Is my husband cheating?

Crystal Blue	Oh hell no! That would NOT fly with me! If he's got a g-f, WHY is he posting profiles on dating websites? Not acceptable AT ALL. Would he be okay if you did that? You've got to draw the line here chica. He may not have cheated YET, but he's laying the pieces to do it.

Espy	Maybe he's not cheating or even looking to cheat....but he def likes flirting wit the idea...he is feeding his ego to see if he could really get some new booty if he wanted and what kind of woman would want him. I don' t think u should be ok with it because mental cheating is a small form of cheating, but while all or at least most married couples sometimes stray mentally, none would approve of what your guy is doing. He is taking it a step to far.

Rick P	Yes, as a man i know that if i was doing that. I would be trying to get some. Trust your gut, love is blind so if you can see it, you really know it.

fanci_rae	I know that you have a lot of answers to this question, however I will give you one more from experience. I was married for 21 years and getting on the Internet for fun and just playing with peoples emotions is wrong, But first and foremost my feelings should have been the most important and I just believed him. ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCTS. I didn't now I am an almost DIVORCED single mom of Twins starting over in a cruel world of Just for fun emotions with the feeling of can I trust anyone. If you were doing it just for fun WHAT WOULD HIS REACTION BE? That is what your rightful reaction should be as a wife. STOP IT NOW if you want to hold on to your marriage.

trysh_mc	I would be worried too. Tell him how you feel and ask him to stop. Let him know that if he wants to be considered single, he needs to let you know so you can prepare for separation or divorce. Or if you want to do something "just for fun"...create your own profiles with yourself as single and then brag to him how many guys are interested!!!!

867-5309 "Jenny"	Something must be missing in your relationship.. have any ideas what?

filthy_crumb	If by "kidding" he means "betraying your trust, having zero respect for you, flirting with other women right in front of you, and screwing other women behind your back," then yes by all means he is "kidding."

Aiden	Always trust your judgment over what a married man placing deceptive personal ads tells you! Hello lady! Don't be stupid! He is not doing this for fun! There are other things married men do for fun, like golf or tennis, or jogging. Placing personal ads and lying to single women is NOT ONE OF THEM! Make copies of all his personal ads so you can use them in your divorce and stop being naive!

California Kush	If you feel like something about it seems wrong then it is. It's something called female intuition. There is no reason a married man or man in a relationship should be on dating sites, especially as a single man. That is sooo wrong. I would freak out on my boyfriend for doing some dumb sh*t like that.

**~love always~**	I know a married man that was doing that until one day he got busted by one of his friends seeing his profile. If he is doing that then there is something that he is missing in the current relationship. Sounds like you two need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk and see whats going on. If he is not already cheating he will be.

ndnqt1966	And you really believe him? He sure fed you a line....He is looking to cheat.

harold	Be worried, he's cheating or trying to cheat.

yesiamalesbian	omg leave him

glenn_montgomery88	I would be tell him you want it to stop to find fun in other ways shoot pool, bowl, play ball. it sounds like sick behavior to me

oldsoftee2001	I do it but only to see if anyone I know from work or whatever pops up on there. Don't think I'd ever follow up on it. It's just fun to look. Ask him if you can put up a profile as a single woman. If he says no then ask him to delete his or you will put up a profile of your own.

maccrew6	, if a woman has that "feeling" that her man is cheating...he usually IS

redpeach_mi	a man who is happily married would not be looking for attention from other woman on a dating site "for fun". he might not be cheating, maybe just looking for attention, but either way it's wrong. he obviously thinks there is nothing wrong with it, so it's up to you to stop it.

summerbliss	he is looking to cheat on you be careful with this one that is if he has not already why don't you do the same go to dating websites and list yourself as single let him find out about it instead of telling him and say well no harm done right if he does not stop or care you should know for sure then he is/has cheated and dont give a crap if you know or not

AngiesHusband	Well, there's a reason this is happening. Maybe he is just looking for some affirmation that he is still attractive. Maybe he is having multiple affairs. Could be one or the other or anywhere in between. If you want him to stay and want him to stop, pump him up as much as you can. Be confident in yourself. Tell him how wonderful he is. Tell him how much you love and appreciate him.

BullyBoo	Perhaps you should look to your husband and tell him you're uncomfortable. You need to set him straight, and let him know you don't like it. If you've been cheated on before, read the signs from the past breakups/cheating. Don't assume though, remember. Assumptions lead to chaos, get some real information before you go ahead with your little "investigation" Best of luck!

Mai Tai	Yes...he's cheating.

Vic	First off he shouldn't be just "doing it for fun"...you are right to go with your instict....i'm a married person the only reason i would post stuff like that is to see what type of attetion i would get and if i would be looking for some attention its because he isn't satisfied with what he gets at home...speak with him and let him know how it makes you feel...i'm pretty sure he'll understand if he loves you and wouldn't mind stopping if he really is doing it for fun...

cunnitr	Yes, that's not normal. If he's married he has no business on the sites period. Why is that fun? Do women reply to his profile? I'm sure they do. That's what's fun about it. I wonder how fun he'd think it was if he saw your pic on there listed as single. That's totally disrespectful to you and your marriage. He needs to stop but I still wouldn't trust him. That's ridiculous. He must think you're a fool. Good Luck.

Girliegirl	Not normal. He is lying. There's only one reason to be on a dating site, that is to find a date. If he does it for fun, and knows it bothers you, why hasn't he stopped? If I found out my husband was on a dating site there would be hell to pay..... You play golf, or go water skiing for fun, not on dating sites.......

Indeedy	Nobody would set up a dating profile if they had to thoughts of cheating.

chipson	If that was my husband, i would get a friend to reply to his profile and see if he takes the bait, Dont waste time wondering,sorry if i dont seem trusting but you will know where you stand....good luck x

BLOODHOUND	i don't know if hes cheating or not but he has no business on single websites pretending to be single.not only is it disrespectful to you its disrespectful to the women he his conning on line. if he will lie to other women you can bet he will lie to you. he cares about him self and to hell with every one else. your husband is a real ******.