My fiance called me a "f#*@ up" last night for no apparent reason, what should I do? give opinions please

Dr S	he is probably telling the truth. at least respect him for his integrity.

j.essica87	there is always a reason. built up anger?

Camille R	ask her why did you say that last night and if she says " oh, you dont know " say no I dont and apparently you dont either if you dont tell me and if she says"well you wont find out from me" say oh ya well you wont find out where Im going tonight but dont cheat on her just go to a 24 hour walmart and stay there until 2:00 in the morning just walking around I seen it on a movie, but bring this up about @ 10:30 or 11:00 Your friend, Camille R

Emilo	wow. was she mad bout something. ask her whats wrong. maybe she is having second thoughts about getting married.

AT6381	It's probably unhealthy to be in a relationship with someone who screams profanities for no reason whatsoever

Jess	There had to be some reason....

JoeSmithJared	you must be ****** up

Sugar	That would be the last time. I 'd kick him / her out.

peaches6	No sense of telling you now, because you should have taken care of it when it happened. You probably made up already. Good Luck!

ericka0407	so you were just sitting watching t.v. and they were just like "you **** up"? for no reason at all?... they have Tourettes Syndrome

Irma	Well the only way to find out why he said that to you is to ask him yourself. Ask him what is the reason he called you that. If you're going to get married to him, you will have to start communicating with each other better. Good luck.

Loving Life Now	time to confront

Vita Privata	PMS?

hot stuffâ™¥	i wou,d ride him. hee haw.

llexiann30	For no reason, there must have been a reason for them to say that to you. Think about it and see if you can find a reason why it was said.

Fiona Y	Was alcohol involved? You need to establish if a) they remember making the comment and b) what underlying thing is pissing them off to make them say a thing like that and then deal with it.

Loki	i have no idea but thats messed up i would of went off on him/her when they said i would of been like "yes i am i done f*@#ed up when i said yes to you" but im mean lol

notyochic	she must have been really **&^%$&^^%%& to say something like that!

Ariel	your saying you didnt do ANYTHING?

Mere Exposure	Anyone can say something and later regret it but that is a sentiment that doesn't just fly out without some prior thoughts in my opinion. If you marry this person you will end up divorced with alimony/child support. Get while the gettin is good. Get with someone who DOES NOT THINK THAT OF YOU!

Dawn M	Ask why is the adult answer. Communication is the key to any relationship. Or the makes you feel good quick answer: Call them that too and if they ask why say "same reason you did to me" Not the best solution or fix though.....

MATT DAMON!!	smack that b**** and tell her to make u a sandwich

laura seeks the Kwisatz Haderach	1. Is auntie flow in town 2. Did she have a bad day 3. under some sort of pressure 4. Is she testing you to see what your reaction will be 5. Is she always mean/abusive 6. Ask her what you did to deserve being called a F^*% up 7. Talk to her about the way you feel I hope everything works out for you

slayer_10122	beat the fuken **** out of htem .......................... dont let them in your house or shoot them

jimmy	yes i am f**ked up to and soo r all these other ppl.

Lizzie	were you fighting, or was their tension? IF there was and you were being mean too, (just not saying that) then you can't blame her. If she just randomly said it then tell her you need some space to think, and think if you can really love someone who could disrepect you like that

kellynita@sbcglobal.net	talk to her and find out what she is upset about and find out what she thinks you f#@ed up and did? and find out how you can resolve the issue

wcanoodle	For no apparent reason? Then dump her/him. It may be a part of her/his personality of verbal and maybe physical abuse that she/he is hiding from you and it may get worse if you get married.

blessedrobert	threat to give back the ring tell him..you need counseling for dishonoring you in such a way NOW. is this a think coming years to get worst? wisdom..how does his father treats his wife? is a future how he gonna treat you. yet not everybody copy their parent..but oftentime we do. surely he need to apoligize. he having a bad day or bad thoughts ALLOWANCE and speak such a way. this is what bad about rated R movie too. they influence behaviors..toward our spouse or parent or bosses, ect.