental beings but you all could definitely try harder at being so sometimes.

cobrasnake	When you are dating,you do;so, why not do the same when you are married.Dating or married, the love must be the same. Love is love.

dionne m	no

free_angel	If she's a strong willed non clingy person, you don't want to say it too often. It'll get on her nerves.

Justin's Wife of 10 Years!!	Honestly, I think that it is not "necessary" but it makes her feel sooo good, it brightens her day.. and it should do the same for you when she says I love you to.

Tiger J	Really depends on the wife,......someone who needs to hear it constantly, has issues. Of course it's nice to hear, men like to know they are loved and appreciated too. But you have to remember, just saying it doesn't necessarily mean it,....it can also be expressed in actions as well. A secure man or woman,....does not need reaffirmation on a constant basis.

cindos_69	yes it's nice to know you're loved and appreciated. i don't understand what's so hard about saying it. it's only 3 words

GRINGO	No, I do not think it is necessary but it wouldn't hurt to tell her how much you appreciate her and love her once in awhile.

super girl	nooooo! but once in a while wont hurt.

Rocky C	You make it sound like a job to say I love you daily. Saying I love you should not be something you have to do. It should just come naturally simply because you love that person and because you want to say it! Your wife should not want you to say it just because she wants to hear it. She should realize that you already love her and that goes unsaid. Just because someone says I love you doesn't make it any better or more special, it's the actions that show love. If you feel it then tell her you love her but it should not become a daily function like having a bowel movement or urination or going to work. Telling her you love should feel good and be spontaneous. Just as being told I love you, it should feel good and it is not a chore.

orionsgirl76	Yes, as long as you mean it.

arkiemom	If you consider it to be such a "chore" - maybe it is because the feeling isn't genuine. My husband and I tell each other that a minimum of 5 to 6 times a day. And no - we aren't young nor are we newlyweds. We just like to express our love and appreciation for each other. If it is because you are uncomfortable with the words - try leaving little love notes for her in an unexpected place like her coat pocket or stuck inside her purse. You might be surprised at the benefits!

emarlow15	it never hurts to say it daily. lets her know that you do

Lady Dee	yes and no.

â™¥ YaHabibeDisney â™¥	you should try i guess i dont think my husband says it every day but i know he loves me honestly somedays are just too busy and hectic and by the end u realize hey i probably didnt say all the things i should have but if u just dont want to thats different..women need to hear it even though we're married it makes us feel better :)

womenspantiesrule	yes and you have to really mean it. its so much better for you to tell her because you love her and want to then you saying it after she has to ask you. huge huge difference

~Jessica~	NO, it isn't necessary, yet, it produces much happiness in the marriage.

I'm just me	No, realistically it's not. She knows. But it's always nice to hear. But say it sincerely. To me it sounds so false when people say it so often it comes across with as much meaning "see you later".

ric6k9	tell her as often as you can

tkd28282003	only if you want to get some, if she wants it all the time (the i love you) tell her if used too much i loses it's effect

Debbie A	Depends on how devoted you are to this relationship. So many times we forget how we won the person were married to. And we need that to keep that flame ignited.

Smiley Freckles	no but it is nice to hear. some women are insecure so they need to hear that on a daily basis in order to make them feel secure and it lets them know that someone loves them.

erica	sure,do you?

hideemosquito	Why is taking two seconds to affirm your feelings toward her such a trial? If it makes her feel better tell her! Women need to know that you love them, we're different than men, if we don't hear it for a while we stop believing it. If you love her then tell her! It's not that hard.

crazylegs	I believe it is very necessary to inform your spouse on a daily basis that you love them. Not only tell them that but how grateful you are to have them in your life, and show them also.

60s Chick	How can it hurt? It's a little thing and it'll make her happy (even if it's hard to do for you!). Try it and see what difference it makes.I'd love it if my husband told me that every day!!

chick	yes

nellymagnum	noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooâ€¦