My husband wants me to call another man's name in bed! Why???

Lynne B	That's odd! He sounds confused.....only do what you are comfortable with... weird....

IKNOWNO	maybe he is dying to find out the name of any ex lover you had-be careful

Tomorrowalwaysbetter!	I think your husband want to watch you FKing someone else... he could be bored with you even you still fancy him. I am sorry to say it. but if he wants you, then why the hells he wants you to call another guy's name when you were fking?? mad!!!

SafetyDancer	Perhaps you have the perfect resolution to a long-standing problem between male and female - the off switch. Keep him going until you make it, then yell, "Fred!" (unless that's his name, of course). You're done. He's done. Like some of the others have said, this is weird, but it could be a lot worse.

ask me	hiii i m not a married one but u r ? is very intersting first u have to ask u r husband for which purpus he had told u to talk to that person then ofter u make u r decision on the topic

nessa_gurl04	maybe its just what he likes some pepole are into weird things...but if i were you i would sit him down and let him know how weird this makes you feel!

bad_bob_69	Some kind of strange fetish - humor him

evian	on the down low or he could be prefacing wife swap get some clarity good luck

Rachel	It sounds like he's interested in having a threesome with another man, and not sure how to bring it up to you so he's starting off slowly with the name thing. I would come right out and ask him what's going on.

Lady Scientist	As long as you are keeping the actual physical acts within your marriage, it can be fun to role play that you are acting outside of your marriage. Your husband is most likely pretending you are someone else on occasion and it is great that he wants to include YOU in his fantasizing (instead of someone else!!). As long as this does not take a turn that leads to actual other people being involved, enjoy! Good luck!! PS have a name ready so that you don't accidently say his brother's or dad's name or something odd like that!

jeep_man129	so he won't feel guilty when he calls out the name of the girl he's bangin' for real... and so he can say that he was just going along with the fantasy and you won't think that he is bangin' someone else... a friend of mine used that trick... it doesn't work... he got cought and she took half of everything he had...

ttc	All guys are different and some have some crazy crazy turn ons! Although, this one is a little weird. You'd think that if you did call someone elses name he'd get mad, jealous, and upset! I would definitely let him know that this is very awkward for you. I'm sure he has something else you can do that he fantasizes about.....

Melissa	Well it could be 1 out of 2 things. 1. He is fantasizing about you being with someone else. 2. He could be fantasizing about a threesome. The best thing that you can do is keep talking to him about this and express your feelings to him. If this really bothers you then don't do it anymore. Try something different.

Floss	Interesting. I do that some people are turned on by this, although I don't know exactly why. Personally I am into the cheating wife theme but not to that level. If you two have a healthy relationship, play along. I seriously doubt that it will escalate into actually asked you to be with another.

blue violet	maybe he wants to end immediately your lovemaking at that moment you call others mans name.

Learn2bstill	Some things just turn a man on! Be glad he hasn't asked you to bring another man in bed with you!!

Frenchy	He seems to be confused about himself, please tell him to go and get psycological help, cause it's not normal. Would YOU like him to call you another woman's name?? I don't think so

IGG22	Maybe he wants to be someone else.

m91342	your husband is a werido! he probably is into having the feeling that your cheating on him with anothe man! it sounds pretty weird but it is possible. Maybe he just gets off at the fact that he can pretend that your a "BAD" girl....

Eyes of Green	cant' say it does a thing for me

R C	Not really??? Do not take the name of a guy he may know about

Hot Belfast	Weird, never heard of that before

SKYDOGSLIM	Only he knows, just go with it

Jewelz	maybe its excuse to call a ex girls name in bed lol... you never know. theres alot of things that are weird that guys get turned on by that you may never understand why.