My husband is going to dinner with a friend he met in school?

Spunky Sputtz	you need to chill out and just trust your husband

S.O.T.C.	What are you doing ? you are invited to go with your husband Do you love him , if so you better go and be by his side and protect him and your marriage . Go with him , have a good time , be mature , engage , show him & her for that matter that you are in love with one another . Get on the train and don't let it wreck.......

Scuzzy	No you are not being paranoid, I think you need to nip this in the bud, every-time I have been invited out by and old female friend or flame it came to know good. Be thank-full that your husband has kept you abreast as to what is going on, if she is that close then invite her over far a barbecue or something. Meeting, alone no way Jose.

kiya12bc	I would do one of two: Either go ahead and go with him (he asked you) I don't think it would be uncomfortable at all..he is your husband...or let him go alone...but I would be cautious if she keeps calling or emailing and wanting to meet again. Good Luck

Nikki	It doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about. He's being totally up front about their communication. But if it bothers you that much, why not go? He asked you to.

Nancy M	Since your husband included you in the dinner date then you need to go. I would not trust the other woman. It sounds like she is after your husband and if it were me I would not like it. You need to let the other woman know that you know what she is up to. If she were any kind of a woman she would have included you and she would also have a date for herself instead of only wanting to be with your husband.

Ur Ordinary Girl	i have been through a similar situation and the girl ended up trying to kiss my man by the end of the night and i regreted ever trying to be nice with that B****! She still tries to come around now and i'm not going to ever let it go, nope. i can see your point on not trusting her but trusting your husband. good luck.

bina64davis	Knowing me, and being the type I am, there is no way in hell my husband is going to out to dinner with another female (unless it's relative) without me. I'm sure he wouldn't like me going to dinner with some guy, either.

Nena S	You have nothing to lose by going with them. It will show her you and your husband are a team....So if she's thinking about flirting with him she will have to reevaluate. If I were you, I'd prepare myself mentally beforehand...Dress up nice and look good so my husband would see you care about your relationship. Be nice to her in front of your husband and tell her you'd love to introduce her to some male friends. Good luck!

Sean J	Go with him. I don't care if you don't like her, go with him anyway. Like you said, you've got no reason not to trust him, but something doesn't smell right... and if it's not him, that only leaves you and her. You'll end up sounding like a controlling, over bearing wife if you start throwing accusations around later without even being there. And if she does have evil plans toward your husband, what better way to curb them than to be there when she's trying to put the moves on him?

Pusspuss Geroux	Don't just sit back and let that ****** steal your man girlfriend!...Hell YA your going too!...Over my DEAD body would my husband be going with out me...He has NEVER cheated honesty reins and we've been married 19 years...Still I'm no fool and neither are you...Thats why you asked...GO WITH HIM...Just do it!

Bethany	Your husband seems like a very trustworthy man but this woman seems totally unethical so even if you don't care for this woman you should accompany your guy when he meets with her, or invite her to join both of you for dinner in your home so she can see for herself where he really belongs and plans to remain.

INC0GNIT0	go with him!!!! never let your man out alone to meet another woman (and an almost single one as well)...do you know her intentions? be careful!!!!*

Mr nice guy 2U	you need to go or invite her to the house for diner by not going you are making an awkward situation and opening a door that will never close. You will forever wonder did they didn't they

CHEEKS69	I wouldn't be worried about your husband. He seems to be trustworthy and he did show you the emails which indicates that he isn't hiding anything. But if you feel this meeting is a bit uncomfortable let your husbamd know. Trust me he cannot read your mind. Maybe there would be an easier solution. But I would've gone to the dinner.

Thundercat	All these people are saying you should not let him go. What, are you his mother? If you forbid him to go, he will only go underground. When a man is "forbidden" to do something, the mystery of it will cause him to want to do it anyway. The other woman has his him in his sights. He might just be happy to have a different woman flirt with him but with no desire to actually bed her. So, go ahead and forbid him to go. He'll see her anyway but then might actually decide to make out with her in the parking lot of TGI Friday's.

mikey	DONT TRUST THAT! Just go with him. thats it.

Violet Pearl	Your husband has a hot date. You're foolish for not going on his date with him.

diamoniquejazz	Trust your man. But if I were you I'd go with him.

QT	If you don't trust her, why don't you want to go. You should not feel uncomfortable going somewhere with your husband. Why does he want to go without you? If it were me, I would probably be very uncomfortable letting him go alone. Good luck.

Mommy	Dont let him go!!!

Abby Road	Go with him. Not because you're jealous, but so he can show the other woman that you and he are a team. Laugh with them. Enjoy their school stories. When it's over, tell her it was so nice to meet her and maybe you all can double-date some time (hint to bring her own man next time).

Mia Bella	I'm married and I would be soooooooo upset if my husband went out with her! Tell him you dont like it and if he really cares about your feelings you wont go and cut off all ties with her!! After all you are his wife and he should respect your feelings!

suzlaa1971	In this case, I would feel uncomfortable, but you can always put the ball in your court, if I were you, I'd go with him. That way she can see he's happily married and no monkey business..if I were he, I would have invited her over, with your permission instead of going out. No matter how much you don't like her and how rude she is, you're taking the control back in the situation and situation ahead. If after that, she continues to want to see him, I'd def put my foot down. He's not on the market anymore obviously, and if she respects him and his marriage she won't try anything etc..Good Luck!

Lydia	You should be going along.

Jewells	I would tell my husband he could go to the dinner and then I would trust whole heartedly that he would honor our marriage. I also would want him to tell me all she had to say whenever he returned home. I think she may have a hidden agenda but it sounds as though he doesn't. Trust your hubby and I think everything will work out.

Maria A.	I would not be happy with that situation, it's not your husband that worries me, he asked you to come, it's her motives, she sounds like she needs him for something, what the something is unknown. I would go with him. She can't just show up like that and put herself in your lives, let her know you are a force to be reckoned with. A man does not want to look like he is controlled or whipped, he has pride, make it easy for him, go to dinner, pull her aside when you are alone and tell her you get too close to my husband, be warned. I will break your little nose.

er1nl0vesy0u	Ugh, that would bother me too. Women don't just e-mail their married man-friends out of the blue after 4 years. It sounds like she's lonely and looking for someone to lean on. I'd go with him and see how she acts toward you, but that's just me. I'm sure it's not your husband, I've been in a situation like that before. An old co-worker of my husband's randomly text messaged his cell phone and started trying to flirt with him. He thought it was hilarious, and would reply (NOT flirting, just asking her why she is doing this, reminding her he's married, etc.) to her. He also showed me their interactions. I don't know. I don't like women like that. She sounds like she isn't one to be trusted.

Rat P...	she's going to be doing the humpity-hump on your husband's lap!!! woo-hoo!

ropman1	If you feel uncomfortable about it then you need to tell your husband. He should then cancel it if it even slightly bothers you. PS - you need to work on your spelling.