Ladies...and gents.... did I get mad for nothing?

Albert	wel i find it pretty reasonable n rational nothin to worry about this is called marriage aftre all

TABBYKAT34	YOU HAD A RIGHT TO BE MAD AT HIM. ITS FUNNY HOW MEN ARE. ITS OKAY FOR THEM TO LOOK,BUT THEY DONT WANT YOU TO LOOK,OR THEY DONT WANT OTHER MEN LOOKING AT YOU.ITS NATRUAL FOR US TO LOOK,BUT ITS WRONG TO DO IT WHEN YOUR WITH EACH OTHER. SO,YOU HAD EVERY RIGHT TO BE MAD AT HIM.

sara w	I wouldn't say you got mad for nothing; if you felt hurt, that's something right there. At least you two were able to calm down and talk about it after the fact. That suggests that it didn't totally ruin your day. Be grateful that your relationship is available to communication and open to positive change. Go hug your hubby.

Optimistic Pessimist	I'm sorry but I think you did get mad for nothing!!! He probably didn't mean to look at that other girl! He did kiss you right not the other girl! It seemed like an acsadent! You really did over react!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!â€¦

Sophie B	Yes , you did.... except the kisses and compliments.. quit looking to see what he is looking at, if it is going to bother you.. All men like to window shop, as long as they're not buying everything is fine.. Besides you like to look tooooo....

E J Doyle would you like a cup of tea anybody?	This shows how my glass is always half full i would have assumed he was looking at the other woman in disbelief at how odd she looked. He loves you and only you as he wants to kiss you in public aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh bless.

cutey171	I have learned over the years I have to pick my fights or else my husband and I will fight forever. Honestly I think that there is a chance that he may not have even realized that he was even looking at someone else. Wether it was a woman, man, child, monkey.....whatever it was that he was looking at. I mean I think your lucky to even have a husband that leans over and kisses you. Mine doesn't.

whycantyouallgetalong	I see your point, but he was kissing you- not her. And therefore you are taking him home- men are creatures of habit. I think you got upset out of habit as well.

Phaylynn	Well, it was kind of rude but you don't know what he was looking at. If it was a hot girl at the check out counter that's one thing, but if it was a special price on BBQ potato chips than who cares. A kiss is a kiss. Be glad your husband still thinks enough of you to give you little public displays of affection like that. A lot of marriages aren't so lucky. And... a kiss on the cheek should have different rules than a kiss on the mouth. When you kiss the cheek you can look around especially if there's a lot going on, but if its lip locking, those eyes best be closed or on you at all times! So, yeah, I think you blew up about nothing but what's done is done. Just remember this for the future and try not to ruin your days over something so insignificant. You can't always be right and what's going to be more important to you? Being right or having a nice day with your spouse?

Sarah K	Your reaction was normal. But at the same time his action was normal. Just realize that as long as you both understand what happened, why it happened, and how to correct it then you will be fine. It's unfortunate that this had to happen on your day together, but it is not the end of the world. Make sure you enjoy the next one you have!

JOCK	The arguement isn't about the fact that he looked else where, the arguement was about the fact he lied to you when you confronted him. It was his fault and he owes you another beautiful day with absolute attention on you all day to make up for it!!!

byrnechas	Your justified, but a better tatic wouild have been to play silent and looking away. When he inquires, teary eyed say nothing until he can't take it, then very tearfully tell him how you feel. Yelling at guys only jacks us up. Look at guys at a football game!

gamedic6304	I would say it should not be a problem. it could have been that a movement caught his eye as he leaned in for the kiss. It is a normal reaction to track movement. It is un-conscious and he may not have realized he was doing it. Then again maybe he did. If he has never before (or since) given you a reason not to trust him, I would give him the benefit of the doubt.

sam	sounds like your a little jealous....my bf can look at who ever he wants but if he touches...he is dead....as long as u trust him and know that he wouldn't cheat on you i wouldn't of gotten mad.....think of it as if it were you looking at some guys *** while your husband gave you a kiss...that what i do...put yourself in the opposite position before you judge or get mad...but as long as he doesn't touch or do anything stupid...well...there is no harm in looking

Nobody	No, don't think so, just tell him that if he really doesn't wanna kiss no pb, just you have a strange pb when somebody kisses u a looks somwhere else, just in case... :-)))

Jordy ~ Mikey's Huckleberry	NO! Not at all! Ok, so you can't control where he looks... but HE can! & should! I know it would piss me off if my hubby kissed me while looking at someone else! I realize that we can't stop a guy's nature for wandering eyes... but he shouldn't have kissed you at that moment if he was going to be looking at another woman!

â˜® & â™¥	Maybe if the girl was looking over at you guys, he glanced at her back possibly because he was imbarressed or didnt want anyone to see you two kissing? Just a thought, but good for you on staying with the safe side!

BabeHart	It's over, let it go. Guys are typically more visual than women and so if something catches their eye, they're going to look. No big deal...let 'em look all they want, it's the touching that should be an issue...y'know? It does sound like the situation got blown way out of proportion so be more aware in the future that this can happen, and don't let little things turn into something that ruins your whole day.

vpsinbad50	He was kissing YOU . He left with YOU . He is home with YOU . You made a mountain out of a mole hill . Forget about IT !

totalstressor	I don't think that you are trying to control where he looks - both men and women are human they are going to notice other people, but I think it was the timing. He was kissing you and looking at another woman.

Iceman	Yep, you got mad over nothing. Guys looking at other women is typical behavior. I been with my fiance for over 5 years and i still constantly look at other women when shes in my presence and I just like to look since women are naturally beautiful.

MEHNAZ B	In a way yes. What if the other women was trying to make a move on him & he was just proving a point to her that he is taken already by a gorgeous women who he loves so dearly

Bear	Stop being paranoid.Without trust a relationship is nothing.

wrfine	NEVER JUMP TO CONCLUSION,I HOPE YOU LEARN YOUR LESSON. DO YOU HEAR ME?

Sleek	My husband doesn't even know where his eyes roam. He is innocent for the most part, but they look with their eyes and not their brains. God love em. Thank goodness for the good ones, but they still have EYES and there are still pretty ladies in the world. Just be confident in yourself and in his faithfulness. He kissed you in the market, girl! Simmer down, now!

howie r	yup, you totally overreacted.. some women just look for trouble and will seize on any tiny thing to gain the upper hand. glad he got over it, I would just be sure never to show affection again unless you were blindfolded. LOL

Alla	Sorry but I wish I had problems like yours!

astralpen	It's very difficult to control where one's eyes go. Unless he was leering, you overreacted.

S19SER	no u didnt get mad over nuthin. you had every right to be angry!!