Is it time for a divorce?

Rebecca	confront him about it... thats some what a form of cheating. don't let him treat you like that you deserve better

Katie	you really need to figure out if you want a divorce on your own. it has to be your decision. obviously you need to talk to him about this and find some way to deal with it. if you feel as if you cant trust him anymore maybe you need a break from each other. i would also suggest going to a marriage councilor.

ARCHER	Give him something or take him somewhere, to a place where you guys first met, exchanged, this usually resparks a relationship, but if he will not change, or show any signs of trustworthyness, it may be time to move on, and file a divorce ot be with someone else who is going to be committed to and not lie.

QueenServilla	I would talk to him and explain all the info I found. Listen to what he has to say, and based on his explanation you will have your answer. I'm not sure if your husband feels he is not getting what he needs in the marriage, or if he is simply a dog. However I think his answer will give you an idea

andymahan99	If he has an adult friend finder account, then he is, has and is going to continue to cheat on you. That website is made for people like him who want no-string-attached flings. Dump him and do it now. Whatever he tells you is going to be a lie.

:)	You're just going to have to sit down and talk to him about. Tell him how you're feeling and then hear his side of the story. You have to put all your cards on the table. You also might want to consider couple therapy.

Beejee	You know the answer to that one. Act on it. Life is too short to waste on borderline pervs.

foxymoron	YEAH.. quit dealing with the lies... don't think of it as giving up, hes already done that.. think of it as finally smarting up... move on

:)	um.. yes. i would say its time for him to go. thats very immature and after 6 years, nothing like that should be going on. be smart girl. you know what to do! good luck.

*Jesus said love everyone*	You do deserve better. I would have told you to divorce him, but you sound like that isn't a good option for you. Maybe you could try marriage counselling? Or talk to your bishop or priest about it. Good luck to you!

coffee	u desereve someone better i think its time you let go because you never know what he could do behind your back and thats not right!!! you deserve the truth!

???	yes, sounds like an sob

han W	yes go and talk to him and warn him about it!

jbradshaw77	Well, I'd say divorce should be ultimately your LAST solution. I'd say talk more about it, perhaps maybe you guys need time off, or marriage counseling. Please don't divorce until you have run out of options.

Ellis Wyatt	Duh. Of course it's time for a divorce.

openminded	I would end it. It will only get worse not better ,he has a lack of self control and respect for you.

Wonderment	yeah baby, it hurts but it is time to go...You do deserve better and i KNOW you know that. I know that because you have the gall to get on her and ask if it's time, you've got the balls to know you deserve someone devoted to you. You get one life, and you never know when it's over. I bet money your fairy tale hasn't happened and it is out there.

Jolly Roger	It is time for a divorce.

Cait	confront him some more tell him he needs to stop or you WILL leave him perhaps talk to a consoluer

silly 123	Try marriage counseling...

à®Ashleyâ™¥	It sounds like he is cheating on you. Once a cheater, always a cheater... leave him.

MadKat	I'm sorry to hear that. Before you throw in the towel go to couples counseling ASAP...this will clear both your heads and lead you in the right direction...whichever that may be.

hello.	Maybe you should have gotten to know him a little better before you tied the knot!

4 eyed	no one should get one

kingofhearts1287	If it got to the point where you have to consult anonymous people on the internet...... it is time :)

Ktre33	talk to him about it