Is it okay that my husband has an obsession with other womens bodies?

32 characters-now only 8	H3LL no, it's not ok!!! There are limits....I think it would be okay if a hot chick passes by and he glances once in awhile or that he has female friends that you also feel comfortable with. But to actively join websites to for encounters with other females "friends" whether just online or face-to-face, that's total disrespect to you. I would never let someone belittle my worth like that. I probably would try to have a talk with him but if it doesn't get resolved, I'd pack his bags or walk off with no regrets.

Dirk L	You can go two ways with this. Do you trust him? I mean if he's not banging those skanks he meets online, then you're okay. However, he's married, and the only womans physique he should appreciate is yours.

*Honest Blunt Opinioner*	i would pack my bags and leave, he sounds like a cheater waiting to be born any second.

jERSEYgirlâ™¥	that's messed up .. tell him he better not be looking at any womans body but yours. that's so disrespectful. he needs to put these 'temptations' aside and learn how to treat a woman.

Kelly773	Pack the bags darlin'....

0000	wow I would have left or AT LEAST confronted him and banned any of that nasty S.H.i.t degrading to all woman ...asdlkjasd for him to see those things WHILE he is married is SICKENING...tell him to GROW UP and stop acting like a teenage boy that can not control his D..ick. It's either or..but if you're desperate and can't stand on your own two feet he will keep on hurting you emotionally and make you feel like you are NEVER good enough for him..this is a serious issue..i hope you are not too needy that causes you not to stand up for yourself. good luck

mrbud4202002	Heck no,its normal.I'm maried and check out chicks.Loooky but no touchy.

As Real As It Gets	Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu. Lighten up. The very same appreciation for feminine beauty that drew him to you is still very alive and healthy in him. As long as he limits his appreciations to visuals, you're fine. Join a few sites and stare at guys' bodies if it makes you feel better.

cutie. <3	Oh hell yea girl!! that just ain't right nothing is right about that i would be outta there by tomorrow he needs to love your body not noone elses!! do whats best for you and leave!!

L.A gurl	It sounds like you need to work it out, somehow... Maybe was he like that before you guys got married?? If so,,,he ain't gonna change grl, but maybe,, he has gain this fascination because you probly' aren't giving him that attentin he urges for. I would try using that time he spents on the website for me & himm time. Rattle him, it'll be f u n for the both of you.

jimi	Yep, he is a sleaze bag. Of course he likes looking at other women's bodies, but he should do it when you aren't watching and he should have enough class to not solicit on the Internet.

Lil Blousou	Your hubby is doing this? He didn't give such signs before you were married? like being a looker? Well, it wouldn't be ok to me, I would find it disrespectful and in a way, mentally cheating. Some women are ok with it as long as it doesn't cross a certain line. You should tell him how you feel. If he's a decent man, these things should be worked out. If not, you might want to consider walking. It's still early though. I mean, in a way, it is just a body, u r the one he is married 2. If he stopped doing romantic things or sleeping with you, I might be worried then.

yeahright	well maybe it is time for u to hit this nearby gym finally and stop munching those potato chips

not this way	your whole statements is contradiction. you think he is disrespectful, crossing the line but yet he does it again and you just watch what he does? this is nonsense, you need to make up your mind.

prissy_kitty	I think you should say "bye bye"

dust s	no the only one who is to be seen is you check it out before he starts checking them practically

Stacy S	jsut as long as he isn't sleeping with any of them i wouldn't leave but i'd talk to him about it. tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he does it?

Nirmalan	Men like to look at womens bodies and women like to show men their bodies. If your husband looks at womens bodies thats fine. If you like to show your body to men who like to look at it thats fine too. Please relax and let him enjoy yourselves without getting uptight about the way things are.

the Boss	That doesn't seem okay to me, but that's just my opinion.

?	Go work out... show him yours in about two years. Do not tell him. Work out with a guy to get him even.

avavu	I wouldn't like it one bit.I mean if my husband did it,i would ask him very,very seriously to STOP.If he didn't ,i would start packing.

martinlh	If he doesn't respect your feelings on the matter, then something needs to change. Desire is not wrong so long as he does not act on it. Desires can change with work. He's acting on it, which means he is being selfish and not paying enough attention to you. You're married. His eyes should not wander. You should seek a marriage counselor. They can help you work on overcoming his obsession. Would you have married him if every time you went on a date he flirted with other women? Would he have married you if you flirted with other men by flaunting yourself?

Justin H	I don't know if you should be ready to pack up and leave, but you should be having a serious talk with your husband. My recommendation is you let him know in no uncertain terms that you consider this to be cheating. Make sure he understands this is not a case where how you feel about what he's doing is what's important - regardless of his intentions. While this should be common sense to him, at least you are giving him the chance to see your point of view and make a change before throwing down the gantlet and threatening to walk out.

blue	i think he doesn't respect you. his love for looking at other women's bodies' and joining several websites is his way of degrading you as a woman and as his wife. as a husband, he should love, respect and protect you. if u have children, especially girls, your husband could be looking at their bodies too. he doesn't care about your feelings. and if it stays like that, he will think you are tolerating him. leave him and give him what he deserves and earn back your self-respect.

Bridgettttt.	NO. the way you used the word obsession makes it sound like he isnt fully commited to you. you defitately need to have a talk about how it makes you feel uncomfortable and that he needs to do something about that. he IS a guy however... hes not gonna stop looking at other women but he does need to stop obsessing. Just try to talk to him about how you feel about what he's doing.

mx_girl86	Yuck thats just dirty. He should be giving all his attention to you and your body. I would leave him immediately. He does not appreciate you at all. How would he feel if you joined a website and chatted with mens with their hot bodies on display?? Or put your body on a website? Its plain wrong.