Is this appropriate behavior from a married man?

Lprod	Definitely not. And you have to start establishing your boundaries and showing him that this is NOT acceptable behavior and you won't tolerate it. Please, need some advice too: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoNQ9.db4Xb3LfXGuNsisEwH53NG;_ylv=3?qid=20091030001517AAzO46i

Me	definitely NOT cool!!! its ok to go out with friends but not if you don't know when they're going to be home and to jeopardize your job is very inconsiderate i'd freak if my husband did that

SarAnn	I have a spare set of locks in the garage if my husband were to even try.

That Guy!	I'm not married. I have a girlfriend I live with. Once I did this, passed out DRUNK on my friends couch. We have our own cars, but she had a fit. She's a little jealous and insecure so that made it that much worse. Anyway, being so drunk I reasoned that it was better to sleep than get a DUI or call and hear her mouth. From now on if I have this situation again I'll call, wake her up and have her come get me.

H A	well from a men's point of view to me i look like he want to be single or still act like it and that's not COOL for a marriedman ok you need to talk to him and tell him how you fell ok

Courtney	You need to pull him aside and talk to him about his behavior forget about the fact that its a "guy thing" he was being inconsiderate and i'm sure if you did that it would be a problem..the first thing that i wonder about is if he had intentions of seeing some1 else..i don't want to plant things in your head but its a question. Just talk to him and if the problems continue and actually get worse you need to find your way out of that. Do what's best for you.

Me time	Obviously not. sounds pretty immature.

imawesome519	NO!!! look you need to set him sraight one: he needs to come home at a reasonable time two: he has responsibilities and he cant be stayin out all night three: You have priorities and those just cant go out the window evrytime he slips up

LovelyNameReally	um, well it is not inherently bad for a married man to go out drinking and stay out all night. But in the context of YOUR marriage it sounds like it is not appropriate, he did not respect your need to get to work and you are his wife. You should talk with him and set expectations for married life.

All Natural in Paradise	I'm not married, but rest assured that is not normal behavior and I would wonder if he was out cheating. Seems he doesn't have much respect for you.

Aleksis	Maybe from a frat boy not a married man.

Bryce Baker	this certainly is NOT

cyrilla_2002	if it was planned and you knew about it before it happened...well, stuff happens, and sometimes people need space. However, he should respect you enough to not leave you really worried all night, and to get you to where you need to go.

OLD MAN OF KNOWLEDGE	Coming from a human being this was totally wrong. Did he at least call you to tell you he was going to be late? He is showing you no respect as a person much less his loving wife.

Slymoon	you need to slap some sense into him! No he shouldn't be doing that. To go drinking with his work buddies is fine but not till 9 the next morning. Talk to him about it

Kate Lucky Canucky	NO! Absolutely not. My husband did this a few days ago - I even asked about it on here. I was hurt, upset, worried, and extremely angry. If you want to read my questions and answers regarding the matter: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqYncnpGmfAcOru9vNTMvUvsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091029072746AA8pEzv

boogeywoogy	He's your husband and it's your marriage, so it isn't my place to tell you what to do, BUT....... Personally, I'd break his arm. The least he could have done was call.

Billy Shat	Absolutely not acceptable. Coming home the next day means he's definitely finding someone other than his buddies to go home with.

jellybeanchick	To me, it is not appropriate to have fun at the expense of your spouse not being able to get to work.

Mo	why don't you talk to him about it... (when he's not drunk) lol

MeeMe	Not at all! It is OK to go out drinking after work for a few hours and coming home the same day! With a phone call too! But over night till 9am? Thats crazy. Plus you needing the car, he should have known, and been smarter!

Kevin C	Doesn't sound like a very good marriage.

Tony	HOLY CRAP...no that's far from acceptable. It's also inconsiderate. You have every right to find out what's going on in your relationship. By any means necessary. You gotta protect yourself otherwise you're going to get hurt. Good luck.

Doubled2483	Im not a women but to me thats really irresponsible and not very nice way to treat you.

wolvrine24	No, it is not acceptable behavior. If I were you I dump his loser a&&.

Dudaw	That's childish. Why doesn't he grow up and get alcohol out of his life?

gokiburi	I think you already know the answer to this one. But in case you are seeking confirmation, NO.

Racer	Well, I wouldn't be too impressed...but then, my hubby would never do such a thing.

Ezkay	absolutly not

Joeseph Henderson	Divorce.