Marriage??

rosemary242	I't nobody's bussius what u do with your life if you don't think your ready then don't. Here one way to look at it do you want the baby to be born in a unhappy marriage or a life where you and your baby and boyfreind or husand is happy .THINK ABOUT I HAVE SEE CASES LIKE THIS.IT"S UP TO YOU

??????	Well if you know that deep down inside that he is the guy 4 you marry him. But dont get married just cause of the baby. Also talk to him about it. I would wait til after the baby is born to get married but til then you could start the wedding plans. Believe me its alot of planning even if you want a simple wedding.

Daniel Perez	Don't get married unless you really want to, cause then you might end up in a divorce, and that's even worse cause it will ruin your reputation.

*His Wifey*	I think if you are crazy about the guy and really wanted to marry him in the first place then you should go ahead and do it. I think its dumb when people wait till after the baby is born then get married. But Good Luck with whatever you decide!

cindy h	Well, in case you care about how your child is going to feel and how your child is going to feel about you when he/she is old enought to understand, you need to get on the stick and make a decision. You more than likely screwed life up for your child having his real father around if you can't even figure out if you want to marry the man. But just like most people these days, who gives a **** about the children right? Its our lives, they can fend for themselves. It makes me sick.

Chris M	you have to do what feels right. follow your heart and it will lead yo in the right direction, if you do something that you are not sure of, it will only cause more doubt and confuse you even more.

keegan	well you should get married with and u want the question is does he want it. and is he ready to be a dad. the reason y he is not asking is he is not ready for that responsibility

Katie	Don't push marriage just because there is a baby involved. You want to make sure that your relationship is solid enough to withstand marriage. Do this for you and your boyfriend... not for your child.

Natasha	If you both really love each other and want to spend the rest of your life together then get married. If it is for the baby, I don't recommend it. You should marry when YOUR ready, having a baby or not will not guarantee a happy or successful marriage.

Kitty	There's no right or wrong answer - you have to figure out what makes you most comfortable. I would definitely get married soon, so I wouldn't have to worry about it after the baby is here. P.S. I don't care about the bible or any of the religious rhetoric - but if I'd been with a man for two years already, we have talked about marriage, and we were expecting a baby, I would want to be married to this man. It's not like you met him yesterday at a bar; I assume you guys had already been inclined to think about marriage, and the baby is just bringing the thought into focus. It goes without saying that if you two don't want to get married, then you shouldn't - baby or not. But it sounds to me that the idea is on the table, and you're just thinking of timing.

its just me	Having a baby is no reason to run into marriage. If you wait then your child can be a part of your special day.

D. Bronco	When you know that your boyfriend becomes the man you want to spend the rest of your life with, then you marry him and never rush that...God bless and good luck!

Impavidsoul	There are reasons you have doubts. Really search yourself to find out why. It's not necessarily a bad thing, detrimental to your relationship, just might not be the right timing. Plus: A BABY IS NOT A REASON TO GET MARRIED! Please, trust me on this! Do it when it's right, not when you think society is dictating it's right. Know what I mean??? Good luck - you could do a pros/cons list to marriage now, and see where that takes you. Keep it simple, cut and dry, ya know? You might be surprised how well that'll help you with your decision!

link00777rl	follow your heart. dont worry about other people, do your own thing.

ronnieD	You'll get these "self-righteous" creeps telling you..."oh, get married. You should've been married before you got pregnant. The bible says..." Get married only if you want to. Marriage and organized religion are the same...in theory, they both seem like a good idea, but when you start breaking it apart, you see that's it's such crap!

Alissa	Don't rush nowadays there is nothing wrong with waiting till after you have your baby to get married

Chicka	Do NOT get married unless you ready! It's okay if you aren't married before the baby comes as long as you both raise the baby. Then after you are over with loosing the baby wait and ready to get married, go all and get married. Don't rush into bc you are pregnant! Good Luck!

philosophy	Get married now. If you love your bf and he loves you, then why wait.

arhoden76	Take it from me - Do not rush into anything. I understand what you are feeling (I was prego before both of my marriages), but marriage is not something you should do just because you think you should. There is nothing wrong with waiting until after the child is born (this is the 21st century, after all). Just be sure before you do anything you will regret.

sam l	That's what I had to do. Was going to get married in March of next year, found out we were pregnant in June and moved the wedding up to October. Good luck and congratulations Update: We also did the courthouse wedding 3 weeks ago, so the big wedding is in October, hopefully before she really starts showing.

Kitty8	No, wait until everything has settled down that way you can plan the wedding. You don't have to get married just because you are having a baby.

Because I'm Grown & Sexy!	Only you know the answer!!!

boohoo	Now a days it doesn't matter if you are showing or not. If you love your BF and want to get married do it. Plan it out and be proud.

BabeHart	If you aren't sure, don't let pregnacy push you into a marriage you are "unsure" about. Getting married solely because of pregnancy is a poor idea and more often than not ends in divorce. Make sure marriage is what both of you desire, regardless of your pregnancy.

astro_2girl	look... if you're ready to get married, that's fine... but getting married because of the baby... sure it's a good reason... but if you're not ready and you become unhappy with the marriage after a while... don't do it... talk about it with him and see what he thinks!!!

spyder	If you're both in love with each other, then yes. But don't get married if it's just because of the baby.

Mel	How old are you? Do you have an awesome relationship?

Sarah Emily	dont rush into marriage....if you really love him and dont have to think about it i say do it but again i dont know your situation.... Good Luck God Bless

CCRIDER69	get married

andrespb22	FOLLOW YOUR BIG PREGNANT GUT