My husband left me six months ago for another women now he wants me to take him back .Should I?

mouseymom24	that is only something you can decide...but think about that..he left you for another...if he loved you he wouldn't have left...but now that the women he left you for, left him..he is looking for a free ride...so who is the one person to run back too...you...just ask yourself is he worth it

msthinkpositive	Believe it or not, that's the chance you will be taking. This is a decision that none of us will have to bear the consequences of, so you make up your mind on if you're willing to be that bold after dealing with it once. Things happen for a reason, & you are able to know if it was for the better or not.

â™¥2323vsb	don't do it. first, he left you. now, he probably is just lonely and horny. you have to take care of those kids. him coming back will confuse them so much. unless he wants to go to therapy to figure out his problems, you are definitly better off on your own. trust me. my ex pulled this crap on me. but i wisened up and realized it wasn't him that missed me, it was his d!@k that missed me. alright, you deserve someone who appreciates you, and has respect for your children feelings too.

Kelly V	If you really love him, take baby steps. Require that the family go to counseling together. Make it known that you and your kids have issues that need to be heard. It can work, if he really knows what he has walked away from. I know this from living it 4 years ago. It can work if you really want it to. But he really needs to be 100% willing to hear,learn and accept the long term feelings that the kids as well as you may have. He has the rest of his life to make this up to his family if he is MAN enough to do so. You hang in there and pray! Do what you KNOW is right!

kny390	This is really hard. Talk with him and tell him what you expect if and when you let him back in your's and your kid's life. There is no guarantee that he won't stray again. However, he may have learned what he gave up was not worth the price he paid. Your trust will have to be re-earned and it won't come easy for you. Whatever you decide, I wish you good luck and happiness.

red1967	He thought the grass was greener on the other side and know he wants to crawl back to you. I would not take him back do the fact he left you for another women and when she left hi he wants to come home. He is only going to mess up your lives again.

?	don't go back to his *** its a lot of guys in this would that would take care of you and your kids you don't need to be with someone who going to walk out on you and your kids that mean they don't really care about you think about why the girl might have left him he probably wasn't no good to her

Kitty	As long as you're prepared to always be his "second best", take him back. He WILL leave again as soon as something better comes along.

Annabelle418	Just know this, that pain & humiliation you felt when he left will be 100 times greater when he does it again.

smile4u	Go on with your life. What are you left overs. You can make it. Your just scared and want to go back to comfortable. This life will be that comfortable eventually. It just takes time. You can do it. Be strong.

qtbitch666	hell no screw him girl please if he really wanted you he wouldnt have left in the first place if you have kids that must have really hurt them if any one ould even try to hurt my kids (when i have some) i would never have any to do with well maybe his money get him to give you money to support you hey girl stay strong love ya

funnynotlost	Don't be STUPID!

-Tequila10+	That's a tough decision, I'd tell him to keep on marching...the rat....but I'm not in the situation...nor do I envy your decision...will be a tough one...Good Luck and Peace.

â™¥Perfectly.Flawedâ™¥	**** NO! dont take him back.... Hes got no one,. Thats why he came running Back to you. If she wouldnt have left him. Hed still be there, and you'd be non exsistant to him. He screwed up once... And he will do it again.. He wouldnt have left you and your kids. If he didnt LOVE YOU! Forget him... You can find someone pure and devoted. Tell him.. hes not worth your time, and move on.. Itll be better for you.

tigweldkat	you know that you will never trust him again, and you know that he is a cheater, and a liar. why would you want to get back into that? If the kids miss him give them visitation. if you miss him get over it. there are other guys out there that wont do you wrong. don't waste your time on one that already did.

Tatiana L	The only person that can really answer this question is you. It is your choice if you want to give your relationship another chance. Just remember that family is the most important thing, so if your husban doesn't see that... then maybe you should have a talk with him and let him know how you feel and what you think about the situacion.

soofi	If you know he is a nice person , he loves you and kids and this was his 1st chance, ACCEPT HIM AND ALSO MAKE IT CLEAR THAT YOU ACCEPTED HIM EVEN AFTER WHAT HE DID WITH YOU

nwnativeprincess	NO............. DON'T GO BACKWARDS. HE PROBABLY WILL LEAVE AGAIN, WHY PUT YOURSELF THROUGH THAT KIND OF PAIN AGAIN.

Jane W	i would say before you commit to anything the two of you should go to couples counseling together. it could save you a lot of heartache down the road. good luck.

Kay	Take him back. Splitting the family will not solve the problem. Love covers a multitude of sin.

Lisa	I wouldn't. Sounds like you're second best. She's gone so he needs someone again so he feels you are the obvious one to go to. You dont want to be second do you?

Monty L	Yes you should take him back so he can get more practice in HURTING YOU AND YOUR KIDS.

Simply Lovely	Hell no. Take him back and he can turn right around and leave you again. If he is out, keep him there. Don't reward his cheating.

KAE	if you do it, only for the kids. other than that, no way!

Fleur de Lis	This is a tough one. What will happen when he meets someone again? Go to councelling together, whether you decide to take him back or not, it will still be beneficial.

Mike	DOn't take him back he is likely to do it all over again

jms_ladybug	NOPE. he left to see how green the grass was on the other side... shut the gate & don't let him back on your side fo the fence!

Spud55	Uh...probably not.

laughjustalittle16	no, if he did it once, hell do it again! obviously he didnt love you! im sorry!