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Is my husband normal?

this what my husband does for me. Women, does your husband do the following for you?

1) sends you e-cards often to tell you that he's thinking about you and love you.
2) helps you out with the chores. helps with the kids
3) hugs and kisses you everyday and tell you he loves you.
4) cooks gourmet foods from scratch
5) treats you like a princess
6) massages your neck, your back, and your feet.
7) pampers you
8) compliments you on your cooking/baking, always says "thank you".
9) takes you on vacations







loofa36
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He's covering for some type of behavior


Tragedy V
It seems like with the amount of marriages gone wrong today, your husband would be considered freak. Be happy.


NEWPORT BEACH GIRL
he sounds like a sweeheart!! i hope since he so sweet and treats u like this ...i hope u treat him very nice too. you are blessed. thank God!


Anji
He sounds like a great husband!!

Hope you're thankful!

PS - Mine the awesome, too!


.
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I'm an average guy. I would do those things if i were devoted.Except i wouldn't send the E-Cards. only Text and calls so Yes I think he's Normal.


jelle
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Everything except 1 and 4. In his defense, he calls me several times a day just to talk. As for the cooking, we both eat very simply, so no big deal.


sunny-d alright!
Haha wow, I'm not a girl, so I don't have a husband. But it sounds like you don't have a problem here.


2Westies
My husband does 2 of the above, I won't say which 2. Actually he's a good guy and I'm not holding my breath waiting to be treated like a princess or pampered.


James #
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Normal !!

NO !!

Gay !!

Maybe!!

Nice Guy!!

Definetely!!


Kris
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Mine does some of those things. The rest we are working on. ( chores, and more important ones.) Your husband sounds like a real gem. Do something really nice for him! You got yourself a real man, there!!


Nurse Mich Brux
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you asked this question just so you can brag on your husband.


Grace
My husband does all those things except cooking. So, yes, your husband is normal.


R Dub
my man likes to cook (cuz i'm no good at it) and i get hugs, but damnit i want my man to be a man! i like his caveman behaviors! makes my life with him interesting and always a surprise! :)


Omooba44
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What is it really you need from us; you have a man who does all this and more and you are "thinking" of complaining. Count your blessings before you jinxed your self. Goodluck!


EricaD
he goes above and beyond for you! you should feel extremely fortunate to have a man in your life like that.. many women would die for a guy to treat them as amazing as your husband treats you!


Carlos B
Your husband is past normal.. He is probably the best man u will run across in this life time.... Most women will run over a guy like this because his kindness will show a weakness to some women, YOU HAVE A GOODMAN and if you haven't already THANK HIM....


Tired and Cranky
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U mmm ... maybe # 3 on a good day....
To tell you the truth my husband is a good man..,. he is a good provider, works hard, and he's a good dad but I don't think he loves me the way he used to anymore.


BUTTERFLY
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why are you showing off... no need to brag
you got one out of a hundred big deal


sweetsarah
Yes that is very normal..That is what a husband has to do and you know what I hope you are doing the same for him because the relationship is about both so all these good things should also be done to him!!

Good luck!


slaarwalhz
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yep my husband does all that and so much more. and i do it all for him as well. i love giving him a good back rub when he gets home from work. but the back rub always turns into...mommy and daddys alone time.. hehe! we dont have kids yet though, so its alone time when ever we want!


Boudicca
so, are you just trying to rub our noses in it?

first i'd ask how long you've been married. then i'd wonder why you were asking me this retarded question. then i'd tell you to enjoy it while the getting is good...unless of course you don't enjoy the way he is treating you.


Cierra
Now you're just lucky...he is perfectly normal....actually he's above normal (but in a really good way!) All guys should do some of that stuff once and a while, but your husband is like Ka-baam! Sounds like a 24/7 deal. If only other people had that. (Hmmmm.....)


anticone
My guy does the following:
2 (Only he does all the yard work, maintenance on the cars, and is VERY handy. He can fix anything. I do the inside stuff)
3
5
6
8
He also does a lot of stuff I don't care for...but I love him and try not to give him a lot of sh*t about the stuff that annoys me.


trixxxy_23
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hell no thats NOT normal but girl you better hold on with both hands and never let go!!! Although i don't know if i could handle having a man sooo sweet, i need a bit of assholness. i do get help with chores and kids with a massage but the cooking thing....LOL, vacations...ya what are those and whats a princess? haha you got yourself a diamond in the ruff!!


Cajun Queen
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For todays standards no.Your one lucky woman,be grateful you have someone that treats you with this much respect now a days. Stop complaining and be grateful,for such a wonderful husband.Some women only dream of what you have.Thank God above everyday,for him blessing you with someone this good.


lizardmomma
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1-nope, no computer access except when home with me
2-most of the time and no kids
3- all the time
4-used to I do most of the cooking now
5-I don't ask to be or do I expect to be
6-not usually I work at desk and he's an electrican I massage him
7-don't like being pampered
8-yes
9-what's vacation?


Steve
I do most of those things excluding cooking gourmet foods from scratch. Can't win 'em all! lol! Personally I think men were meant to be that way from the beginning, but through generations many of them have been messed up emotionally by their fathers. It gets passed down each generation. My father did none of those things for my mother so I don't know how I came out good! lol! Oh, and I'm glad you have a husband who treats you right many women don't.


Rabbyt
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Yes my husband is great like this also, sends me texts telling me he loves me, makes dinner cuz he comes home from work before I do, and so on.

Though he leaves my kitchen a mess after dinner lol.

I think more women should make sure their husband's do their fair share in the marriage, vs doing all the cooking and cleaning and so on and having a husband who doesn't appreciate them- I know too many girls who do EVERYTHING and their husbands don't appreciate it. Then they try to tell my husband he's whipped- pft.


TrixyLoo
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mine, married for 5 years:
1) Nope, not at all, lucky if I get one on Vday and our anniversary
2) Yes, he helps with the chores- the kids, well, sometimes
3) Often enough but not everyday
4) Nope, never. I don't trust him with MacnCheese.
5) NOPE! Treats me like a sister sometimes, esp around his family
6) Yes, at night when we watch movies together
7) Nope, he sleeps in every weekend too while I wake up and care for the kids
8) Says TY for dinner but doesn't compliment
9) I take HIM on vacations and he goes with and acts like Im torturing him..

wow, looks pretty bad doesn't it. If yours is opposite of mine, I say grab on to him and don't let go and try to reciprocate all the favors listed above.







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