Is "trying" to cheat grounds for divorce? Hubby has personal ads online & tries to set up enounters.

Tiara	yes take ur baby and get out now divorce him

shorty	yes it is grounds for a divorce

hys7768	Sorry to say baby girl...but divorce him. If he has done it more then once...then it's not going to stop. He doesn't respect you if he continues to try to cheat on you. Divorce him while you have a chance or it will hurt you in the long run if you actually see him cheating on you.

Josie31	Wow, its sad that you both have a baby and He is doing this. I hope you have a supportive family for you to go to.

Tony	What a loser! It's time to move on.

brwneyedgrl	Why dont u try just leaving now, (not saying necessarily for a divorce) but maybe if u show him that ur serious by knocking some reality into him maybe he's see what he's about to lose and clean up his act.. if not then u know ur answer and u persue a divorce..

CaliMa	Talking is how cheating starts and from what you said your Husband has a cheating heart and whats his deal why would he go so far to disrespect you by even contemplating cheating is enough for me to consider walking and why does he have to use the internet in the first place is that the best he can do maybe he wont miss what he has until its gone because with internet dating you never know what or who you are going to get so follow your heart its usually right.

gravelgertiesgems	Isn't it enough for you that he is no longer holding your marriage vows sacred? He is not forsaking all others; if you "do" still love him, I would imagine it would hurt more to see him in the act of having an affair - intent is just as guilty as the deed. He did not happen to walk into a situation not knowing it was intended to be an affair. Before his actions become mental torture or abuse to you and your child, leave him and pursue your own life. If he really wants you, let him regain your trust (almost impossible). This is just a heads up "Love is not supposed to hurt."

â™£	I was on the other side of that situation. I was the bad guy. I never met anyone online, I never set any meetings up. But It was treated as cheating and I almost got divorced. We went to marriage counseling, and we are better than ever. If he wont stop...he never will. You've already tried to stop him. There is something missing in your marriage for him and he is not happy. You are not happy. Divorce is all that's left. I say leave him alone, you cant give him what he needs, he isn't giving you respect and true love, he doesn't deserve you. You can do better. Move on and start a new life. He will never change. (Especially if you caught him and he keeps doing it) You gave him a chance to learn his mistake.

?	well, I think you and your baby deserve better than that. If he is done this multiple times, obviously he doesn't care about you or the baby's feelings. There is a numerous amount of men that will love you as well as the baby like if it as theirs. No woman let alone a baby should have to go through that situation.

DG	Yes, "trying to cheat" is as good as... But why should you be the one to leave and disrupt yor life and that of your child because of this unfeeling cad? Usually the spouse who leaves is seen as the one who "abandoned" the marriage. Either make him leave, or else toss his computer out the window on your way out the door.

bayouktty6969	yes.........the ads, and chatting mean that the thought is in his head and he intends to act on it at some point. So get your baby, your belongings and leave. You dont need to be putting yourself through that. Apparently vows mean nothing to him.

weddrev	Your husband has already broken the vow he made to you. He has already left the marriage. This indeed is cheating. Not once, but repeatedly. Whether you want to wait or not is up to you. But when you feel you have enough safe time, go. Donot let him know immediately where you're staying. Make sure who you choose to go to will keep this in their confidence as well. See a lawyer asap. Godspeed.

jennifer_spanky2002	I would say yes to his planning being grounds for divorce. You need to leave him girl. I would let him go and meet the girl, but have your stuff and your babies stuff in the car, go to where they are going to meet at, and tell him infront of her that you are leaving. You don't want your baby to be exposed to that type of drama. Good Luck Girlie.

sha scrilla	Yes this is grounds for divorce. If you want to make it even better you can wait until he sets himself up and divorce him or if you dont feel like all that you can just divorce him on the grounds that you already have.

courage	No you don't have to wait. Get out of that relationship NOW! Your husband is not taking his relationship seriously so get out.

haleydwh	one word-DIVORCE!! He is not honoring you or your child! That is not a marriage!

nicole l	make copies of everything you find on line for proof in court,also call his hotel room so you have proof on you bill .make copies of everything,also bring a witness with you to knock on the hotel room door.

aimstir31	Yes and get to the bottom of it. If he's cheating he will never stop. This is being disrespectful to you and your marriage!

party_2_hearty	i say pack up your child and stuff andf get out of there then go for a divorce.

Totes	I would think so! He is trying because he wants to, and when he gets the chance you know he will! You can find a better man who will really care for you and only want to be with you.

Celesta	I would say it's grounds for divorce. Planning a murder but no following through will get ya thrown in jail. It sounds like he has no respect for you and you don't want to be with a man like that. Having no trust in a relationship is the worst. I know. Get out now.

Cary Grant	Set him up with an encounter with one of your friends or acquaintences. Set up a sting.

KrIsTyN	yes...you should've divorced him the 2nd time

shrinkyou	Get out. get out now.

hazegrey	yes