
Carli's Game
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A MARRIED MAN SAID THIS TO ME, BUT I'M GAY SO I ANSWERED. HE AND I ARE COOL FOR 4 YRS AND HIS WIFE IS NOTHING BUT NICE TO ME. BUT IN ALL RESPECT IF THE GIRL IS STRAIGHT- NO. IT'S NONE OF HIS DARN BUSINESS. HE IS LOOKING FOR A FLING SOMEWHERE. |
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LSU_Tiger23
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Sure he can ask. I'd be more concerned about why he's asking. |
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yelo
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why he cares? unless they're friends.. |
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Battery Operated Boyfriend
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Nothing wrong with that. He thinks you are attractive. He might have a friend or relative that he'd like to set you up with. |
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Greenie
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no, not just a married man, but any man who is in a committed relationship. It crosses a boundary and is completely disrespectful to the woman he is involved with and the other woman, for he is leading her to believe he is available and to himself, doesn't show much self respect is this is a way he carries himself. |
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Betty B
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If he is happily married then he should not ask that question or the comment for it is none of his business......... |
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daisycm
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its fine as long as he isnt trying anything with the women. he is allowed to have an opion about other women |
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micha
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no its not right. It proves that the man is a cheater |
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Tim H
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HELL NO! |
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Desiree
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other than most of the answers here saying it's not his business, how do you see it yourself? it takes two to tango, remember that. |
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NiceGuyBigMember
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Sounds ok to me |
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ndnqt1966
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I would kick my husband's *ss if he said this to a woman that he doesn't know. |
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Joeys_Mama
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no its not ok...he is married he shouldnt even look at another women |
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durtyboyz2005
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No that is completely inappropriate...... |
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tootsiebrownie
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It depends sometimes we take things to literal. Maybe he just wants to know if she's available because he might have a friend for her. |
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i like people
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no that means that the man might try someting with the beautiful woman but he can tell her that she is beautiful but asking if she has a man in her life that is just crossing the line |
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Nick Z
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It depends on why he was asking her all this. If he has some single relative or friend in mind that he thinks would be good to get acquainted with her. Then this is good and proper behavior.
But if he is interested in her for himself. Then of course his behavior is inappropriate. |
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sue h
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No. |
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ducksixty8
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If I see a pretty lady, I dont mind telling her but of course if she is married/boyfriend its always nice to know so ya dont get your *** kicked when ya flirt with them. |
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Henry C
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It depends on his situation.
It's okay to tell another woman that she is attractive - he's got to be careful not sound like he's flirting or what. Also, he ought to know if his wife is okay with stuff like this. Would it be a concern? Would she worry that he's a player?
If it's okay, perhaps he is asking for a friend. However, I'd think he would make it clear that he wasn't asking for himself right off the bat. |
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Ade
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um...
I'd let it go. But if he went any further than that, you step on his foot. He probably just got ruffled being around a beautiful woman. |
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rima331
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NO..unless it is understood that this man is a lyig cheating piece of ****. |
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Nina Lee
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Hell no, why would he care about her marital status if he's married? |
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Ricardo R
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Well it seems like if you really liked it. Didn't you? Are you happy in your marriage? If yes, then don't worry about it. Just be happy that other guy finds you gorgeous. Now if you are not happy, then you have to think if you like this guy who told you you were gorgeous. If you do like him, then play it by ear. Who knows what it will lead to. Just go with the flow. Any way, good luck in your endeavor. |
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Poppet
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Depends. Is he asking her relationship status for himself OR for a friend?
I have a dear friend, David, who just got married because one of his married friends, Greg, took it upon himself to ask the floor secretary if she was involved with anyone. Greg was always trying to get David set up....this time he succeeded. |
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Konnie M
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Nope. Sounds to me like he's hitting on her. |
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xyz
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No I would be so mad if my husband did that. I think that is total disrespect. |
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contessa
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NO.. |
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Kc
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Sorry I hadn't read your question properly.
Obviously not, he has no business asking her such a question as he is not available himself, unless he is trying to play match maker for a friend.
On the other hand, some men are just big flirt and enjoy a carry on just to show off their chatting line! |
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