My husband wants me to be with a woman. What should i think?

Â¨ÅšÅµÃ¢ÄÄÅÂ¨	Since it doesn't seem like you hep to it, I'd say no. And you're husband should be careful what he asks for. I've known women who were in the same situation as you, and they ended up liking it so much that they left there husband for the other woman, lol. Personally, I think he's being very selfish.

godsgirl1491	DON'T DO IT! THAT'S JUST WRONG!! TELL HIM NO!! TELL HIM TO GET A LIFE! tell him that you'll do it if he goes with another man first!

lookinfomoney	All men are perverts, he just wants to see if he can get away with it. If its not something you want to do, then don't do it to make him happy. Sounds to me like you need to stop doing everything he asks and put up a little resistance when he asks you to do something. If you arent so willing then he will be more interested in you. Dont be a hard * about it either,be very coy. If your too much of a *** then he'll feel shut out.

Life Coach	All men fantasize about 2 women...your guy is no different 45% of women experiment with women.... mostly in the 18 to 40 age group... it's not that you are not doing enough or that you are not good enough.... but you have to feel ok doing whatever you do.... your life...your choice.. your hubby can watch movie flicks if all he cares about is wathcing women doing women... watch with him if you choose not to do it live... message me for link if interested

DKlyde	The more you do for him in the sack the more he'll want this week it's you with a girl next week it's the two of you with the girl the week after it's him with the girl while you watch. Time to set some limits. If you don't want to do it just say NO! Oh yea the reason he wants more more more is because he's a selfish prat.

Annie R	JUST SAY NO. STOP BEING A WIMP

cr329	"What should I think?" That right there is part of your problem. Don't worry about what other people want you to do or think you should do. Go with your gut. If YOU don't want to do it, tell him he'll just have to keep dreaming. I agree with one of the previous answers, though: odds are he's hoping that the "rules" will get bent and he'll get to join in. Rather than risk a great deal of drama, just tell him how you feel about the whole idea and see what his reaction is.

mshg24	do u want to do it? or is it all him? are u curious about what it would be like?

-J	Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with. He probably would find it rather exciting to see you being pleased by another woman. He may also learn a thing or two, and figure out ways to please you in ways you never knew. But if you aren't into it, then tell him that. You're your own person and he needs to understand that as well.

www.snoozey	well at least have a think about it, u can always say no if its too far out of ur comfort level

tonyagc23	I think that secretely all men have this fantasy. If youre not comfortable with it dont do it. I wouldnt reccomend it anyway. I have never done it and never would(especially with someone as close as my husband). Youre planning on being with him for the rest of your life. Youre love life should be sacred. If it was just a casual thing with a bf it wouldnt be so bad but not with your husband and you dont seem to be too thrilled about it anyway.

chand c	Like a broken shoe he will keep on stretching, means adding different requests, tomorrow he will tell u to do it with a guy, better put your foot down, now.

Bo Beeta	Tell him you dont feel right... He is a guy hun ..This is evey mans dream. If you dont want to do it tell him NO. If you do do it he will ask for more and more.

American citizen and taxpayer	Honestly? Start looking for someone who's actually an adult, rather than having someone who professes to love you ask you to pimp yourself out. You'll probably end up doing this (dumping him) anyway, either before or after he degrades you any more. Try for "before." PS Or, tell him you'll do it - the night after he shows you EXACTLY what he wants to watch, with him doing it to a guy.

Ms Scarlet	i think he just wants to screw some one else too.kick his as$

Shelly	Don't do it. What if he "likes" that other girl, even if it's only a one time thing

Lynn	Sweetie, don't you dare let that man talk you into doing something that you don't want to do...please! Have you told him how you feel? Be honest with him, but more importantly ~ stand up for yourself...

Jerdy	Do it! My girl likes it! you will lose that sens of inferiority and do some good work! Incuraging is the word!

Bee	if your uncomfortable with it don't do it and your husband SHOULD understand and if he doesn't then something might be wrong. . . he needs to respect that you aren't comfortable with doing that sort of stuff

?Whiskey Girl?	Do it but dont let him be there...

Bryon K	Go for it make him get really excited

Rachel	I think he doesn't love or respect you to want that. I feel for you!!

The Pope	DO IT