Is my husband cheating on me or am I just paranoid?

duh huh	you shoulda went in the house when ya saw the car there, i think your questions would have been answered.

carl the wise	private investigator!! bust his a**!! Then divorce him and take everything!!

Angel C	Well go home and walk in the door you live there but when you go in go quietly . or if he refuses to answer you a nanny cam always works .

Ruby	I don't think your paranoid.. I think hes cheating. Next time I would walk in. And find out what the heck is going on.. Or sneak in.

handycrafter77	During your lunch break when you drive by you should go in your house and play it off like you needed to pick something up.

jen	ask to meet the clinet or go in on your lunch brake and see what they are up to i would be so made if he was cheating on you in your own house that is just way worng

Chuck T	If you drove by on lunch and there was a car in your driveway that you were unfamiliar with then why wouldn't you stop and see who it was ?

olderbutwiser	You drove by the house, and DIDN'T stop? I would have had to stop, and see who was there, and what they were doing. Next time, stop!!

Song	I think you know the answer. That's why you don't want to go in the house. I knew my husband was cheating though I had no hard proof. A woman knows.

CluelessOne	Come on now, I know you are not that stupid. Quit trying to avoid facing the pain and get it over with.......stop in.........bust his cheating **** and then kick it out the door, along with his attractive client! Best of luck! Ãœ

C_DOGG	Dig deeper, it sounds like he could be cheating. Instead of driving by, get out of your car and go inside, you need to know what is going on. If your wrong that is cool, but if you are right you need to know ASAP!

Twinkle Toes	...I did that once ... sound asleep "NAKED " with another woman ... I asked him quietly ...so ..should I join you or is she staying for dinner ... It didn't go over too well ... He told her to leave as I smiled and held the door open for her .then said BYE ..BYE...!!.. The next day ...I filed for divorce!

Antonio	I agree with many that you should go in but you should do it with a friend or family member for your safety. If he were cheating and got caught you never know what other bad stuff he is capable of doing.

practice_what_u_preach	well stop being a chicken and say you had to know for yourself so i will bet you millions of dollars he is bending her over the counter lol but there is a reason youhave never met this client you need to go in and see for yourself

Vanity Affaire	Burst in, it's your house as well and you shouldn't be left circling around wondering what's going on in there. Find out and if it's true, then start packing bags, his bags. If not, tell him that you forgot something important for work.

Peblos Kore	Instead of just driving by, actually go inside the house and find out, when the car is there of course. It looks like you might already know the answer and you're hoping it's not true.

Lulu	If you can't do it have the neighbor stop by for something, even if its dumb hand them a piece of mail to "return" or that was "put in the wrong mailbox" and see how they act.

kim h	Get out and go in the house. If you keep chickening out, bring someone with you that won't. Don't you want to know? When my first husband was messing around with a neighbor it was the other neighbor that told me about it.

Teenie	Are you afraid if you see with your own eyes you'll have to end your marriage? And how come you haven't said you love your husband? I think there is more to this story then your letting on. I'm sorry but something just doesn't sound right or maybe I'm the paranoid one here.

*~Steph~*	wow. let me just tell you u are definitely not paranoid. Id be worried too. that is not normal at all. especially when you haven't met this person who is coming to your house everyday. something is going on and you better figure it out because i don't think its a very good sign.

Pain_of_Unhappiness2	U R just paranoid! Relax. Lots of things can happen in the long marriage years ahead. If you truely love someone, you will tolerate lots of stuff from them. For better or for worse right. Todpod. U sound exactly like my wife. I always wonder how in the world my wife knows when I am cheating. She has a very sensitive gut feeling and very accurate on me.

*Astro*	Trust your instincts, if they were telling you that weeks ago that he was cheating, then he probably was. If the car is parked out the front of your house, do you have time to park down the road and go into the house to see this "meeting" for yourself?

Boo Boo[Rainbow Love]	ok leave it be for about 2 or 3 weeks..make him think u forgot about the whole car in driveway incident...dont mention ANYTHING bout it and then about 2 or 3 weeks from now stop in sumtime tht u see the car parked..be as quiet as possible wen coming in the front door..dont make it obvious that ur trying to sneak in jus in case hes not doing anything tho. and find out wat it is exaclty hes doing...maybe stop by during lunch hr or sumthing and say u forgot sumthing by acident.

momo	what is he working at? her? sounds like it I wish you all wisdom & strenght if it turns out he is cheating = making a complete fool out of you, than be strong you can do it on your own .. you wil see better alone than unhappy with some one that doesnt give a ****! hier a detective or a friend or get a spy camera/ or sound recorder from e-bay set it up and roll...

BOYD H	I can't understand why you are driving by you own home when you suspect your husband of cheating.Why don't you stop and go in and see. Rig the house with cameras, voice activated tape recorder or something. A Private investigator would be nice. If he is cheating file for a divorce and take one half of every thing it is yours.

brad	act like your going to work one day and see how long the car takes to get there, then give it like 30 mins to an hour and walk in quietly. i dont think a client would come by 3 days a week for a long time lol. SET CAMERAS UP!!! living room- bedroom etc.. then you wont have to actuley walk in but you can see if they are doing anything

brown sugar	gee let me think you drove by YOUR own house and saw a car in the drive way you didn't know and didn't see the need to walk into YOUR house to see who it was and maybe what was going on especially after your neighbors told you something may be going on. What if there was someone in the house robbing and murdering you husband and you just rode by and ingnored it. Girl go in the house the next time you ride by and see that car in the drive way go in and see what is going on