Is it wrong for a girl to ask a man to marry them??/?

poodle mom	maybe not wrong, but look at it this way...if he wanted to marry you, he would ask

drizzy	no its not wrong...jus make sure its the right decision for the both of you.good luck.

Nick L	not at all

h1ssing	No, it's not wrong at all!! Even though it is traditional for a man to ask a woman to marry them, a woman asking a man is not a bad thing. What matters most is that you are in love and want to share the bond of marriage with him! :D

melissa h	i dont think so either go ahead ask him, YOU GO GIRL

lolmonkey98	It's traditional for the man to propose to the woman, but, no, it's not wrong.

100% Woman, yes indeed!	Most ppl would say yes but I say no it isnt wrong. At least you know that you want to marry him and maybe he wants to marry you too but was too afraid to ask... GOOD LUCK!

free2californiaa	NO WAY!! if your ready and they havent asked ask away! their probably afraid ur not ready. be different and ask him! be the brave one!

cassidy_baby	well its not wrong but most women should do it cause they are desprate (no affense)

nora d	Its not wrong to ask a man to marry you. But, why would you? Are you looking to support him? Are you going to provide him with a home and a family? Are you going to love him when he is old and Grey? Can you be there for him if he is no longer able to take care of himself. When you really want to be married look at all the possibilities. and ask yourself whether you should ask him to marry you.

looneybin90	Absolutely not! In this day and age there is no reason why asking should still have to be a guy thing only. Resorting to dropping hints and the like is childish behavior that has no part in a good relationship. As long as you know this is the right guy for you then ask away! It would be nice if you had some kind of ring for him when you ask, but it's certainly not required.

â™¥Computer Geekâ™¥	well it's not wrong. but usually it's the guys who do it.

summergurl	No way.

~A, Person~	no its not traditional but it does not hurt any thing and if any one tells you differnt their just jealous because your better

Gold Digger	nope... as long as hes rich :-)

princess_of_god_89	No not at all. Girls have just as much right to express their feelings as men do...and I also think that women can handle the word "No"...where as the men cant ;) so in my opinon just ask him...tell him how you feel and that you'd be happy in spending the rest of your life with him

Jerrica	In this day and age, girls can do anything. But you could always just drop hints that you want to get married, instead of asking the question flat out.

stephen k	I don't think so, for it really shows a commitment on her part

jarrettkamden	Absolutely not, provided you are not asking a man who is a "gentleman". The one who believes ladies go first, always hold the door, actually put the toilet seat down, etc. That type of man may feel threatened, for he may feel its his place to do the asking. I would suggest that you have a male version of an engagement ring or some other type of sentimental item. I would also suggest pulling out all the stops as a man USUALLY does when he pops the question, not all men do though. I would also make sure that he is ready for you to ask for his hand in marriage because there is nothing worse that putting your heart out there for it to be broken. Good Luck to you!

idk	no not really if you did that would be really brave

fancy_tea_cake	It is definently not wrong. I would be so touched and flattered if a woman I was in love with surprised me with 'the question'. Im also wishing that that's where I was in my life so Im just day dreaming right now.

:B	I dont think its wrong but its not formal and it is kind of weird

lonewolf	Vanessa R, Maybe by tradition but hon it is a new world out there ! He at least would know that you love him ! Go for it !

jjjjjjjjj	No. I think she should have an engagement ring to give him if she does, though.

epper1	It's not wrong, but since it's untraditional, I would make sure that the man isn't disappointed by relinquishing the opportunity. He may be relieved.

jbahhh	No. It's not wrong, but if they do it they are the ones who get to stress about planning it and all, and you get to get the fun surprise of being proposed to!! Plus, if he's not asking, maybe he's not ready (: Anyway you do it...have fun!!

bri	No its not wrong , but if the blokes not ready it could make him feel trapped and you rejected. A really clever girl will get the man to ask her and let him think it was his idea.

Chocolate D	No, it's not wrong.

morgan	um, yeah. Totally.