Is it polite to refer to your son-in-law as an idiot-in-law?

Sharlala	Depends...does he know he's an idiot? LOL I have a brother-in-law, that I know my mother-in-law would not think twice about introducing him as her idiot-in-law...and his family too! lol

Jessica B	no, but it probably upsets your daughter, you should choose your words carefully.

SJL	it is necessary to tell ur son in law the truth. but maybe idiots a little to harsh, try Unintelligent-one.... just a suggestion

gabriel_demus	Only if he's refering to you as his Monster-in-law! LOL! Aloha!

sr04model	Hell, its your mouth, say what you have to say. All I know is you won't be calling him that for no reason.

annastasia1955ca	Polite? No, it's not. But...he must be a real idiot. You say you refer to him by that name, do you say it to his face?

brian c	only as a hint to better himself, not really cause you don't like like him. is he more successful than you?

jelzinga95	I think it would be polite if it was an accurate description - if he truly is an idiot. I think it would be best to not refer to him as such in his presence.

honey_bear_21_1999	No, its very impolite...and hateful. Your daughter has made her decision and you have NO RIGHT to make her feel guilty about it. You will end up driving a wedge between you and your daughter and you may never get to see your grandchildren. Be an adult, and accept the fact that your daughter is grown and able to make her own decisions......and realize that if it turns out to be a bad one, let HER figure that out....DO NOT influence her by calling her husband an idiot......that's RUDE!!!

perplexed	uhm. polite? no. okay? sure...i spose.

Big Sis	How can you be so insensitive? Didn't he marry your daughter? Don't you care what she wants. She must want him or she wouldm't have married him. Show him some respect and you might be surprised at how smart he gets.

theenormusnorm	Well, would you like it if you were him?

skhoury28nails	I don't see why not after all I refer to my sister-in-law as my B****-in-law! :)

lilly	Well, I think it's not a nice thing to do but it's not uncommon for name calling between the in-laws. I would certainly discourage it.

Piper	Cant you just accept him for him.. as long as your daugther is happy and he is keeping your daugther happy, then no.

cr@zi3L0v3	Not really even if it is jokingly cuz he may hav a very high opinion of u and take it to heart or perhaps if he truly is a idiot occasionaly i guess so but bcareful whom u say it to and around...

( ((G-Force)) )	That is one of the greatest titles I have ever heard.

middle aged and love it	It depends on the situation - if he did something really stupid and even he knew it and it was said in a loving way yes it would be OK.

nas88car300 Carl E wins !!!!!!	sure but don't let him know

Alli R	No, if you do it to his face you get punched in the face.

â€ TENNISâ–¡artistâ€	lol - It's all in your head, J/K... As long as he doesn't know! If I were the son-in-law and you called me that, I'd be furious. Best thing to do, don't do it!

nyyankeesg1rl	you should know the answer to that.

BOOTS!	yeah, im sure alot of people do it LOL

RainCloud	No, that is not a very polite thing to do.

Tired of lies	No

*ãƒ„ Andreaâ™¥**	lol prolly not but it is pretty funny!!

the moose	you already know the answer to that.

Chris	if the shoe fits wear it

free_angel	Only in your mind.

brwneyedgrl	lol only behind his back lol..