My husband recently told me he wants me to shave down there?

LateBloomer	ask him why -- is it just once for fun or from now on? most normal men prefer fur, but experimenting can be fun

RumRunners	I have done this for years because in the summer I live in my swimsuit. It is no big deal and you will probably like it better

Donald W	Its a personal choice, if he goes down on you a lot, YES. If the hair is busting out of Your panties there is a problem

Kristin	He's probably just looking for a way to spice things up a bit. Tell him that you'll shave if he does.

Dead Body Man	SHAVE IT DAMMIT! And really he should shave it for you as well, hair down there just is annoying.

ronich69	Try the short cut first. Tell him that you'd rather not because of the discomfort from when it grows back. Some like it, some don't.

Scott	Yeah, it's better shaved. If your not up to it, try trimming it really short. But not too short, because stubble can be worse than doing nothing.

vis	some do some don't..some like a landing strip..give it a try it will grow back.it will itch while it is growing but it will grow back

digletz_27	Try removing your hair "down there" to give it a try if it works for you. Then, take it from there and see what happens. =)

ramsheadfc	Sure, why not? It might add a little excitement to your marriage for a while. You can always grow back when he tires of it. Up the ante on him. Tell him that you will shave if he does!

elizabeth_teasley	Yes, its much nicer. I love it and my man shaves too! we have a lot of fun.... no pubes stopping us! Better mow it down tight before you put the razor to it too.... and learning how to use nair etc... you cant just slap that stuff on!

leslie k	Once you start, you like it so much better. It makes you feel so much cleaner. And the added benefit most men like it. But I would up it one and ask him to shave his too. My husband prefers to keep his well trimmed.

inquisitive..........	Apparently they do, but how nasty is that??!! "Bald cats" as you call it is the characteristic of a prepubescent little girl. There is some serious perversion in that. Only my opinion of course.

Bonnie	ya shave it. my hubby like it better like that too. that hair dont tast good at all.. lol. i like it when my hubby shave too. its better. just watch out what you are doing. you can cut yourself. and that dont feel good at all.

Pat G	I never thought I would ever consider doing that, but 10 years ago my younger man asked me to and I have been doing it ever since. It looks stupid, because of the five o clock shadow, but once you do it you'll probably continue to because it feels better.I can't explain how, but it just does.

daughter_of_God	And what is he going to do for you? I am a firm believer that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Therefore, if you are shaving, he should too. That way, he can "experience" what he expect you to do for him. Good luck!

chy	if you are comfortable doing it then go for it, if not then try leaving a little hair a line or something. i think that you should also request that he shave as well, of just trim it will make it nicer for you when u are down there as well. no hair in the teeth.lol have fun

nojudge	just tell me something .. if we tell you no dont do it ... will you do as we are telling you or what your husband is saying .. i mean wtf .. there is no rules concerning that ... if your husband like that and he asked you to do it .. i think he is the most concerned person about this area of you ... so yes do it .. dont ask anyone about that ,,, just DO IT!

powers	Im a girl and I do. I really do not like body hair and the men I have known don't like body hair. If you do not want to go bald you should at least do a good trim. And think of it this way if you do shave it off he may be more inclined to go down there.

big apple.	you mean you have to ask someone else? if you think it would make you fill better why not, this should be up to you as you know it's your body that you will be shaving anyway how could your husband tell you how to good or bad it would fill. it's all up to you....

Redhead Mom	It all depends on the man and what he prefers...So yea you should and maybe he could shave it for you. My husband prefers me trimmed not shaved and i prefer him trimmed. Neither 1 of us is turned on by the "bald" look. Less hair is better for going "down" on each other.

Smiley	Pure preference, but check into some creams for the first go arounds that will bring down razor irritations. It can get itchy and uncomfortable at the beginning, not uncommon what guys go though when they shave their heads for the first time. You can get razor bumps and ingrown hairs. There is a product that I love called Tend Skin that works wonders at all shaved levels.

bshizzle	Do it. It's not that hard to shave. Plus it feels nicer and less itchy. You don't necessarily have to shave EVERYTHING, shave your bikini line, shave your "lip" area and between your butt. But you can leave the hair at the top of your pelvis because it's not alot. Sounds gross, but its totally worth it and you only really have to do it every two days or so. Waxing is kinda painful but it does last longer.

Melissa S	My bf actually prefers it hairy. I'm cool widdat. I always shaved it because I thought it's what men want. It just depends on the guy and what he find to be aesthetically pleasing. But it's a pain in the a** for sure. It itches and it gets bumps and after a while, becomes very coarse and difficult to shave. It's up to you, really. Are you comfortable with it? Are you willing to do it to please your husband? Does his preference bother you? The choice is yours.

KellyR	my husband wanted the same thing. i told him i felt like a child who hadn't gone through puperty yet but i shaved it for him. he use to not like to give me oral because he didnt like the hair, but now that all the hair is gone he gives me oral everynight. so it was a plus for him and me. i didnt want to go bald but now its not so bad.. but if your completely against it tell him you'll go bald if he will. when it comes to men shaving their hair off their not go much for it anymore.

Sammie	Try it out, especially if you haven't done it before. Be open to new things and your husband will appreciate it. Whether men prefer it or not - it really depends on them, but many do like it shaved, or at least trimmed up. If you do not like the experience or simply having to maintain it over time, your husband should understand - at least you tried. :) If you don't mind it, but don't want to keep it shaved all the time, do it once in awhile and surprise him. ;)