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Is there anything wrong with using "toys?"?

I bought an adult entertainment toy and I even used it on my husband once. Now he is calling me every darn name in the book for buying it. He said I was acting "wh@rish" by buying it. Our marriage is very unsatisfying and I really want out cuz I believe he is cheating. Am I wrong to try and entertain myself?







SCI
Nothing wrong with that at all. Many couples use toys for a little extra stimulation. My wife does.


katkin
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No its your body you know best how to please yourself. Enjoy!


Petunia
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No!!!
Tell him if he would step up to the plate, You wouldn't have to use a toy. If he can't understand... Then ... Show him how to please you.


James
there is NOTHING wrong with you using it on yourself....or him!!!!

in fact, a few more doses of that for him might just straighten him out (or maybe not, now that i think of it) LOL


apple
ur not wrong if ur using it with ur partner, his stupid, if you think his cheating you should spy on him.


Jessica
NO! not at all. there is nothing wrong with experiementing.! specially in the bedroom.

i know every guy is different .. my boyfriend doesnt like something but he still will try it! and for him to call u names is just wrong. i know i wouldnt put up with that.

(if you bought a vibrater i can understand why he might be alittle upset) if u bought it for yourself. yes he might be alittle sceptical about it. the reason why is because he thinks hes not satisfying you and he doesnt understand why u would need a toy instead of him.

just try letting him use the toy on you :) that always works trust me. if your using the toys TOGETHER its different rather than by yourself.


e Edd
Ethics are relative and goin down the ****hole anyway. Sounds like ya should fix things before entertainment but technically if you're not lusting after someone then its not as bad i think.


Bullett
There is absolutely nothing wrong with this! It can spice things up! I don't know what your husband is thinking by calling you wh@rish! If i was you i would divorce him and explore yourself and what you want. Life is too short babe. Good luck x


ஐThat Sallieஐ
What's wrong is that you feel the need to share that info with all of us. You know that women use them, so why ask?


moonstruck buys pineapples ★
Hell no! I have several and my husband has several. He loves it when I act "wh@rish". You are married which means you have to please each other - doesn't mean you can't please each other using toys - or that you have to sacrifice pleasing yourself.


Shredtheboard
No your not wrong just be yourself and if your marriage isn't right you might want to either bond or get lost...


Roziefox
No!!! you tell him that if he doesn't like the toy then do the job himself!


Butterfly
NOT AT ALL!


Bar None
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You should enjoy yourself on the way out. There's nothing wrong with trying to make a satisfying relationship by adding a little "spice".


Officer Cartman
ummm i couldnt help u there srry


Brianavance129
no u anit wrong tell him to **** off


wilderwriter
No; you're not wrong.

But if you want out; GET out.


I Peed in Your Cheerios
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I would get counseling and if that doesn't work you need to divorce him! Not entertain yourself...!


yowzer.girl
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There is nothing wrong with experimenting in the bedroom. Some people do not like the thought of using toys though. It is all about personal preference.


yggdrasil777
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Nothing wrong with using toys as long as you remember what they are used FOR.

You are perfectly within your responsibilities to self to entertain self.


torieewearsprada
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No its not bad at all. Do what YOU want. It's your life. If you're unhappy, get out of the relationship( marraige)


Studentlife
Nope. Its the 21st century. Tell him to get with the times.


weisenheimer
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Hell no, you aren't wrong. Entertain away. He's obviously not doing it, but I wouldn't share anymore. Just keep it to yourself.


quixoticalthoughts
no, you are not wrong...
but why did you use it on him? he probably feels emasculated.... or is cheating.. one or the other.


Ava
You're not wrong at all.

If you want out of your marriage, then I would visit a lawyer.







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