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Is it ok for a husband to leave the wife who is nursing and other young kids home while he goes to a party?

I can't go because I am nursing and have to look after the other little ones as well. His family frequently has parties and he is now going to attend another one without me of course because I am nursing and won't stay up till late hours drinking with a new baby.







baby4kids
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no


trouble_11668
It really depends...does he stay home with the babies sometimes so you can go out? They do have breast pumps so you can go places. And you can get a baby sitter and go out with your husband.

I think you guys need to have some communication and set some ground rules that you both can live by.


♥*d!z~!z~m3*♥
HECK NO!!! you should make him stay! girl how can you let him go and have a jolly good time while your over here suffering trying to be the responsible parent?!?!


aceoangels
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if he helps out a lot then yes its fine - if he never helps then **** him


Cleo (in disguise)
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Hmmm. Next time plan your pregnancy for AFTER the holidays.


Conflicted
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Four words for you:

Breast pump and babysitter.


Kevin J
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if its once in a while, it should be understandable
but if it happens frequently, then it's pretty rude and disrespectful to you and you should talk to him about it


Proud wife
I think it's kinda crappy of him to do. You guys are a family and he's supposed to be there for you. I don't see anything wrong if he goes once in a while, or if you guys take turns going out, but to leave you there all the time to take care of the kids alone.... thats wrong, he's supposed to be your PARTNER. He needs to act like it.
You didn't make those kids alone, he helped make them he should help take care of them and stop partying so much


rangers bairn..we won the league
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he shouldn't be doing that, its very inconsiderate, im a new dad and i wouldn't dream of it, this is so wrong.. you need to deal with this, but you know this already don't you


q.h.luvr
I guess it's ok for him to go out sometimes, but if he's faithful you would think he'd rather be with you most of the time than go out partying. Respect his freedom, but don't let him take advantage of you like that.


Play nice, children
Not okay.


The Lemur v1.03
Well there should be a compromise. He should still see his family some but not all the time if youre home with baby.


PrettyPrettyLittleBirdy!
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Im sure it'll be fine every noe and then, but make sure you also get a break while he stays home to look after the kids :D


Mikey Way
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Chuck Norris


natalie
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jeeze everyones freaking out its not that big of a deal. he's going to like what a dinner party for his parents not going clubbing with the boys til 3am. its annoying but that doesnt make him a horrible person. in fact it shows his good values for being with you in the day and taking the weekend off once in a while to see his other family too.

i see how thats frusterating for a new mom with kids
but he has an obligation to his family too
if it keeps happening id express your concern and ask him to maybe skip the next one to help you out.


frankzilla naked at the beach
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SOME HELP.. i honestly wouldnt go.


Jersey D
Absolutely not! You need to at least have the option to leave the house before he should even consider it. I would talk to him about it, that's not fair.


simple
that's really messed up if he goes!


☂♫♥☮ Taylo
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of course not he should help you!


Mur Cripmus
Yes, if she's fat.


Gino M
In my opinion, its not acceptable.

I am not sure though, I am 14 =)


penguingirl00007
I'd be pissed


Sophie
no


stseukn
He may go, but when he got home to me, he wouldn't be able to get in the front door.


No, it's not okay.


J.J.
It must be..Your allowing it!


Hanson W
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No!!!


LetLive.
its not really a nice thing for him to do.
i mean not if this is a frequent thing.
he should be at home helping you out.







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