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Is she after my husband?

I am 7 months pregnant, and we had to switch doctors, and the new doctor appeared to be my husband ex! I did not know before. He never even mentioned her.
They were at the university together, and she invited him to meet the old friends. He went there and came back at 1 a.m., all bright and happy.
Then he met her for lunch "accidentally", and then - for dinner again, and she was supposed to introduced her boyfriend then, but he did not turn up, and she said that they split, and that he went back to his wife!
Then they started texting each other, and he never says what about. He said that she is lonely and need a friend to talk about her break up. I found photos of them from the party on his mobile, and she is hugging him as if they were a couple!
And now she wants him to represent her as her PR and he is having a new client dinner with her tonight!
Is she after him and what should I do?
She is extremely beautiful, with red hair and green eyes.







PandaJ
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Change doctors ASAP. Get yourself and your husband into counseling before this baby is born. This is not a situation this child needs to be born into.


putnuck
not only is she after him,she got him-he is a cheating dog-get rid of his *** and take him for all he's got


RPrincess
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I think they both have a hell of a lot of nerve. I would sit him down for a very blunt to the point conversation and then go from there. In the mean time find a new doctor, and I would keep an eye on him. She knows exactly what she is doing and he's an idiot.. Either get him to respect you or let his sorry *** go.....


Teacup
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Yes she is after him, clearly. Dont let him play you for a fool. Let it go on a bit longer and spy on him, follow him if you have to, hire a private eye, catch him in the act so when you leave him you get all of his money.


criminal_justice2007
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Hello, sweetie find a new doctor, it would be a cold day in hell, if i would ever let an ex of husband or boyfriend be my doctor!!!!!!!!! Yes, sounds like she's after your husband and sounds like he's loving all of the attention she's giving him!


A
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She should NOT be your doctor...plain and simple. You need to put your foot down! This is a mess. He has a responsibility to you FIRST AND FOREMOST. He needs to figure out his priorities and if he can't, you need to demand some counseling. He is not respecting you or your unborn child.


MaRiAh D
Kick his %^^&* to the crub....And after you give birth...BEAT her ^&*^*&^*)(!!!!!!!


Racist Answer Man
Dunno, but I think you need to set him straight. This is one of those times when he should be home at night with you. Every night, or as close to it as possible.

The other thing you should do is send me her phone number as quick as you can ;)


kathyw
He could smell of her perfume just because she hugged him. You need to tell him how insecure you feel. Then listen to what he says. Then wait.


audaciousfelon
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Be honest with your husband and ask exactly what his relationship with this woman is.

If he cant look you straight in the eye then yes I'd be worried too.


sunnie_gurl
hmmmm, better be keen with your senses. It doesn't smell right to me.


♫You hate Cuz I'm a RockStar
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Gosh,maybe he is after her to?..you should tell your hubby how you feel toward that.Time to change to a diff Doctor!


goodguyhals
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don,t worry about her being after him ??? he's the one to blame ! he's married to you it's up to him to be responsible and tell her to stay away . if he doesn't,t tell her to stay away then kick him to the curve !!! GOOD LUCK .


dudleydo
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You poor woman. For goodness sakes, GO TO ANOTHER DOCTOR. It looks like you have either been put on the back burner in your marriage, or that this was an intentional thing for her to become your doctor. You should have full confidence in your private doctor, preferably one that has NOT had a relationship with your child's father. I feel so bad for you, do not let this kind of humiliation happen to you, tell him you do not like the situation and get a doctor you can trust. If he will not take heed to your concerns, I am afraid that your relationship is over with this man.


Esperanza
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wow, i wouldnt want to be in your sistuation. I do think this women is after your man and maybe your husband likes the attention that he is getting from this women. First , change doctors and have a talk with your husband about this . And ask him to stop talking to him. and wait to see what his responds is. and it should tell you right there what he wants in his life. good luck.


bountyhunter
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write a letter to the medical board and have them make the call and tell her to leave y'all alone.


♂♥♀Lesley♂♥♀
i would be having a ***** fit right now, if i were u.
of course shes after him!!!!!!! honey when ex' s appear all of the sudden, its not good.
i mean i know ur hormones are a lil out of control, but this issue is nothing to just ignore and leave out of the blue.
i i trust my hubby, but i dont trust, woman like that, the kind that likes married men!!!
why dont u go with them? hell, if its a client dinner, well then ur just there for the eating part.
women of this kind are to be on guard for.


kjml2003
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OMG that is the worst ever. The thought that the woman has seen both of us naked would have my underpants in a twist! I would get a new dr. TODAY and maybe even go to moms house with a big suitcase. Good luck good luck good luck! I feel for you and wish you the best.


tm1trish
Sounds like this is the beginning of an affair. I am not saying that he has been unfaithful to you physically yet, but they are pretty much dating even if they haven't done the horizontal tango yet. I would first tell your husband how you feel. Then go on to tell him that if he is to meet with her about any business that it needs to be done with you there. I would let her know that the situation is uncomfortable for you. Then I would change doctors. I do think your husband is a total azz. You are his wife and you are having his child and he is macking on your dr! How sleazy! I would also hire a pi and have him followed around a bit just to see exactly what he is doing after we have our little talk. Not to mention her reputation would be squat when I got finished with her.


Asia
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i think you should ask your husband what is going on.


guts_spunk_moxie
Yeah, sounds like he's cheating. He has history with this woman, and he is making new history with her.


CHERISH
i would put a stop to this right away. he would of never been to any type of party's with out me


Sway
Yea, it looks like your future ex-husband has rekindled an old love and she has lit his fire.

I hate it when this happens but it pisses me off when it happens to pregnant women!


Nobody
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Confront HER! Sorry, but I would confront her. She is a doctor, your doctor, and what she is doing is WRONG! Switch doctors and be sure to CONFRONT her before you leave.

Let her know how you feel! She's your doctor, she is smart enough to "get it" so speak up.


cat
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Yes she's after him. Explain that you feel uncomfortable with the situation.

I would be. Eww...the doctor is his ex? Creepy. and wrong.

"just friends"--I think not dear. Open your eyes and put your foot down.


steven s
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wow she sound pretty hot


me_2_love_mikey
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Honey, You need to step in a put a stop to this "relationship" that your husband is having with your doctor, his ex. Cant she see that he loves you? He shouldnt be leaving you, his pregnant wife at home alone to go and see his ex. If he doesnt have any feelings for her, and he really just wants to be her friend then he should invite you to go with, even if you dont go, at least if you do you can watch..."supervise". I went out when I was 81/2 months pregnant, so you can still have fun. Dont worry what she looks like, pregnant women are always beautiful, bacause they have a baby in their bellies!!! Good luck, and if you have to get your girlfriends to kick her A$$!!!!
P.S. congrats on your baby!!! hope all goes well


Crystal G
yeah she is after him but your husband is looking at it from a business networking type deal. he is looking at her like friends who have seen each other in a while, but you need to communicate to your husband how you feel when he goes out with her or his new found friendship with her. GodBless







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