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Ladies, need your help. My husband gave me a F on my report card for carpet cleaning...He says if I can...?

My husband accidentally spilled some red wine on the carpet on Monday and I tried my best to get the stain to come out but all I had was soap, water, and a generic carpet cleaner that didn't work good at all :( He gives me a report card on various wifely duties and if I get all A's I get 20 "good girl points" but if I get any F's on one of them I lose 10 :( Before today I had 30 good girl points but now I have 20. If I had of got all A's I would have had 50 points and my husband would have taken me and baby to the zoo this weekend. I had A's in every other category so I pleaded with him to give me a second chance. He said he will give me to Friday evening to remove the stain. I could sure use a breather and would love to see the animals and I'm sure baby would enjoy the fresh air and a long ride in the stroller :) Please help!! :) What is the best carpet cleaner for red wine? Thanks for all you help girls!!







PureGold
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I suggest that he cleans up the mess since he is complaining so much. I feel a little sad for you because you are being treated like a child or imbocile. You could even suggest to hire a crew of carpet cleaners...Come on, get the guts and tell him to clean it since he knows how it should be! Furthermore, ditch the damned grading system, you get all A's for being a woman, sister,mother,daughter,aunt.... Get some backbone(endearingly said)


Flagger
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I've been puzzeled by a number of your questions before but this one is a bit disturbing.
I fear that you are being treated like some school child. Were I to try "good girl" points my wife would laugh me out of the house. Your family trip to the zoo is with your child is based on getting points!?!? This concept is SO bizzare that I have no response.
How long can you continue being treated this way?


jojo
Tell him if he can do better then to do it himself and who gives spouses report cards?


Simply Lovely
Resolve


Bassetlover
Again since you are such a bad girl you don't deserve to go to the zoo. Quick question will you have to wear diapers on this trip or will your husband let you use the restroom? Please get a life, people before you get all poor little angel read her other posts. Just some kid or man bored (too much time on his hands). thanks for the 2pts though


lily
Copy and paste the link below, it will tell you all you need to know. I hope the weather is nice this weekend for your day at the zoo.


betty b
toothpaste,it might whiten it , if it`s light color, it should work. since husband spilled it , i don`t think it`s fair to give you an f btw, i think i can hear both you & your hubby laughing.


shojo
Scrub harder and earn your trip to the zoo.


jdavisauto
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You just set a new standard for all women to reach for. We can only pray that all women will one day be as intelligence as you are this day. Thank you for setting this new high standerd of intelligence for all women to reach for. LMAO.


Nana
Tell him to clean it himself and than score him......honey you need to get rid of him. He is so controlling it will only get worse.


sakisgirl
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Are you serious? Is this a serious story or are you bored, cause you know Nov is story writing month. I can't imagine a wife would allow her husband to treat her like that in this day and age.


.Vibrant1.
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Report card? Um, huh? What the? Ok, I got nothin'. Good luck with that. LOL!


carpet guy
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This type of stain is one of the hardest to get out the carpet even for a professional carpet cleaner, so you should not lose point for this one. Now for this stain I would recommend using a wet vac and slowly pour hot water (from a kettle) on the spot and vacuum it up at the same time, (this will open up the dye ports on the carpet fibre releasing the stain. and remove the residue from the carpet).
If the stain is still visible than try putting Dawn dishwashing liquid (4 or 5 drops into one cup of water) or carpet spotter. Dampen the spot letting it soak on the stain for about 5 minutes and repeat step one. After this you should rinse the area again with the wet vac and hot water.
Please be careful with what product you uses (neutral PH carpet cleaning solution is best). Please DO NOT put anything on the carpet that was not made for carpet.

Good luck and if you get the stain out you should get extra points.

Carpet cleaner for 14 years


Chakra
Why doesn't HE clean it? Geez! I use Spot Shot Instant Carpet Stain Remover, they worked fine for me.


saxaphonist
first let me tell you that i am a man! now to your problem..you ar a slave you have given your husband to much power!


S
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REPORT CARD??? now i have heard it all. tell him to clean the carpet himself, why don't you take the baby to the zoo while he cleans the house!


physandchemteach
You both need serious help. Find a good marriage counselor.


Rodney
Tell that punk to go back to school is own self. Grade him as a husband, C how well he does. I have a saying"Men may wear the pants in the family, but the woman wears the panties." I don't have that many women trying to get into my pants, hope u get my drift, good luck and good grades.


~Happy~
I think you need a divorce. He wont take you and your child to the zoo unless you clean up his messes!? Thats messed up.


dax
u must be crazy for succumbing to his husbandly wishes of giving u grades and all for ur wifely duties OMG are u mad u r his wife or what how can he give u grades for what u r doing and then take u to a zoo , u r living in which era but nayways try to become his wife instead of his kid .


B-B@!! P!@Y@
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lol, thats pretty funny. Though you didn't intend it to be. And guys can also clean just so you know. Why don't you try Mr. Clean, or Oxyclean. Even if it is the Oxy powder one, just mix it in water and pour it over the carpet.

Hope this helps.


Use another Nickname
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I don't really know about carpets and zoos.

But how many people cant see a joke coming at them with the high beams on and the horn blowing.



More than I thought.


Now everyone paypal me a dollar and I won't report you.


Vangelis
You look childish, and you do look like a maid more than a wife...


la_southern_femme
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This sounds like a joke and if it is not, then it should be. I would tell him, if he wants it clean, to clean it himself. This report card thing is a crock. I would cram that thing so far down his throat, he would be able to talk to weeks. I really hope are joking and don't live like this and if you do, then you do deserve and F.


stormyjoem
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Little Angel
You are not a maid but a wife, even maids don't have report cards.! I agree it sounds a lot like a control issue with your spouse, You are a woman with a mind SPEAK it tell him to clean the stain while you and baby are at the zoo!
Please stand up for yourself and tell him you are not his student but his wife and he better start treating you as such.
Good Luck and try peroxide on that stain take it right out. or a little bleach in a spray bottle mixed with water wont remove color of carpet if mixed and cleaned up right away. again good luck


crazycatlady4real
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you're kidding right?...right?!? my advice? RUN AWAY!


Cobra
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natalie.
wow. yeah. i agree with everyone else. that is really messed up.


peachy78
I hope you're not serious about the whole report card thing. That's just wrong!







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