Is this controlling ladies???

wineboy	Yeah, it's a little controlling. But ask yourself why. Maybe someone in her family is an alcoholic and she's lived with that all her life. Then again, maybe she was in an abusive relationship with someone who was always drunk and she has no interest in going through that again. This may just be her way of controlling the situation. It's also interesting that you're complaining because she says you "cannot get drunk," not "you cannot drink." She's not asking you never to have another drink, just to not drink so much you make a complete *** of yourself, puke on your clothes, and spend the next day hung over. Why is this a problem for you? Is getting drunk and incoherent the way you "celebrate." And for that you're going to leave her? Maybe you need to grow up a bit.

Katy	it sounds to me like she is looking out for you. c'mon, is it really that fun to get drunk? you are lucky to have someone who cares about your well-being.

Nicki	If you act right when your drinking , then yes this is controlling. No person regardless likes to be controlled, You'll probably be better off by yourself take it from me, it gets worst and worst, never better.

T	Get drunk more often...........than she will leave you.......and your off the hook.

latingyrl2184	Yes!! It's not like you're an alcoholic. Everyone gets drunk once in a while especially for holidays. If she can't accept that then Leave Her ***!!!

Coyote	then leave her. well you could ask her why she so apposed to this....did she date an abusive alcoholic? is she a recovering aloholic? if you gain some insight into why shes like this it may help you decide if you really want to stay with her. by talking you may also be able to work some stipulations into her "rule" ....although rules in relationships shouldnt be necissary . both people should eventually learn and know the others likes and dislikes. but no drinking? is she worth this? Im not saying drinking is all important but if this is the beginning what else is she gonna pull out of her hat....next thing u know you cant hang with the guys? talk to her ask her why, thats all i can say. if you want to be with her then find some compramise FAST. If u let her get away with this rule there will be more to come

dudette	yes it is leave her dude u do not need someone to control ur life u need someone to be there to be part of ur life...

sunkiss	have you done something in the past to harm you, her or anyone else while intoxicated?? If you have then I understand where she is coming from.. But if not then she is definitely way too controlling.. but if you would choose getting drunk over being with her then I don't think you really want to be with only her anyway and are looking for a easy way out... I think you are ready to move on.. Life is too short to waste your time (AND HERS)

â™¥â™ª TrickNice â™ªâ™¥	Yes, that's very controlling. No one has the right to tell you what you can and cannot do when you are an adult and pay your own bills.

Phaylynn	depends on if you're an alcoholic or not. If she's saying that because if you do it one more time she'll leave you because you're a miserable drunk than no. But if you are not an alcoholic than yeah, its a bit controlling I'd say. But is it really worth leaving her? If this is her only issue and she's not a freak maybe you should talk it out and tell her that you are not into the whole dominatrix thing. She's not your mother and you will make the decisions regarding your life.

novembr	Stay drunk thruout the year. She need never know the difference! lol Let her stay in the driving seat tho.

Flower	what is her definition of "drunk"? Some people say drunk is if you're just feeling a buzz...some say drunk is when you piss yourself cause you passed out and couldn't make it to the bathroom. Find out what it is she's concerned about, and maybe you can work out the problem instead of dumping her for something so trivial.

hotstuff22	she should chill out its not like its a everyday thing she should join and celebrate with you

Johnny	i wonder if she's experienced trauma related to drunkenness in the past (maybe a parent or an uncle was an alcoholic)... should try to understand where she's coming from before deciding if that's your breaking point or not... good luck~

celtichearty2k	no it isnt the reason why i say it my friends boyfriend asked her if he could go to the store with a friend she didnt know and then she didnt see wither of them for 3 days and then found out that the friend ended up getting them both arressted ..so you tell me it seems to me she is looking out for you GOOD FOR HER THAT IS A TRUE SIGN SHE LOVES YOU

Littlebit	Since she is NOT YOU MOTHER...................I would have to say YES!!! That you have a potential control freak on your hands............But hey whatever turns you on buddy!

meggs4	Probably is. However, you have to consider if there is a good reason behind it...like if somebody in her family was a drunk. If it bothers you, then cut bait.

HereweGO	This is only the tip of the iceberg. She is going to try and control everything if you let her get away with this. Run, Run FAST!!

ginger13	She probably had a bad experience with someone that was drunk and cares for you enough that doesn't want you to be the same way. Isn't she worth not getting drunk?

Pale	do you have to get drunk? Sometimes a nice buzz will do, and no hangover/puking/embarrassment/attorney bills to deal with...

?	you dont need that domination in your life , let her go you will meet better girls in the pub

misydoll	Yes, that is controlling. If you want to get drunk, tell her to be there to get you home safe, don't take the whole thing away from you.

Colleen O	If you find it necessary to be drunk in order to celebrate anything then YOU have a problem. I think she deserves better than you.

Scotty	yep, if thats all that you do, she should understand. If she doesn't, she is not for you.....

broc1212	I think you should...call her from the Bar! :-)

imababe_84	go ahead. you obviously cannot handle a girl like her. She will probably get annoyed by you anyways.

thersa33	Leave her - she is WAY too controlling.

brenny_boo	Then leave her - and you can spend as much time as you need "drunk" What a goal in life!!

Danielle	Yes....