Is it possible for a man to be happily married, but for his wife to not be happily married?

JUST ME	BLACKWIDOW SAID IT ALL...

witeyskinny	of course...saw it on Dr. Phil! and Montel! and Springer! so it must be true, besides...I'm living it!

G	yes

chlango1	yes is posible a lot of times what is good for one persone is not for the other

Kitty	LOL No... Haven't you heard, a happy life is a happy wife? She'll make his life hell, guaranteed. :)

shysheila	that's good that you are happy, but for your wife not feeling the same thing what you're feeling then maybe there's something bugging her and you need to talk to her..... have a nice dinner (you cook) and a bubble bath....massage and just let the question slides in...she'll let you in...

mopargrl73	yes

angelawct	Yes this is very possible and it could happen the other way around. As time goes on people get different feelings for each other. Sometimes good and sometimes bad. It doesnt mean that she cant become happy again one day with help.

sasha	Yes because men are oblivious to the obvious. They are content with status quo, women need more than that.

Dragonfly	There is always one of the two who loves the other more. If the wife is truly unhappy, I think that eventually the wife will want out. The situation might be OK for the instant, but it's only natural to want to be happy. The couple could be getting along great... as friends but beyond that ...its a matter of time before something gives.

Twisted Maggie	I agree with the others. You are not doing your job in making her happy. She is probably overwhelmed with keeping you happy, your house clean and all the other things and is starting to feel taken for granted. Please visit: http://www.marriagebuilders.com This site saved my marriage and is simple. You'll find help there.

save_me_now	Been there....wait....still there.

spidermaniii_06	well it goes either way, the answer you have to search for is why is she not happy and then work towards resloving it with out getting pissy and judgemental

misydoll	It sounds like there is something that doesn't make her fully happy, talk to her and see what you can do to change her to be a happily married woman. Good luck.

motorcyclelovinmama	oh yes...i have been there done that.. We are divorced now. I am sorry, but this does happen..I was happy in the beggining, but just fell out of love with him.. good luck

aquarian	...and as soon as they discover one of them is unhappy in the marriage,differences begin. Love and happiness cant be onesided.

?	unfortunately i think it is possible. it's sad.

spring goth	well yeah, i mean if the wife is fed up with the husband so that she will let him do whatever he wants because she doesnt want to be near him, like hey honey can i go golfing, yeah why dont you stay out till like midnight or somthing.

â™¥ YaHabibeDisney â™¥	that probably happens alot in these times and is the cause for divorce some times. its sad but sometimes thats just the way it is.

Littlemissy	Yes. Happens all the time.

WhyNotMe	YES YES YES and YES!!!! for every happy man in a marriage there's a not happy one out there also.

Sarah K	Yes it is totally possible. If the man is happily married and loves his wife he should talk to her if she isnt and find out why she isnt happy. If there is something he can do within reason to make her happy (but keep in mind a person has to be happy with themself too) then he should try it. If he cant help her the he might want to reconsider the marriage and let he go to be happy.

Jersey Style	of course, I'm unhappily engaged. If she isn't being treated well and she does everything for you in her power to make you happy and you do nothing for her then..........you get my point

sickandtiredinpa	I am guessing your wife would say yes?

good or bad girl	Yea it is very possible. You need to have a talk with her and see what could make your marriage better and more like what you and her want. Communication is a very big part of a healthy relationship.

rdhedhottie	Sure, there are many times someone thinks the other is as happy as the other when they are not. But that at comes with communication. If you can't talk about what is not making you happy then you can't resolve it. He should ask his wife why she isn't happy and then work on the things together to make her happy again.

BlackWidow	humm....it tells me that she is doing her job--Sooo, are you doing yours?

â™«â™ªâ™¥PUSSaY FARTâ™«â™ªâ™¥	YEP!!!!!!! ONES REALLY IN LOVE AND THE OTHERS NOT!!!!!!

I Luv Joel Madden!!	um i think so. so yes it is. there are probably even marriages that are like that too. the wife just might act happy. but inside is really unhappy. example if her family wants her to marry the guy cuz he is financially stable and he is caring and seems to really luv her. and well she just marrys him cuz if felt like the right thing to do cuz she wanted everyone else to be happy. and there are real marriages like that.