Is it wrong for me to stay at my parents' house 4 the night w/ out my husband.?

Bev	Specialized bedding?? Can you not take it along? He sounds like a big baby. You should go. He will be fine, or heaven forbid, he could go along too. Do you spend time with his family?

cleancutspike	tell him to grow up.

Hammer	If the specialized bedding is not too expensive, why not get that in your parents home for those visits. However, they are your parents, and you should visit them. Unless your husband required around the clock care, he should be proud that you care enough about parents to go visit and spend time with them. I think he is being selfish if he does not approve of you staying with your parents. I wish my parents were still alive so I could go and spend a week with them occasionally.

AMC615	What kind of specialized bedding? Is it not portable?Take it and him with you, if not possible then leave his a** there and discuss it when you get back.

Johnny	Go see you parent's just call them ahead of time and ask them if it would be okay with them if you can bring your husband's bedding. In "ANY" relationship everybody need to pitch in and help out. Take you husband it just that you are also going to have to take the bedding also. It may be hard to do but you will be with you parents and your husband in the same house or if that dose not work ask if your parents can come down and spends a few days with you. It would not hurt to pick them up and let them stay with you. Would it.

happyday to you	go. you are married, and not attatched at the hip. he does not OWN you. let him be a baby and stay at your parents for the night.

chlango1	nothing wrong with wanting to visit your parent's he has to understand you.

horsecrazy	He is the one in the wrong. That is very selfish of him. Life is to short and one day when there gone you will regret not going. He will get over it. He needs to understand and consider your feelings. He should understand. I would go anyway. He doesn't care how you feel so why should you respect him on this? Don't get me wrong you need to have respect in a relationship, but he needs to respect you and understand. Do what you want............Good luck..............SG

Kitty	There's nothing wrong with you visiting your family without him for a short while. Unless you go there every weekend, or stay for weeks at a time, he should have no reason to be upset.

Eileen	Wow, how old are you? You did not realize that getting married meant leaving your parents and stay with your husband? I think you are being childish and selfish when you choose to stay with your parents instead of your husband. If you still love him, you should stay at home with him and see your parents every now and then together.

luv2bluv0712	It is not wrong....you husband has to understand that if you haven't' seen you parents it's only right for him to allow you to do so. Yes, it's natural for him to miss you , but just because he's not able to go doesn't mean he should try to prevent you from going that's not being considerate, "After all it's not like you're hanging out with some old time friends or something that's the people who birth & raised you"! You have to accept the fact that you can't please every one.

bnsheerose	Im sorry to say, but I think that your hubby is being selfish. Why should you be punished for his needing special bedding. On the other hand, try to be sensitive to his feelings too. It must be upsetting to not be included in something like that. I think, though, that you should be able to go for the night. My husband would let me, if he knew how important it was to me. Good luck!

Poppet	You should be allowed to see your family w/o the guilt trips. I go see my family (4hrs away) during the week and stay a night or two w/o my husband. I go during these times because I work on the weekends and it's the only time I have available to go see them. He works during the week. He is not really upset, he is jealous that they will have your time and he is pouting. Go see your family for a night. Have a good time and don't be guilty about it.

the dougal	Why is he angry that you are going? Surely he understands that you need to see your folks occassionally. Could they come and stay with you? You should consider his feelings but if he is being totally unreasonable you should go without him. put yourself (and your parents) first.

common sense	it's okay to spend the night at your parents house its one night .... either which way he's going to be upset but then he'll get over it too..

Phoenix, Wise Guru	I don't know what could possibly be wrong about it. Better find out why he's mad. Some guys just think they rule the world and their significant other should do everything only for them. He just needs to get over himself.

Cholas	Just set him in front of a television with a remote control... order him pizza... rent a few movies for him... video games if he's into it and tell him you'll him tomorrow. He'll definitely miss you, but as long as he has something do he should be fine. peace, love -nick

JINE GIRL	I don't think it is wrong. If you sit down and talk to him and tell him that you want to see you parents he needs to understand how you feel and not be so selfish... Go see your parents!!!!

ya_gurl_manda	if he realy loved you he would understand your situation and help you make the best of it.

Kristen H	I don't see a problem with it. You could suggest that he brings his specialized bedding along, You have a right to see your family. After all, they are the reason you are here.

mrfrijo	If It Is ok with your husband then I think this would be the best place to stay but for me I would want my wife with me and If she didnt I would wonder why and question our relationship.

ME	No, there's nothing wrong with that at all. If anything your husband should be more understanding. Just because you're married to him doesn't mean you have to forfeit your right to visit your parents!

Violet Pearl	Why can't they visit you? Or why can't you bring his bedding with you and go together?

skybelle24	You are fine to go. don't feel bad. Why can't arrangements be made for this "specialized bedding"?

drockfreak	He will get over it. My family is in Michigan and I live in Florida. My wife hates when I go home...But absence makes the heart grow stronger....He will be fine. He will miss you. He will show you when you get home.

Linny	Explain to him that both he and your parents are very important to you and that you miss them and need to see them (they ARE your parents). It's only for one night, your husband needs to be more understanding and mature.

get_xed	he has to understand you. by all rights, it's your rights to go anywhere. and you know its not wrong

princess	damn him go see ur parents leave his angy *** at him

Belinda	Do you mean to tell me that you expect him to drive you there and then come back in a few days to pick you up. Hello what about a hotel. Bring your sheets something.

BabeHart	Nothing wrong with it at all. If he resents you spending time with your family, that is something you two need to address. Why does it trouble him?