My husband says that he'll divorce me if I do not lose weight, what should I do?
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My husband says that he'll divorce me if I do not lose weight, what should I do?
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I am 5'7, 108 lbs, and he wants me to be 100 lbs. I tried and tried but can't shed these 8 lbs, they won't go. He says that I am fat, and that if I do not try harder, he'll divorce me, what should I do? He says that I am too fat.
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prescientone
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Tell him to see your inner beauty and to stop being so judgmental. We don't judge others on their physical appearance...we judge them on their compatibility to us...don't we? |
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A Fist full of Boomstick !
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8 Pounds Overweight? Jeebus! How can you stand looking in the Mirror...Heck I would give you a Month, after that I would say GOOD BYE, Shamu ! |
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Mrs.BeenThereTwice
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How much does he weigh? 150 lbs or so...that's how much weight you should lose!!!
Then find a man who will love you unconditionally!!! |
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princess leah
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who the hell does he think he is?
divorce him first
don't put up with that kind of attitude or abuse |
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Mrs. T
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With your height, 108 pounds is actually a little low. You are definitely not fat and your husband is being abusive. Tell him straight up to cut out the attitude. No one has the right to treat you that way, not even your husband. I honestly think that you'd be better off if he's shallow enough to divorce you over something that absurd.
Keep your head up. |
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Jason O
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Lose the weight then divorce his dumb azz. |
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Dany C
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If anything you should gain weight! jeez... if this question is true you are in a reaaaalllly bad relationship. my girlfriend is 5'3 and weight 108 lb. She looks great! |
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Jewel
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First off, dont do anything you dont WANT to do. I'm not going to tell you to divorce your husband but you have to put your foot down. Ask yourself, what do YOU want. Do you care about those 8 lbs? Plus thats a lil underweight for your height |
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Beatngu
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Well, divorce him based on FRAUD.... He said for better or worse... in sickness and in health... until death do us part....
NOTHING in there about weight.... And quite honestly, you sound a bit on the sickly skinny side! You need a good meal or two... and he needs something thrown at his head for being a dumb@$$... |
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the misses
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REALLY?!??!?!? i'm 5'6 and 150 and i'm healthy according to my dr and proportioned. if you're that small you're in some serious danger. DIVORCE HIM and seek some medical attention. He doesn't love you anyway to want to divorce you over something so stupid.
His love was a conditional love. That's not agape which he should have. Didn't your vows says for better or for worse? |
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Heatherrrrrrrr
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That is so funny. This can't be real. How the hell does he know how much you weigh? Tell him you are 100 pounds. Change the scale to reflect it and let him see. |
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CurlyShirley
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You're already underweight! Don't stay with this guy, he's obviously a MORON! |
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Why am I covered in feathers?
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YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL don't let anything he says make you think otherwise. he should love you for you! if he is going to divorce you for something like that......... wow. I'm sorry and I am praying for you. |
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brooke c
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He married you for you and not your pants size! I would tell him that and no matter how fat you are or will become it does not change who you are. I would tell him to take a long walk off of a very short bridge if you know what I mean!!! |
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dianee
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the best thing you can do is divorce him. do you really think your life will be good with someone telling you what you should look like, what you should eat and drink? whats next...will he tell you what friends you can hang out with? what clothes to wear? puleez! |
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jenn
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DUMP HIM NOW !!!!!!!! |
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Ash-a-licious
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DIVORCE HIM FIRST!!!!
WHAT THE HELL!!!!????
No i'm sorry but you're not over weight, actually you're HIGHLY underweight!!!
Tell him that he needs to understand that its not going anywhere and if he divorces you because of 8 pounds then he wasn't the man you thought he was and that's it!!
and if acts like he's really going to divorce you, then he's not good enough for you and you should get a divorce lawyer yourself and take everything you can from him!
Good Luck! |
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MissKathleen
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I would lose HIM fast. |
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Shades
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Dump him and go find someone who really deserves to have you in their life!! |
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luvnhatelife
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You're not fat. Don't worry about losing the weight. If he wants to divorce you because he thinks you are fat...then let him. He is not worth keeping. He does not love you for who you are. He does not respect you. |
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shortmama7j
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Lose the weight then lose the loser your married to. |
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bakergirl
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Surprise him. And divorce him. He probably is the one who is fat. |
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its likely i will say douche bag
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ditch the creep |
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AnswerDude
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YOU should divorce HIM. He is rude and disrespectful! LEAVE HIM |
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Clair
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yeah right. |
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