Married people: Was this right?

stevekc43	You need to obey your man! After all, its all about him, right!

Violet Pearl	Yes. Stay home and be with your husband. You're not a "girl" you're a grown, married woman.

punkin	nope

Chaka J	look have your fun he's having his so why can't you

driver	Games do not last until the bars close. He is probably afraid you will be doing the same thing that he is doing in the bars and that's flirting or maybe more.

berry	No, not at all since he goes out too.

migamw	Sounds to me like all hes doing is trying to get what he wants without you getting the benefit of the same.He conveniently wants to "spend time with you" when its your turn to go out.Turn the tables girl.Hes playing games.We can play if they can.Dont you want to spend time with him the next time he has a guys night or a ball game comes on.OF COURSE YOU DO.Give it back to him.Hes playin head games.

WhyNotMe	I agree with "Royalhinney"

**~~~**	Absolutely not, if you can't go out, then he shouldn't be able to either. He shouldn't be telling you if when and if you can go out. You are a grown women and can think for yourself even though you are married. Tell him you are going out. If he doesn't make time for you the nights that he goes out, then why make time for him that night? Plus, he went out 3 times, you are only going out once.

DHWJulie	He wants to control you. Go out and have a little fun. Don't stay out all night long, then you can use that against him if he complains about you being out. Y'all should go out together more often. Bring that up to him. If you let him control you he Will continue making your life miserable. Be true to yourself and do what you think is right.

teenypurplebinky	You are both in the wrong for trying to control what either one of you wants to do! Quality time is important but so is time away. Balance it out without placing demands on one another.

cheetah7	U are not wrong. If he can go out, so should u.

Shayna	Hmmm. . .wrong for going? No, I don't think so. However, I find a problem in the fact that he's gone out to watch the game but expects you to stay at home now when you have a standing reservation to go out with the girls. Since you've missed two nights already, I highly think it's unfair of him to expect you to stay home this time. However, you have to decide if it's worth the fighting with him if you go out. Or will it even cause a fight? You can also leave early and come home to spend the later part of the evening with him. Have something nice planned and do it that way. Or maybe the gals can go out a little earlier or something.

Lt	Not at all. You have a right to live your life, too. Go out and Have Fun sweetie!

thegoodwitchmm	I don't think so....if he can do it so can you. Never let a man tell you what you can or can't do because once they feal like they have the control you will never get it back.

monizk	your only wrong for going if your planning on staying out all night. and by that i mean your not coming home till he wakes up. chances are your planning on coming home right? then you should be able to go out if your saying yes. i would tell him if he can go out then why cant you and if you guys keep arguing about it then you guys are just gonna have to have couple night out. meaning the only time you guys go out is when you go out together. if you guys cant agree on that then neither one of you shoudl be able to go out by yourselfs cause that means you guys have trust issues. and you need to work on that before you can go out again. and if it aint trust issues that you have one of you guys are up to no good and its better to just not go out by yourselves period.

Lydia	Yes, stay home when he wants you to spend time. Otherwise you will not get it. Actually, you two ARE married, right, and you understand what that means, really? Are you planning to have kids? Better both mature a heck of a lot before then....

misydoll	No, you are not wrong to go. Go anyway. He has his fun, you should too.

gigi	HELL NO. YOU SHOULD GO.

cowchic9	No you are not wrong. Everyone needs their own time to hang out with some friends and just relax and enjoy your time a way. If I was you I would tell him you are going regardless of what he has to say.

Royalhinney	No, I believe equal time out is only fair. Sound like he wants to be able to go out but have the comfort of knowing that you are at home waiting for him. Go out.

haki	You have the same privileges than him go.....and have funmmmmâ˜ºâ˜»

abby m	No you are not wrong, he gets his space and so should you.

fizzygurrl1980	Absolutely not! You need to stay in touch with your girlfriends. If there's one thing I hate it's women who get married and then never see their friends again. If your husband was allowed to go out and watch games at sports bars with his friends, you should be allowed to go out with yours! Since marriage is about compromise, though, why don't you suggest that you two will do something romantic and special together when you get home from girls' night? Then he can look foreward to your homecoming. If you think you'll both be too tired to have any together time by the time you get home on Friday night, there's always Saturday night. You could suggest a "date" or just a special activity for the two of you for Saturday night. It's good to compromise, but it's never good to lose yourself and your friends in a marriage. Ultimately it will make you resent your husband if you don't get to go out without him every once in a while.

juicy	no ,i say go out and have fun. you can spend time with him in the day and on sat and sun. he should understand since you've missed 2 nights already and it's not like he doesn't go out with his friends... i say go !!!!!

marie1257	Go girl Go! Get dressed, make up, smell good, give him a kiss and a smile and grab your car keys and TA TA!

FruitLoop	When he goes out, so do you. If he wants to spend time with you, fine, but do it on your terms. You have a life too. Don't be waiting for him to make up his mind on what to do. Make him want you, go out.

liberty m	when he goes out to the bar go with him.if he don't want you to go with some friends

its_me_horses	Giving up time with your friends is a no no. It could lead to losing your friends completely in the long run. Can you go out the same time your husband goes? Then you wouldn't miss any time with him & vise versa. If that's not possible, then by all means take the time to get out of the house & just have some fun. It's only 2 nights a month, which isn't much at all. I would sit & talk with him & try to come to some kind of compromise. On the Friday's that's girls night out, maybe he could go out those nights & the other 2 Fridays y'all could spend together.

Mike Honcho	You go! Fair is Fair