My husband wants us to go to the strip club. Should i go?

tellitlikeitis	Go, have the experience together. It can be a lot of fun.

Special	Go with your husband and make the most of it. Would you rather he go alone with the guys?

mbustamante73	go for it! it's better to share things like this than to have him go alone right.enjoy yourself you might be surprised.

oh_jo123	ahhh you have to make your own way in this world not your parents or the way yul were brought up go have fun and get a lap dance come on you only live once right?

Charlie Bucket	You should go, theres lots of fun to be had at the rippers.

New mommy	I wouldn't. I am very jealous and would not want my husband to be looking at naked women. Don't risk the relationship. Good Luck :)

changsta3	well. the act of going to a strip club isn't a big deal. it really isn't (unless ur really conservative christians). but what are his motives behind going, i don't know... that you'll have to work out on your own. trust/communication/etc.

autumn	hey girl i know its a very tough situation for u let him go this time but u make yr self as he is wishing to see in anyother make him feel that you are the best of this world men want sum changes so try to give him more attention more love more care........ :) hope u both live together happily forever :)

Valerie X Account #22!	85% of these people make me totally disappointed in Mankind. No respect for ANYTHING! Lost, totally lost..........shakes head......

Holly S	as long as you guys are experiencing things together and you still have that open relationship, i see nothing wrong with it. Go have some fun.

Latin G	yeah, I've taken my wife and girlfriends to 2 strip clubs.. they have a blast and it's perfectly acceptable.. have fun. and no.. it's not like you see in the movies.. that's why they call it a MOVIE! lol

Mark H	If you both are really serious about your religion, I wouldn't advise it. I can't rationalize how God wouldn't consider it a sin.

Carolina Country Boy	GO ! There is nothing wrong with it. You may find that it will improve your relationship. Do not worry that you might be seen by others. Mostly it will be very low light inside. And if you see the Preacher, do not be too surprised !

xoxoj	How can you even say you both are into God, you know what I call people like you hypocrite.. I bet you will go to a strip club and repent on Sunday.. Once your over it ur husband will be going back without you... so dont go opening doors, you may later regret..

Andy	go, have fun, get a lapdance and play as much as is allowed. then go home rip your clothes off and POUNCE on your husband giving him everything he wants and you usually don't give him.

Pamela	I'd say since he's never been, he's not some strip club habitual who's trying to convince you that "nothing bad happens at those places". (they do). He's just curious and wants you to go with him as a buffer. I would go. If you find it too distasteful, you can just stay a few minutes and then leave.

make me	be thankful he wants you to go with him. most guys do not want the girl there. i have been and have had fun. however, let him know if this is something you only do together or is a one time thing. be clear up front. i have also had a dance and it was alot of fun. the girls that work there like to hang out with the girls that come in

music_munster	Honestly, in my opinion, I am a very jealous type of person, and wouldn't go to a strip club with my husband unless the club was full of gay guys. Just tell him you would rather go to the movies or something else, maybe you can take your kids too.

Lovable	You should be happy that he is not going on his own and he wants to include you. I would say go for it, it might be uncomfortable at first, but the fact that he wants to see you get a lap dance is becuase his desire for you is much more than him wanting to go. Go for it, youll have fun!

Anne	You should both go read the scripture that says "Flee from temptation" and also that "Looking at a woman lustfully is the same as committing adultery with her." If you are people of faith, this is a bad idea from every single angle.

Mercurian	If women turn you on, then go. Who cares what anyone thinks. I would tell your husband that you are up to going-but if you start to feel uncomfortable that you guys will leave and not go back again and he can't argue with you about it. And if you really like it then you guys can go together once in a while.

jennyboo513	They're not that big of a deal really, it's just being around naked people and people watching naked people. I've been to many strip clubs with my friends/bf's and actually made friends with a couple strippers. Getting lap dances are kinda fun too but you'd have to be open to girl parts getting swung in your face. If I were you I'd go, even if just once. You'd see that they aren't a big deal. :)

Were meant 2 be	It really depends on how comfortable you are with that and if it is something you are ready for..I would honestly put some thought into it first before making a quick decision..Me, personally I would not go with my husband, but everyone has there different outlook n thoughts on it.. If your husband is looking for something new and adventurous, there are other things you can look into and try.

REAL	I think you should make a list of the pros and cons. Example pro -- fun evening watching the other person get turned on, exciting, etc. cons --- potential jealousy and neverending feelings of inadequacy, the other person wanting/liking it more than the other, hurt feelings. talk it out. Make a commitment to each other to listen to each others feelings and give each other what you need no matter what.

Ocimom	If you are both Christians and believe in God and his laws, you would know that this kind of thing is nothing more then a way for Satan to poison your marriage. God intends for a husband and wife to love each other and be satisfed with who you have. To delibertly go to look at other naked bodies is wrong - your husband should only desire to see YOU naked. I think you might need to be talking to your pastor about this kind of temptation and fight it.