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MEN! My wife is getting fat???

My wife just had our second child 5 months ago and now she is gaining some weight.... She used to be about 115 now she's probably about 140... I don't know what to do but if she doesn't lose the weight I want to leave her because when we first got together we agreed that she wasn't gonna get fat and lazy... I don't believe there's a justifcation for laziness and I keep fantasizing about being with more attractive women. I feel like i'm wasting my life away while I stay with her when I could be with so many other women... She used to be really beautiful but now she's losing it! What do I do?







Pinar
she doesnt love herself anymore,aww pity seeing a marriage go down.
go sleep with anyone you want..


Reyna D D
at the end of the day love is all abt looks, skin and shape.. it is not what comes from ur heart.. for how long do u think ur gonna look hot..


Katey
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lol and 140 is just such an enormous size...
scumbag


SomebodyzSomebody
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Please leave. She will be better off without you.


Helicreature
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Your wife has very low self esteem, or she wouldn't be married to you.


★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥
If she loses you - she could lose a quick 140 lbs of nothing.


The Sun is Shining â‚
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Getting rid of you is the only excess weight she needs to lose, buddy.


mij
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And you call yourself a man? You don't deserve her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…


trav
Have a serious talk with her. Maybe reinact the earlier times so she remembers why she made that certain agreement not to get lazy. Remember, a little tough love may be better than no love (or leaving her.)


Edie
Oh my god are you an a s s HOLE
I hope your wife dumps you! You don't deserve her!
Why don't you stay home with 2 little babies while SHE hits the gym every night?
Women have it easy? Think again mister!


Sally
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i can't believe there exist men like you.
two small kids, taking care of the housework - you think that is no work?
i pity your wife.
i hope she leaves you before you can leave her.


julie
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well thats rude! that is why men are always warn about marrying girl for their attitude not their beauty! but either way remind her of how preety she looks and what u guys talked about try motivating her to exercise in the nice way maybe ur not taking care of your self so she had done the same


jules
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i agree with you, you should talk to her and let her know that it's important that she takes care of her appearance not just for herself but because you deserve to be with the hot woman that you married.


sulaimaan ibn ya'quub
i'm sorry...in my culture when a man marries a woman & she gains weight, what does that say about you as a provider? i've got 2 wives & they both have got even more chubby ever since i married them & i'm loving every minute of it!!!


cheezyhill
This sounds like it is all about you.

What about your children?

I think you should leave her FOR HER SAKE she deserves better than a selfish guy like you.

If that sounds harsh, well maybe you need a reality check - they have it so easy? Do you ever do anything to care for your children? I bet not.


smurph
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get over yourself you loved this woman you got her pregnant shes was bond to put on weight she will probaly lose it eventually and as for lazy looking after two kids she wont have the time to be lazy so get your head from up your a@@e and give her a break and a hand with the kids


klay70
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You are an idiot! You need to thank the Good Lord above that there is a woman out there that is willing to give you two beautiful children and still put up with a shallow inconsiderate, selfish animal like you! You should do her a favor and leave!!!! And by the way how is having two small children lazy? MORON!


MissDevious
wow........your woman gave up 18months of her life carrying your kids and all you can do is bleat on about how she has dared to put on weight...........wake up a**hole!! she probably feels like c**p right now, & kids are hard work, support her, tell her she is beautiful..........if you love her at all (or even have some inkling of what that means) appreciate what you have or you will lose it all


Rebecca W
Why is it hard to put ourselves in your place? In case you haven't noticed, men get fat too, and they don't have childbirth as an excuse. And bald as well. All I can say is that it's obvious you must have never loved your wife at all, and you certainly don't care for anybody's happiness but your own. Do us all a favor and leave us alone.


Z
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This is a sad but all too common scenario. Women tend to see parenting as reaching a goal in life and fulfilling a deeper purpose. Superficial things are no longer important as instilling values in children becomes the priority. Men sometimes feel insecure with the adjustment to parenthood. Thus, the weak men avoid the responsibilities of being a good parent and husband. These men will find excuses to avoid their responsibilities, such as escaping into a fantasy world and illusions of grandeur.

Good luck in your endeavors to perpetuate negative stereotypes about men. You are well on your way.







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