Is that true over 90% guys cheat or cheated when they were in relationship or marriage, how canyou trust a guy

God King	stuff happens in the heat of the moment plus girls cheat also all the time speacilay those love triangles

m_cyberfriend	I feel spouse cheat if they don't love their partners. So its must to marry someone who has true love between them.. the love must be two way. true love addresses all issues between individuals not just cheating !!

lifeshouldbesweet	i think perhaps that most men find it difficult to resist the cheating bug. they find it difficult to refuse women who offer it on a platter to satisfy themselves. then there are the ones who try to prove that they still have what it takes. there are others that are true and honest, unfortunately all the ones i know are taken. if you find out where these true men are let me know!!

wongfiehung2003	your FACTS are just bull.. before you even post things like this, you need to get the facts first!

Kari H	I can't believe over 90% of guys cheat. I think that men don't cheat if they respect the woman they are with and the relationship, so choose a guy who respects you. Oh, and check out what they think about guys who do cheat. They should have no respect for them, and not hang out with guys that do. Don't lower your expectations - there are a whole lot of good men out there looking for nice girls. Good luck!

shereen	tahst stupoid thing! u dont thing ist even 40%.

cuteness	someone told me 60% and I didnt even believe that, so I know 90% is a lie. But it is hard to trust people. You just have to remember that the more you worry about getting cheated on the more likely it is to happen. Things like that usually become self fullfilling prophicies simply because you 'sub counciously sabotoge' yourself when you are always expecting the worst.

Inspector?	THE PERCENTAGE OF WOMEN CHEATERS ARE ON THE RISE AS WELL !! ~~ JAS

txladybug_2	its not always about men cheating....women do it too

mattswnrflwfe	I do know that there are some men out there that you can't trust. However if you are truly in love and staisfied you shouldn't have a reason to cheat. Find out if your man has cheated in the past. That should give you a clue if he will cheat again.

FUTUREBOY76	ex relationships should be kept that way - promise you that.

FLOYD L	if you got steak at home why would you want hamburger,unless you just want a little variety

palaboy	Thats not true, if that is true.. why the rate of broken home is far behind......

yourguessisasgoodasyours	Actually that is way off when you are referring to marriage. Not knowing the percentage, but l was shocked to hear that ladies are the leaders for starting affairs. Dating, sure I can see non committed men being unfaithful more than lady. But to answer the questions as I read it. False

dmncprkr	Men and women cheats. So the question should be "Is it true over 90% Of people cheat when they are in a relationship or marriage, How can you trust people? sorry to correct your question,,,,!!!!!

Susie L	I have no idea where you got your stats. Just because one man cheats doesn't mean you can never trust another again. I had an ex that cheated on me, and I threw him out - end of story. Then I met another and married again. It's been 13 years of happiness and I know 100% that he would never cheat on me.

Tgirl	I would hate to think that it is over 90% but I will say that the percentage seems to be higher than 50% which is very sad. There are some guys that have a history of cheating and that makes up about 40% and then there are atleast 20% that didn't have a history and you would of bet money on them that they would never cheat and then years later out of the blue they surprise their spouse and cheat because of excuses like getting drunk, bad mistake, midlife crisis, tempted by the devil or whatever. Don't ever lower your expectations though. Just be aware and follow not only your heart but also your brain.

penny b	I don't know if that % accurate . but it easy to trust some one it's when they validate that trust ,the problem comes in . you just have to take a chance .if he cheats on you then your not the only one that's been cheated on

acedelux	First define cheating. Some women have the opinion that when a guy flirts with another woman, that's cheating. There is nothing wrong with having a fantasy about other women ( and the same goes for women who has fantasy's about other men). The difference is should one of the spouses "act" on it, and commit "the act".

Bert	Your generalising things, woman cheat too, I was married for 18 yrs, never cheated on my wife, she had an affair and left me, woman cheat too......

kenneth h	It is not as bad as you think! 33% of husbands and 25% of wives have cheated at least once in their marriage, in the US. How about making it a crime to cheat. Cheater should get a fine of two months salary + 10 days in jail + possible divorce !

saddison2004	I really doubt that that statistic is true. It might be from an unreliable source. Guys do not cheat by nature any more than girls do. If they do cheat more (I don't know whether that is true or not), it could perhaps be attributed to the fact that women are frequently depicted derogatorily (at least in my society, America). Everyone needs to be seen as a real person with real feelings who deserves respect. If both genders respect one another as human beings who are worthy of our consideration, maybe men and women who are considering cheating on their lovers will have the courtesy to break up or seek counseling first.

Anna	I don't know where you got your figures from but nobody knows for sure if the one you're going to marry will someday cheat on you. The only thing you can do is not marry anyone unless you trust them 100%. As far as lowering your expectations because some people cheat, well that is not an option (for me anyway). If you had to do something like that then what's the point of even getting married to anyone when all you'll be doing is "settling" for less?

resolutionary	There are guys out there who don't cheat. Sounds like you've had some bad run-ins with guys. Guys I know who don't cheat include my dad, my father in law, my husband, and all my guy friends growing up in the church. Some guys just have issues with being unfaithful. Anyone for that matter can have difficulty with being mono e mono. It depends who. It has a lot to do with their history (family in particular), their integrity, and maturity in something bigger than themselves (i.e. faith in God).

zether	ummmm, yea, men cheat, women cheat, welcome to the whole human race now grow up

daljack -a girl	Woman should marry men who have pr oven they can be trusted. There are a lot of men in relationships who wouldn't think of cheating because their relationship means too much to them. If you have doubts about a guy you shouldn't get married or be in a committed relationship with him.

Brianna<33333	Well lowering your expctations arent going to work because as hard it is to believe not all men are like that and most men just want a new adventure so they look for it else where or they are to afraid to break off a relationship si they go around it. Brianna

Maureen	Do you have a link to that statistic? That seems insane.