Misunderstanding with husband. Can anyone help please?

Soul	All of you answerers are so stupid. You don't know what the situation is. All of you idiots calling this man a loser and such, have you heard his side of the story? Maybe this woman is nagging the crap out of him and instead of him staying home and losing his cool, he has to go out. Maybe this woman is looking for sympathy over the internet so she tells the story her way just to get pity and approval from you people. I refuse to answer this question without hearing BOTH sides. Not just 1. To the person asking the question, you need to get a job and live for yourself because that is obviously what this man is doing. Could he be seeing someone else? Maybe, maybe not. Just work on improving yourself. You should not be cooking and cleaning for a person that doesn't appreciate it.

Lila	Yes, that is a possibility, but don't jump to conclusions before talking to him. Please talk to your husband and let him know how you're feeling. You need and deserve more than what he is giving you.

cindy	Does He want to make love with you.You guys may need a counselor before it gets out of hand.Keep up your faith the best you can.Pray,

All the way live!	He probably is cheating...but at any rate he's definitely not considerate of your feelings so even if he's not I wouldn't stay with him.

Chris H	Whether he's seeing someone else or not, he's not seeing you, not being a partner to you, not considering your feelings. Talk about it with him or suggest marriage counseling. If all else fails, move on. Life's too short. Doing his shoes? Hmmm, Is he a cop?

Tammy R	Divorce him. He doesnt respect you like a husband should. Dont live your life wondering what he is doing. Talk to him and if doesnt want to change get a divorce.

â™ Ð²Ð°Ð²Ñ‡ â™¥ cuÑ€Ñ–d â™	sit him down and ask him, tell him how you feel. if he starts shouting and gets angry maybe he is seeing someone else. but if he hugs you and stays calm, then you know hes not. also ask him to start helping around the house abit more if he says no offer to do it in your underwear or something else to motivate him.

mrsknowitall	Do I have to state the obvious. You and I both know he's cheating.

cubnation1908	So where does he spend these nights without notification- likely somewhere you don't want him to be. Stop be a doormat.

Tressa	I would say yes! Sorry. He doesn't need to be married. You should move on. There are so many fish in the sea. On the other hand the man I married used to do the same thing to his ex wife. He doesn't with me. He is not the right man for you.

hey you	He might be.....tell him that you arn't feeling like he loves u n e more

Sean	He might be... or maybe you guys are ready for the separate bedroom stage of marriage... either way confront him about it and then you can decide what road to take.

sarcastic	More than likely. The next time he is gone all night, pack all his stuff and leave it on the front lawn and get the locks changed.

sexiful_hunni	Yes he could be actually 9 times out of 10 he probley is you know, try and spy on him when ever he leavs try to follow him on the sli. or leave him dont put up with his s.h.i.t iff your finding yourself trying to change him iff he was ment to be your lover you woudnt have too!

Dirtbox	Yes VERY possible that he's seeing someone else. Get rid of him!

Scooba Steve	These are typical signs of cheating. I'd be very suspicious.

Joseph	sure could be. are you living in the 30's hello cook, iron and do his shoes? Its your life and your choice may want to ask yourself why your doing it.

havanadig	Why would he want to be seeing anyone else when he has a gem like you at home,you sound like my perfect woman.

Einstein was a LIBERAL.	That's very well possible. Ask him about it, talk to him.

Flower Girl	RUN, don't walk, Run to the nearest exit!

Chuck T	You think ???? , of course he is, you need to pack your bags and head out....

Kevin	I'm not married and I can't leave the house without checking in every 20 mins. Wish you were my girlfriend. lol. But yeah. I would be worried. Thats kinda sketchy. Ask more questions.

webboffin	Yep you are right to be suspicious. No husband acts like that without doing something he shouldn't.

Stra8up	YES.

Lillian	i would assume so , but you never know . either way, what's important here is that he is not respecting you at all. everyone deserves better. you are a human being, and he is treating you more like an object he can control. he doesn't tell you these things, because he finds it to be none of your business what it is ALL of your business. i just got out of an abusive relationship, so i know that telling you to leave him really won't do anything. but good luck honey! you may feel like every other relationship will be like this one, or no one will ever treat you better, or this is what you deserve, or that maybe he can change ... but the thing is, none of these are true. if he wanted to change for you, he would have.

Valerie	He might be...hard to say...at any rate, he sounds completely selfish.....