My best friend's husband is having an affair with me. Should i tell her?

PhotoKenDawg	U r out of your mind do u knw that ppl sometimes r killed over things like this. I could c if u didnt knw this scumbag but u knw he is married so what ever happens to u i just hope its quick. I dont think u should tell her , I think u should just move far far away and take that to the grave with u. Sounds like some ol Jerry Springer stuff

Larry F	Is this a trick question or are you really serious? You are either lacking in 'gray matter' or are actively seeking trouble. Why are you having an affair with your best friends husband? Best friends DO NOT treat their best friends in such a manner. Do you really think so little of her that you have to go and stab her in the back?

uniquechild	I dont think you are a best friend, because friends dont do things like that in fact you are nothing but disrespectful towards your friend. I suggest you get out of her life and her husbands lives. Have you no shame. What you are sowing now you are going to reap. The wheels turn on people like you. You are nothing but a tramp

holdnnmyown	if u tell her or not the truth will always come out one way or another. shes going to find out. if my best friend did that i would hang him by his balls

September Sweetie	Will you invite me over when you tell her! I want front row seats when your bf slaps the S%^$ out of you!!! You deserve it!!!

Caring	she may be your best freind but at least you are not you should have not done that better tell her immediately and seek her pardon or what ever she suggest

godbeyn	After this you are still referring to her as you "Best Friend?" How can you do this? You are not a friend! How can you even talk to your friend? I would stop having the affair and beg for forgiveness from your friend. Just remember, men can come and go, but true friends are forever. A good friend is hard to come by and right now you are not being a friend at all. Shame on you!!!

ROBERT H	your a nasty family wrecker and so is he "die cheaters" both of you are going to hell. "I KNOW SHE IS NOT YOUR BEST FRIEND BECAUSE YOUR BANGING HER MAN " YOUR A TRAMP

aunt_beeaa	with friends like you I would rather be friendless! Some betrayal of a best friend you are. Sleeping with your friends husband. You've really crossed the line where friendship is concerned!

ur fren	dont continue it anymore. try not to see him or talk to him. ur fren might get hurt by the incident, but her hubby is a cunning fellow. if not u, he will find another girl. tell him that u wil tell about the matter to ur fren in case he makes further advance. this advice is for u as its not he who wil suffer later, but u as u deserve an unmarried boy whereas he can look anyone as he is already married. u will be the ultimate loser if u proceed.

fearthis1	no stupid you should stop fu~king your best friends husband you wh@re! maybe she should be fu~king your ole man then you two could be fu~king each other literally and by proxy! your mother must be proud!

Spanky the monkey !!!	IS THAT WHAT YOU CALL FRIENDSHIP??????I THINK YOU CONSCIENCE IS GETTING TO YOU !!! i'd back off before you get your fingers burnt!!!!

freyja5683	What type of best friend would do this to someone? I personally think that you should tell her, and cut off all ties with her husband. As well as be prepared to find a new best friend.

Ahmad E	no go away

Erica R	If you are ready for World war III

boredguy_13	of course not! you 'll ruin your friendship and ruin their home. i suggest you enjoy it and then break it up (presuming that no emotions are envolved)

trixyt1	What, you should be ashamed of yourself, you are no best friend! And if you were really a best friend you would'nt have done it in the first place. If you want to stay friends with her then don't tell her, but you'll live with the guilty concience everytime you see her, and stop the affair right away. I don't think she'll wanty to be friends with you after that!

Sheila N	Wow!!!! with friends like you...who needs enemies????

bboy	yes because she gonna find out anyway and she gonna kick your a-- at least i hope she do.

Mishell	& you call her your best friend. You outa be ashamed of yourself. Yes you should tell her so that she can move on from both you & her hubby to more trustworthy & respectful relationships.

nicky	u should if u still consider her ur best friend. honesty is the best policy. maybe she wouldn't mind at all. after all its better to be with someone she know rather than someone from e pub.

lookingforanswersandquestions	r u feeling guilty about it or are you wanting to tell because he doesn't want you as much as you want him. i really can't say what you should do. maybe it's best that you cut it off immediately. you are probably just a play thing to him.

Robbie trd	Do you have a death wish? I mean, really, if you tell her, she will go ballistic. Not only will she lose a husband, but you will be out as well. This is a lose lose if you tell her. Although, most likely, she will find out down the road because it is so hard to keep this kind of thing secret.

Gasman	How proud you must be.

The Guru	YES! If you wish to spread discontent and grief though out your, her and his life. Why are you doing this...............It will turn to mud before you know it

loverboy	Need not tell her you have to stop it.............. its the worst part after few years

WyoHunter	Why would you have an affair with your best friends spouse? You must be a great friend!

bradnmich2003	Holy crap! Ummmm, if you tell her, be prepared to NOT be her best friend anymore. But, yes, I do believe she needs to know. Is HE going to back you up if you tell her?....I would hope so.

caroline1409f1	Aren't you a nice best friend? I would say leave him alone. If you tell her can you imagine her reaction? You need to leave him alone and get yourself a new best friend as you obviously don't see her as one if you can do that to her.

Centurion	No, but you should stop doin it!