Ladies: Would you have a problem if your husband did this

A W	He would be kicked to the curb if he did this. And not allowed back in. His wife is pregnant...she is his first priority, not checking out hot chicks. The only hot chick in his life should be his wife.

tabbi8407	If you are married you should not be checking out chicks.... how old are you? My husband is mature enough to know that, guess I'm lucky my husband is obsessed with World of Warcraft. He can check out night elves and orcs :P

sungirltan	hell yeh!! your wife is doing you the honour of carrying your child!!! don't resent the fact she's lethargic, pamper her and look after her. When your baby is born you can go out together and have fun. For gods sake!

Kali	You let out pent up energy by 'clubbing and checking out hot chicks'? Try screaming into a pillow . . I let my husband go to the club with his boys and have fun. But if it was for "chicks" i surely wouldn't let him go.

Malteselove	I really feel bad for your wife :( Poor woman. You should be supporting her right now... even though you're bored because she can't do too much, there are things you two can do together. Are you sure you're ready to be a father? It's a lot of work and takes a lot of maturity.

KayDee	Go mow the dang yard with your pent up energy, or clean the house, or rub your pregnant wife's feet, or prepare the nursery, or cook dinner, or run a dang marathon, but don't go clubbing you idiot. Poor woman!

LoveYaTonz	Of course i would have a problem with it and i am pretty sure that any normal woman would. She is at home carrying your child and you are out checking out other women? Thats horrible and its sure as hell not "pent up energy" STAY HOME WITH YOUR WIFE!

"B"	ooh. i dunno about the checking out hott chicks part...cant you go play golf or something? find another way less threatening for your wife to release that energy of yours. she needs you now more than ever. make sure she feels beautiful (reguardless of what you REALLY think)

Beth	Its understandable to have pent up energy, but if you are married and have a baby on the way, why do you need to go check out hot chicks?? Maybe you should do something different that doesnt involve other women. She is carrying your child.

Marina	I think you're a scumbag and I feel sorry for both your wife and your future child. Why not go for a jog to release all that pent up energy? Why are you having children with this woman if you want to check out other women? Become single and do it all the time.

Kathyrn F	Hell yeah I'd mind. How do you think the pregnant wife feels? Find another way to release stress because going out without her while she is pregnant and swollen and miserable carrying your child is pretty darn selfish. Especially to checkout hot chicks...do that at home on the internet like everyone else.

miss e	PERSONALLY, I THINK THE ONLY 'HOT CHICK' YOU SHOULD BE CHECKING OUT IS YOUR WIFE/ THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD. THE BIRTH OF YOUR CHILD AND YOUR WIFES COMFORT SHOULD BE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING RIGHT NOW, AND IF YOU WANT TO RELEASE SOME ENERGY, THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD GO OUT TO HAVE SOME DRINKS TO CELEBRATE YOUR LUCK AND HAPPINESS AS A MARRIED MAN WITH A CHILD ON THE WAY. AND THOSE OTHER CHICKS SHOULDN'T MEAN A THING BCUS YOU ARE THE ONE THATS LUCKY TO HAVE THE FAMILY YOU GOT. THOSE HOT CHICKS ARE ONLY DRAMA AND UNNECESSARY BAGGAGE THAT LEADS TO TROUBLE.

yolanda	Hell yes I would have a problem with it. My husband shouldn't be goin looking at hot chicks if I was home pregnant, if he wanted to look at other hot chicks shouldnt of got married! How would u like it if she did it too you? Go to a club and check out hot guys? Would you like it? Since your doin it she should after she has the baby go for a girls night out!!

KMax - Lady31	If I were home carrying his child, with my body going through all kinds of crazy and uncomfortable changes and he decided that instead of supporting me and loving me in a time where I felt less than attractive, he wanted to go out clubbing and be unfaithful by looking at other women? Yes, I would be more than a little upset. Try playing sports.

mrs. bookworm	My opinion: You should not put yourself in temptation's way. If you and your wife are both interested in clubbing - go clubbing. You shouldn't be checking out other chicks when you have a wife - especially one that is carrying your child. Goodness! Have a heart! How would you feel if your wife went out clubbing, checking out hot guys while you were at home feeling sick? Find a new way to release your pent-up energy. Take up a sport or play video games - anything that doesn't involve the chance of you doing something stupid you may later regret.

C 2 tha Tea	Your concern for her health makes you a good husband looking out for her well being. Being a married man myself I say go for it! You only live once and your wife wants her man to be happy and taken care of. Once one of my wifes friends "helped me out" if you know what I mean when my wife was recovering from a back operation. What great friends she has! Oh when you go to the club make sure when you talk to other women to be relaxed, confident, and dress very nice. Act like a rock star and they will be yours. Enjoy!

zenÃ¨	well why don't you wanna take her with. did she get pregnant by herself? She's got to change things to fit with present situation, so you should support her and also. You both decided and responsible for the result and should have known that when you did you will have to except responsibilities and there will be changes in you life to think about. So if she can't go somewhere you should not also, will just make things stay peacefull and happy.

Kathleen S	Gosh.. sometimes when my wonderful hardworking husband is away on business, I just HAVE to give a ******* to someone, since he is not around - I go to a club & find some generic guy and have at it - would you mind if your wife did THAT? and before you say ANYTHING - it is EXACTLY the same thing. Be a real man and stay home with your pregnant wife and massage her feet, be grateful for what you have.

Tootie	You shouldn't leave her at home alone like that being pregnant. If something were to go wrong and she would need you, but couldn't get ahold of you because you were out, how would you feel then? You going out all the time has to make her feel horrible considering she is carrying your child, but you seem to not really care by going out the way you are. Screw your pent up energy, stop being so selfish.

Esther	First of all, she's lethargic for a reason. Her body is busy creating YOUR child. This time in her life is when she needs you the most. Don't be selfish with you "pent up energy" and stand by her side. It's devasting to a pregnant woman to think that her husband might be straying. Her hormones make her emotional and it will effect you child. Don't put her through it. Respect her, comfort her and stick by her.

the one he comes back to	If you got fat and your wife had all that energy but you had to sit at home would you be mad or have a problem.i know you are going to say no but think again. stay at home with your wife until she can go with you. instead of taking your self out take that woman that's carrying your baby, make her feel good. don't just think about your self. i let my hubby go but then i get to go and trust me there is nothing better then a hubby and wife going to the strip club together.be nice to your wife she is going through lot even thou she is prego she is still pretty.o by the way if a woman is prego she can get away with any thing like you know killing selfish a$$holes.good luckk

Metoo	Put yourself in your wife's position: What if you were working really hard at a job and were too tired or busy? Would you mind if she had her fun elsewhere to release her pent up energy? If you would be bothered by your wife doing that, then I suggest that you don't do it either. Otherwise, you are basically saying that you are self-absorbed, have double standards, and care more about your happiness than your family's.

jo :)	Find a way to cheer your wife up. Sh emight be feeling fat, ugly and vulnerable and if you go off clubbing, you are heading for divorce courts, because even if you could keep your hands off those hot chicks, your wife will be hormonal, and low and insecure. If you value your family, you can put up with a few months of being away from the action. If not, you're not deserving or mature enough to have a family.

Paula D	Uh, ya, I would have a problem with this!! Come on, seriously. You have no idea what it is like being pregnant. It is so emotional. Our hormones change so we are depressed and tired more, our bodies become totally distorted so we feel very unattractive to our husbands/boyfriends, we carry around another person inside of us which kills our backs and takes a strain on every part of our bodies. That is just WHILE we are pregnant! We have to go through the horrible pain of child birth and more than likely the woman gets up and cares more for the baby at night. Now, here you are going out and having this great time looking at other women with the great bodies while your wife is home feeling miserable. How do you rate? She is giving you a child. She is doing all the hard stuff. Do you think it is fair? You men get sick with the sniffles and want to be taken care of. What if you were in a car accident and had to stay home and your wife didn't give a dam? She wants to go out and get her eye candy around her and let off a little steam. Yum, those guys sure look good now that my husband is laid up. Party till the cows come home girl! I don't think you would appreciate it at all. I think that was a very selfish questions and you should know better than to act like that when your wife is home going through this. You must be young.

Anie	Well, this could be "iffy." I mean your wife is preggers, so her hormones are probably not completely "normal." Understanding that she could get upset at you for going out, do you want to take that risk? I'm sure she feels fat and unattractive as it is. That will hurt her feelings that you want to go out and expend your "pent up energy" and "look at hot chicks" while she is pregnant and at home feeling tired and miserable. It really doesn't look good on your part. But in your defense, I see what you are going thru. I'm sure your life has changed since pre-pregnancy. It's a lot to adjust to. I'd say go out with the boys to a sports bar or shoot pull at a bar. Leave the "hot chicks" out of the equation. Good luck, things will loosen up after the baby gets a little older.

me	Your butt should be at home waiting on your "lethargic" PREGNANT BY YOU wife hand and foot. Check out hot chicks?! Do you have any idea how hard it is to feel ugly and fat and disgusted with yourself when you are pregnant (the hormones don't help)? Can you even imagine how hard it is to be pregnant and tired? Would you mind if she went out and was checking out hot guys? You need to tell your wife every day that she is beautiful and glowing and how much you love her. This question made me a little mad because it is so pig-headed, but there is something to be said about it. Did your wife used to be full of energy and now not? Probably because she is pregnant, and she might not want to do anything because she is feeling self conscience about her weight gain and appearance. You need to take a good long look in the mirror and decide if you are going to be a good husband and father or a guy who go's out and dogs his wife behind her back. Grow up, at least for your kids sake. Edit---I just saw your little comment about not taking her out with you for "her health"---What about her EMOTIONAL health? You are her husband, her mate for life and you are responsible for 75% of her happiness or unhappiness. YOU got married, YOU got pregnant, now YOU have to man up and deal with it. You made this bed for yourself and now you need to be a MAN and support your wife and your child. That poor woman dealing with such a selfish and inconsiderate husband.

shy_gal2	Well if you want to go by yourself clubbing and check out hot chicks then your not ready to be in a relationship at all. You should of thought about that before you got your wife pregnant. Why not take her with you? There's nothing wrong, but you should be with your wife and not other "chicks". I think your too immature still and you shouldn't be married with her or anyone at this moment. If you have so much energy in you, why do you go walking with your wife or do more exercise. If your saying you have "pent" up energy to go clubbing and have fun, that's just a plain out excuse to not be around your wife. Maybe you should just divorce her and she should find herself a better man who is responsible and will respect her, have fun with her, value her, appreciate her and most importantly keep faithful to her.