My husband wants to separate. He says we are not "compatible". What does that mean?

twentythree	means he thinks you are not compatible...what do you care, regardless of what it means, he no longer wants to be with you...move on

recipe_addict	it means he has found someone new to be with.

wonderer2000	Is he cheating?... maybe or maybe not. Just focus on what you know. Nobody can honestly infer that someone is cheating because he thinks that you guys are not compatible. If his claim is not a surprise to you, you guys probably argue very often. If his claim is a surprise to you then there might be some hidden agenda. When there is no cheating involved, it is not easy for someone to reach the desicion that the couple needs to separate. He may realize that no matter what he says and does he ends up hurting you and vice versa. It is like reaching a dead end and the only way out is divorce.

jellybean242000	It means you guys don't have enough in common that is what compatible means. BUT when a man says that it mean he is seeing someone else or getting ready to.so just dump him you don't need some one like that you are to good for him anyway.

Jake59	It means there is someone else in his life, and time to dump you. Maybe its time to start over with someone new, get a fresh start.

HappyCat	Why is he waiting until now to tell you?? That is so crazy! Have you ever asked him what he means?? Maybe you two need to have a nice talk and figure out what it is that is bothering him. On the other hand, maybe he is cheating on you.

fury4401966	he does not want to spend time or money on a person that he does not feel comfortable being around

Lisa	that he wants to move on..it'll be better for you, go find a new man!

miss_treated1	Is that all he said? Maybe he feels like there is a lack of good communication between you two. Or maybe he sees his life headed in a different direction. He most likely has other interests that he feels he can't experience with you. Try talking to him about it.

crawcin2005	Ask him why you are not compatible!!!!! The word simply means not similar, etc. Ask him in what areas are you not compatible----It may lead to a learning experience for you! Good luck my "yahoo" friend!

someone	He thinks your personalities clash. Or (rude to say and I'm really sorry) He's met someone else that he believes he's more compatible with.

rexraptor14489	it means he knows too much computer vocab, which means he's a nerd.

Sunshine	It simply means you two have nothing in common...You were not meant for each other...

nahleens	maybe there is just things that u guys dont agree or get along on each other! but u can still talk about it..maybe he`s just in a middle of depression right now! make him feel special and the "love" u both have shared for years..

mcneelyins	It means that you no longer like the same things. Maybe if you would show more interst in him you may be able to work things out.

tommymurray55	Sounds like your husband is trying to tell you he's into someone else or that he's already been with someone else that's what my ex husband told me too and come to find out he was sleeping around....maybe that's not the case with you guys hope you find the right answer good luck

jay	It means. he is seeing someone else...no one leaves the confort of their home unless someone else is waiting on the otherside...Figure out who he is banging...

jwise_89	Time for you to hit the road and don't look back!!!

axc772000	He had enough and want to move on or just disappointed in your performance.Have you try to ask him?

~Brought to you by popularity!~	It means that you don't like doing what he does... another female!

Pancakes	Obviously, because you didn't want to have a threesome.

wraith_calling	It means that he thinks you are not THE ONE.

qtpeye94	That he doesn't know what the hell he is doing.

bum_55	Hes cheating.. dump him

hateit23	It probaly means he's screwing your sister or your nieghbor or something... HE DOESN'T want you any more....