Is it possible to love 2 men?

Laly	Well there is a reason why you and your ex are not together anymore and obviously you find something especial about this new person. Before taking the decision to back to your ex analyze all the reason why you guys decided to split...Listen to your heart! Who do you miss more? Who do you feel butterflies with? You know what I mean? I been in that situation before...and like I said I left my husband for a very good reason and I will not go back ever to the same! Good luck girl! Choose very wisely...Give yourself an opportunity to start all over again with someone new!!!

Jay E	Apparently, you only get a thumbs up if she can love both men. Sure....why stop at 2. I'm thinking about getting me a few more girls myself. Nice.....

lonewolf	Miss Marilyn, Hon you will always love your X for the good times you shared, however aren't you "In love" with your new boyfriend ? Choose the guy you are in love with !

lollypop	Impossible not to.

franz d	If you have feelings for your husband why are you divorced? why start dating someone else? You should go back to you ex and leave everyone else out of it, or maybe just see how many people you can be involved with. 2...3...4...whatever

Workinmamma	Those types of feelings will never go away. If your b/f is a good thing I would hang on to him as obliviously your relationship/marriage didn't work out...otherwise if you don't see it going anywhere now's the time to feel your way around with you ex-husband

Bill	there is no way that everyone will be happy, but mabe if you get them all togeather and talk.... who knows?, anyway the best way to get a real answere is to tell them both on the same day, in time the right thing will happen for you, i dont know about the other two, but you will come out on top

Bryce	There's no way to make this choice without hurting someone's feelings. Just make sure you weigh both sides VERY carefully before dumping one of the men! And dump one you must, as Yoda would say. Or maybe they'd like to have a Jules and Jim thing going on?

kiya	Well if you like them both and they both like you, someones feelings will be hurt. All you can do is try to make the right decision and make it work with that person. Do it before you end up getting hurt and losing both men.

leleanorc	There are different kinds of love. If you "love" 2 people, then it is a different kind of love then True Pure Unadulterated LOVE. If you really LOVE someone, it is something that cannot be divided or shared, but directed at only ONE person.

Y ask ME!	Girl you can love unlimited amount of people!

cocobee799	Someone will get hurt.

Asian Mami	All depends on why your ex husband is your ex. There must be a good reason or you two would not be divorced. Many people have a hard time of letting go. You should look at where you can see yourself with in the long run. You might be better off without either of them. Goodluck.

Cassie	You need to move on from you ex, there is a reason that you got divorced from him. Do it before you get too serious with this new guy, so no one gets hurt.

curmudgeon	go with both of them until you figure it out. and report the idiots on here that have called you names.

Nena	It is definately possible to love 2 men! It happens all the time! Well, my opinion, I would tell your ex about how you feel to where he can understand but yet he cant make fun of you for feeling that way. Then, I would date the new friend, because you have already tried a relationship with your ex and it failed once. But, maybe your friend is "the one" and you just don't know it. But, in any case, your feelings come first. You need to feel comfortable and loved in the relationship you are in. So, good luck!

Nikki	I know that it's possible to love two men. But you must follow your heart and do what's best for you. Because if you don't things will be worse later on.

Sweet Suzy 777!	If you divorced your husband, did you forget why you divorced this guy? Must of been some kind of problems. Did they get resolved all of a sudden?

Kathy R	I'd say go with your heart on this one. But there has to be a reason your ex IS your ex. Take that into consideration while you're making your decision.

floridaman39us	Just pick the one you can have a future with.

PERFECTwillNEVERbeME	It's not always easy to make choices like this. Your always going to have to go through life breaking and making hearts. It's a life process you can't control so just follow your heart and it will lead you to the most you love the most.

BabeHart	The heart has an infinite capacity for love, so there is no limit to how many we can feel that emotion for. The issue is, why allow ourselves to love many, knowing we (probably) cannot have them all? You have a choice to make. If you go back with the ex, remember why he's an "ex" and make sure that issue (or those issues) are resolved, before walking that path again. If you choose the new guy, the let the ex know you've already walked that path with him, and it didn't work....but he'll always be a part of your life (if you both desire). Good luck!

MSUGina	Don't feel badly about loving 2 men. Just take your time and the answer may present itself.

M S	Flip a coin. either way you are going to think about the other guy.

stratotanker	go for the ex -

box of rain	You can't. Just be mature and make a choice. If you choose not to decide you will only compound the hurt feelings. Good luck.

liz h	yes nothing is impossible in this world...make sure your heart and Brain both intertwine