My Husband hit me because..........?

Christie	He did not hit you over the shaver, its never about the object your fighting over. It's about his insecurity and what is going on in his mind. Don't let him try to trick you into thinking its your fault and if you would have done something different he wouldn't have done it. I was in this cycle before and you start to believe what they tell you, don't believe for one second it was your fault or a about a stupid shaver.

spiritwalker	since when did you become a wimp, and a punching bag? No woman deserves to be beat, hit, or cussed out. He has started hitting you, when will he start on the kids? It won't get any better, I ask you, do you like getting beat up? If not get out, before it's too late.

sweetgranny06	he had no right laying a hand on you that was an excuse he had to be one of them wife beater's no one has a right to hit anyone

Joy	Number one you never and I mean NEVER allow your husband to think it is ok for him to hit you. The kids belong to him too and he is a parent the same as you are so he is the one that needs to make sure the kids leave his things alone. You need to tell him that you will not be treated that way and if he continues to do it, you will call the police and have him arrested. Don't just say it, really do it. Your NOT doing anything wrong. Your kids are kids.......he is the adult so its time he starts being one.

cheezyhill	I don't care if you did do something wrong ( not that you did) he should not hit you. PERIOD end of story. There is never a reason to hit another human being (well there could be a few exceptions) but not for a husband to hit a wife. It is simply wrong on his part and unacceptable. Simply tell him if he lays a hand on you in anger even once again you will leave him. And you should an abusive man will not stop without therapy. Some societies accept this form of abuse but it should never be tolerated.

massiel248	you are so full of it.

Vegas Jimmy	You're putting up with a beater, that's what you're doing wrong. Spouses get ONE and ONLY one chance to hit. When they do, they have used up all their chances and are no longer acceptable as spouses. His problem is that he WON'T control himself as a mature adult. Lemme guess, he hits the children too, am I right? And you let this happen. You are to contact the nearest spouse abuse help line immediately, if not sooner. Failure to do so constitutes being an accessory before and after the fact to SPOUSE ABUSE. That means you would be considered almost as guilty as he is of SPOUSE ABUSE. Do NOT go telling him of this beforehand, or ask his permission to do so. You must protect your children AND THEIR MOTHER.

SCOTT	I would call the cops on his ****. Want me to come over and hit him for you so he can see how it feels? IT'S NEVER NEVER NEVER OKAY FOR A MAN TO HIT A WOMAN. NEVER. DON'T TAKE IT NOW OR EVER.

will i cya	Your husband needs to go to jail, you need help for you and your kids and leave the short tempered punk. He is a coward, only cowards hit on women. Don't be dumb and stay with the ******.

GucciBootz16	1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224. Please get help before he does something drastic and hurt you or you children.

.	number one any man that hits a women is a looser, unless you have a gun to his head he has no right hitting you period. the only thing wtrong her is you being in a relationship with an idiot

Brooklyn's Finest	HOLY SH*T ARE YOU SERIOUS???!!! You NEED to leave NOW and report his azz to the authorities!! NO MAN has ANY right to hit a woman here in this ol' U.S.A hun. You seriously NEED to get help!! God bless you, God speed and good luck is all I can say. You did NOTHING wrong, much less for ANY man to put his hands on you!!

Chris	Just take the kids and leave him. He is never going to treat you or the kids right.

Mindy	ok, if he hit you, you should have already said goodbye. you are doing nothing wrong, you should get out, now. and take your kids with you. HE WILL HIT YOU AGAIN. so leave. be strong for all women

prescientone	There has to be lines that cannot be crossed. Life is way too short to take abuse for anything. You tell him the limitations...make him understand them...teach your children how to respect others as equals....he missed that elementary lesson

pinkie	NO NO NO ! THAT IS TERRIBLE ! why would he do that to you ? you can seriously be hurt one day very badly . first thing i would do is get the kids out of the house . then do the same with you

irepDETROIT	he is abusive and you SHOULD leave him if he doesn't agree to get counseling about his anger problems.

delis	are you serious! if you are you should know that you are crazy for thinking its ok to get hit. nothing is wrong with you, its him! you should not put up with that at all. he needs help or leave his a**.

nodumgys	not having him arrested is what your doing wrong. as long as you allow him to model this behaviour to the children you are not doing your job as a mother.

vixalle21	Honest answer? You're a doormat. Here is what you need to do in order of importance: - get some type of job. If you dont have an education and have always been dependent on him- then you need to go to a SHELTER with your kids. The beatings will get worse. -Get a restraining order. - Get counseling for YOU and your kids.

sharon ON	What you are doing wrong is making excuses to convince those around you that what he did was OK ... it's NOT ok for him to hit you. And what example is he showing his children? You need to give him an ultimatum - get anger management counseling or you're out of there. No one deserves to be hit for anything - especially by someone who is supposed to love you.

magick	The only thing you are doing wrong is staying with an abusive husband.

Gabby	You are not doing anything wrong. You ar doing your part. You can't stop kids from doing things all of the time. His problem is that he doesn't get his way by little things he will take it out on you for no reason. I would tell him to get his life together and if he doesn't then you will be leaving with your kids because it can get worse eventually.

so i WONDER.	Blaming yourself is what you are doing WRONG. You should tell him how you feel and how you do not like that he hits you. And warn him, you will call the police next time!!

Alyssa K	Your not doing anything wrong! It's his fualt for leaving his shaver out. If yo need to call the cop's cause a man does not need to hit a woman. Point blank period.

Alyssa	slice his jugular with that VERY razor he says you took

Ivonne	your letting him walk all over u. thats what your doing wrong

bronzebabekentucky	Woah!!! No No! Hitting is a No no. If he hits you NOW, what will he do later on? Kill you for burning his food? PLEASE for the sake of your kids, GET OUT!