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My guy just cheated on me.Only been together for 6months.He says he's truly sorry.Do I stay or go?Will it last
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My guy just cheated on me.Only been together for 6months.He says he's truly sorry.Do I stay or go?Will it last

I went through a terrible divorce. I was single for almost 2yrs before I met this guy. He is truly a wonderful man. Very good to me, always loving. He was drunk one night & slept with a women from the bar. He does know her though. He has since sent me 20-30 text messages a day explaining how he made a terrible mistake. I really fell in love with him. He says he loves me with all his heart & will do anything to make it up to me. But how does a relationship work if the trust has been broken? I don't know. Can a relationship really last through something like this because we havn't been together very long. Not a very good start. We've not even had one arguement or disagreement. We have alot in common. I need some answers from people who have been in my situation. Thank you so much for your help.







xdogxluver0701
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Hey, love is a lottery ticket. You can miss one number but have another winning number. This might be his worst mistake he can make as a first mistake. If i were you, i would take him back after he literally "comes after" you with not text messages, but with himself. He shouldn't just sit at home only texting you how sorry he is, if he were sorry, he would go to you. So until he actual presents himself to you truly admitting everything, i would not take him back. Good Luck


irish_indian_fantasy
Angela is right...once a cheat, always a cheat. I was in a 6 year relationship and he cheated on me within the first 3 months with his ex-wife! I got the I'm sorry's and the promises too. Well six years later, I'm rid of him, and he continued to mess around. A leopard NEVER changes their spots. Move on and find a new one honey. Don't put yourself through it all. It isn't worth it!


Kandi
of course you leave he's gonna definetly cheat again u only been 2gether six months you should leave trust me it aint gonna last.4 SURE!


Stephanie T
give him one more chance and if he does it again you should go. if he touched her you should go right away. i'm sorry he did that.


WoW WoW Wubbzy
leave him! aint worth stayin


Kenshin
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I send him flying out the door. True it might have been a one time thing with someone else, but how can you be sure? I wouldn't trust him. Who hasn't heard the I'm truly soory I loove you line. It just means that they are sorry you caught them but do they mean it? No. Just think if you hadn't found out how long would he have been seing her? He probably never would have told you either. I think you should send him packing and find someone better who deserves you and wouldn't cheat. Just because you don't find him now doesn't mean Mr. Right isn't there


babyg1rl403
well you should give him another chance but next time he does that dont get back with him. set sum ground rules he shouldnt have been at a bar without you anyway. give another chance


J☼E
Don't stay dude, he's going to do it again and again, you can't trust cheaters!


Jaidyn
well it depend if he does it once he is gonna do it again first time shame on him second time shame on you remeber that


Aurora
It sounds like you care enough about him to consider another chance so give it to him. although deny him the goods for a while as punishment or bettter yet wait untill wedding day and seee if he sticks around, worst case scenario you break up and that just means it wasnt meant to be. Good luck.


Lizzel H
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ohh so srry------why ask us---what does your heart tell u?
believe in urself---go 4 it♥


mysterious 101
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he cheated once so he may cheat again...dont follow ur heart...follow what ur brain says so u dont get hurt...try to end the relationship and be strong..


Jessica C
No, he's not even over the honey moon period and he cheats on you? Leave, now.


Bill
Here's the thing...he had 6 months worth of trust, and lost it. He's back at square one. Do you want him to progress again? I wouldn't.

Drinking doesn't excuse bad choices. No pass.


Tam Tam
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My mother always said:

"One time is a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes.
Twice? They like it or they don't care. "


ozperu
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Just leave him. Without trust, there is no relationship.


KNOCK OUT*
dumpp his asssss. once a cheater always a cheater.. dont trust that, it will only get you more hurt in the end when you realize that..


rhiannamellor
It's hard to say, apperently if a guy cheats once he's most likely to do it again. I'd personally give him another chance and if anything like that happened again I'd ditch him. I hope everything turns out alright :)


gracey
I would give him another chance if and only if he promises never to go to a bar again and get drunk without you...he has to earn that trust back and the only way to do that is with time and watching his behavior to see if it's changed


Sarah<3
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Be strong and independant.don't go crawling back to a guy that had feelings for someone else. I was watching cheaters today..dont ask...and guys are pigs. Be strong.


jmiller
Just leave and save yourself the heartache. You've only been together for 6 months and he already cheated. You take him back now then he'll think he can just do it again and you'll take him back again.


It's me!
leave him. cheatings wrong and you deserve a guy who completely loves you and only you


to_sassy4_u
Nope he won't change....he's not sorry for what he did...he's sorry he got caught. LOOSE THE LOOSER


?? yaddajean ??
If he cheated you need to let him go. If he cheated once shame on him, if he cheats twice shame on you


tandkalexander
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Go.


Angie
Once a cheater always a cheater.







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