Is it ok to chat on line with someone (male) while you still married?

April	What would be its purpose if not to try to make a connection??? No, it is not a good thing...

just browsin	No. I chat with MY man.

david_blimmo	Sure, go for it! Get down and dirty.

Centurion	That depends on your intent.

jammer	I don't chat, but I would feel uncomfortable about chatting to a male without telling my hubby. As long as it remains on a friendly basis, there's nothing wrong with it.

tragedy16	No..would you like it if your husband were chatting with another female online....

soledad67	Is it something you would do in front of your husband and can you be honest with your husband on what you are doing and secondly it depends on whether you are talking about .If it is personal stop it ! your husband and you need to sit down and talk and maybe you need to read some materials on self esteem ... If your just chitter chatting about nothing and your husband knows go for it...

dragonfire	no why would you need to talk to another guy it usaly ends up in cheating

djmbk69	In my opinion. NO. As ive had that happen to me and my ex went off with him. But thats just my opinion.

addicted2stamping	No, absolutly not.

Jax	No no no...only leads to trouble. If you DO decide to try, if AT ANY POINT, you think it best to lie about what you are doing,s top immediately. Once you start lying about it, you know you are in too deep.

Crystal	It depends on what kind of relationship you have with your husband. Is he the jealous type? Are you the jealous type? Would you want your husband chatting online with another woman? How would that make you feel? Those questions will help you choose the right decision for you on whether or not you want to chat online with another male.

bonnie	well i don't think my man would like it to much

wiccitywack	nope, not at all.

Holly	.its fine, just don't flirt with him at all and make it clear to him that your married and love your spouse very much

pinniethewooh	It's an invitation for trouble. You many know your intent, but you don't know the intent of the person on the other end.

charmel5496	why not..i have a couple male friends i chat with..we talk about sports,mainly hockey and our kids since they are the same age

Shannon	Hey I think it isn't really a matter if it is wrong or right. I think it comes down to is it right for your situation. Is your husband ok with it? If there is trust and he doesn't mind, and it's an open agreement, then I don't see the problem. But if he is insecure and would be upset by it ( only you know him best) Then it would be the wrong thing to do. It could cause conflicts in your marriage if he doesn't agree to it. Some marriges have the confidence and trust in each other and faithfulness to allow it, while others are destroyed by just the mere thought of infedility. Is your hubby ok with this? Also does the male on the other end respect that you are married. Some people will flirt caring less that the person is married. I have a male friend that I have chatted with in the past his time is very occupied now with work. But he never crossed lines, my husband was aware of our friendship and never had an issue. I often discussed my conversations with my husband that we had. So like I said it depends on your situation and your husbands feelings most of all. Goodluck!

peace	chat with your man

Flab	I'm married and I chat online with people (males & females) of all ages and discuss any topic. It's my hobby. I have found that it has broadened my perspective on many topics and brought me into contact with some really great people and the occasional cretin too. Thank heavens for the ignore button. You can set the agenda for chat topics. Make it clear from the start what you will chat about and what you will not. Most people respect you for that. Those that don't you can ignore or they will leave to pursue what they want elsewhere. I would download Yahoo Messenger and visit the chat rooms. Find one where you are comfortable & chat away. Have fun!

s w	yes its ok...its not like ur screwing him.

chemky1	I would say you are asking for trouble. I know your married, not dead BUT guys online can get the wrong idea.....they talk, then they want to meet etc etc you need to be careful. Ask your husband and if he says he minds then don't do it. Would you want him chatting with women?

ReRe	yes just don't give out personal info something serious like he might like u and wanna meet ya and woops ur married!

Sami	well if so you should tell your husband first becuase if he finds out that you didnt tell him he would assume the worst but other than that have fun in cyber space

jessiclause	What kind of chatting are you doing? Is it the kind of chatting you would do in the line at the grocery store or is it the kind of chatting that you could actually pay $2.00 a minute? Here's the thing, if it's grocery store chatting, knock yourself out but if its 1-900 chatting, some may view that as cheating. Personally, I think if you take it off line, ie:phone, person, etc. then it definately becomes cheating.

sassywv	No, it is not ok. It will ruin your marriage, it's just another form of cheating. There are plenty of females to talk to on here if you want to talk to someone

justme	i do not see why not...i do it....it all depends what you are planning on chatting about