Is it ok to cheat on my wife if she has cancer?

RebelGirl26	of course not! She needs you more than ever right now. If she's terminal, she'll assume you will move on without her after she passes away, but cheating while she's sick is even crueler than if she wasn't.

MissingYou! <3	no you should be supporting her not leaving her! And that you even thought about this is horrible. maybe you should leave her if you have such thoughts.

Paula	why on earth would you want to cheat on your wife if she has cancer..you're suppose to be by her side and support her..not run off and find someone else..shame on you...

Barb Outhere	Reverse the question. "Would you want your wife cheating on you, if you had cancer?" No? Then you have your answer.

Steven K	Ok or not ok, it is well reasoned. A healthy person must not live an unhealthy life. Of course, only in a discrete way.

G	God from checking out all these ejaculating answerers above, I'm glad I don't live in America

Tom N.	Sure, but only if you think it's okay to cheat on her while she's healthy too. You signed an agreement, buddy. Edit: I think someone missed the joke... thanks for down voting me!

Peacelovegirlpower	NO YOU IDIOT!!!!!! Now when your wife needs you the most is when you decide to CCHEAT ON HER!!!!!! IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rebekah Lynn	Depends on the kind of cancer. I mean if it's brain cancer...she'll probably die anyway so yes. Go ahead. But some other kind of mild cancer...eh probably no the best idea. Just don't get caught.

Linds	hell no ... that is the second reason NOT too... the first reason being that you are married and shes your wife... do not CHEAT.. please. if she's dying you want her to go in peace.

Emily's Mom	How do you even call yourself a man?!!! You have to be really messed up to even ask such a thing!!! My suggestion for you is for you to get the Lord in your life.

Namita Singh	how about u have cancer......can your wife cheat on you. I know it's a little cliche answer but do one think if u are really a man(as u want to cheat on her ... so i guess u are one) ask her permission.

Daniel	Theres 4 reasons why u should not cheat 1) ur goin to break her heart 2) how will u like it if u had cancer and she cheated 3) it's a sin god doesn't like that 4) she needs ur love and she needs someone to be there for her

Brianna	WOW are you friggin serious right now?!?!?!?! This is a seriously stupid question. It is ABSOLUTELY NOT ok to cheat on your wife especially considering she has cancer. Did you zone out during the "In sickness & In health" part of your vows? FYI: KARMA IS A *****!

nobody	no what the heck she is sick and needs your saport her your sapost to make her feel better not make her sad you need to be a great saporting husband and try to help her tfocus on getting better not hurt her your a crappy husband for even asking if its ok to cheat on her.

OMG!gatorade(':	Of course not!! You should be devoting even more time towards her and bettering your realtionship...you only have so long you know. Why would you even want to cheat anyways? Because she's deathly ill? And you need more "love" in your life? Thats terrible...make your wife feel better than shes ever felt with you, every moment counts...so make those moments, moments you won't regret.

Miss thang	thats nor funny if this was meant to be a joke. my gma recently died of cancer. grow up and stay by your wife she needs you. most men cheat regardless anways, so if u would do it if she has cancer u have probably done it before huh before she even got cancer. men are sick and no wonder women cheat behind ur backs....we just never get caught....hahaahahahaha dont chu feel stupid i HOPE shes cheated on u.

JoKTM	My dad's sister was dying/died of Leukemia when she was only 26 years old and she had a 6yr old daughter and a 4yr old son. Her husband cheated on her while she was dying and was not there when she died then married one of the women he cheated with shortly later. It is now 2010 and he has been married 5x and divorced currently. Karma will bite you in the @$$.

Nilesh	See dear Dont cheat anyone in life ok ...if ur confused done dins in past or what ever u have done close ur eyes and See god yes he is there Just Confess in front of him everything and Just say each and everything to your Wife dont cheat her if she has cancer she needs u and u know this is not the way of living life .....if you cheated her then someday ....u the World will cheat you ..... DO what so ever you can to be with her ...take care of her ......love her because money comes in and money comes out but the people will never come back if they gone ......just say sorry to yourself and to everybody if you have not done anything then also apologize ... and smile ...... change the way you think change youself ......you need to be relaxed and just love dear .....to your family .....but dont cheat anyone ......and at this time your wife whom you have married ......needs you ....be with her .....

curiousguy	You should think how would you feel if you were in her shoes. Besides cheating is completely immoral and forbidden by ALL religions period, because of the marriage wows you have taken. A decent person would stay by her side and help her recover from it leaving no ends upturned, even if he has to sell off everything and become bankrupt. There is always a ray of hope. Whether you really care or no its immaterial, but let us all the family of yahoo answers pray for her early recovery.

cjlpn3	No, it is not ok to cheat on her because she is sick. This is the time you should be devoting all your efforts to keep her comfortable and provide her with love. Her needs should come before yours. Quit being selfish and remember the words you spoke when you married her, you know the ones, in sickness and in health.

â™«â—D0MIN0â—â™«	no, its not ok, because when you got married you made a commitment. and remeber those words when you said i do when you heard "though sickness and health" remeber? well its wrong because you should love her no matter what, right now is when she needs you the most. she is sick and loves you. dont leave her for a nother younger woman, your wife is better. imagine if you had cancer and your wife was the only thing you had, would you want her to cheat on you? then dump you and marry another man? well its up to you, if you want to feel guitly for pretty much the rest of your life, dont do it. if your completely fine with breaking a girls heart when she NEEDS YOU MOST, then do it. the choice is yours....

Thomas	If you had phrased thing differently - say your wife had a severe head injury and is a complete vegetable and has to be institutionalized then I might have been more willing to approve - especially if you felt like you could not divorce her because your health benefits are needed for her to get the best care, but in reality the person you loved - the mind has long ago died - then yes I would allow you to meet you physical needs elsewhere as log as it stayed discreet and as long as you remained involved in your families life - including your injured wife's. Rarely is cancer a long term sentence of decades - she will either get well of she will die.