My old boyfriend really grilled me today on?
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My old boyfriend really grilled me today on?
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if I am dating / sleeping with anyone, why not, why I never married or had kids....
Why would he ask so many questions?
He and I dated over ten years ago.
He's married with two kids.
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K
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Looks like he's really interested in you.
OoooooOOOoooo. |
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Christie Brucks
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he's curious. he wants to know what's your status. maybe his ego wants to believe that you were too wrapped up in him for another dude? |
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amanda
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he probably wants to know because he still loves you but he is stuck with his wife because he loves his kids...thats wut i think...HOPE I HELPED :P |
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I*LUV*ME
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Don't even let it bother you. Tell him don't worry about you and focus on his wife and family. |
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Steven A
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He's competing with you to see if his life is better than yours. If he thinks you're not doing well, then he won't regret marrying someone else. |
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hot lips
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That's just the typical questions exes ask when they meet upon each other. |
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bandaid_46
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Maybe he wanted you to tell him that you have been pining away for him all these years. You should have told him you are gay. |
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Mina J.
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Yeah tell him to mind his own business & thats why he's your "Old" boyfriend, you could of just hung up, or however you guys were talking, If I was his wife I would be mad. |
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420 circle
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Hello? He wants to do you! |
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Tom
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He is just trying to catch up, a lot can happen in 10 years and if youre stonewalling him he probably feels like youre not answering his questions so he would just ask more questions in their place! |
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Love Bella
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umm , maybe he still has feelings for you , and not happy in his marriage
answer please
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtLnvvEs189UeDIOD4M31qLAFQx.;_ylv=3?qid=20101011170423AAQNtXE |
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GM
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He obviously still has feelings for you/regrets and wants to inquire about your life...Do you guys still keep in regular contact? Maybe on some level he wants to do some kind of life comparison and make himself feel better about his situation |
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Ocimom
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I have no clue - seems kinda personal and weird to be 'grilled" and its NONE of his business if you are dating or sleeping with any one - especially the sleeping part. I would have not even given him an answer to that! |
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Hira_Sado
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it's probably because he's thinking you haven't moved on from what you had before & since he's already married, I am assuming that he's happy, he would want you to do the same thing I guess. |
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Genuine
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If he's married with kids, it's none of his business. He maybe interested in you and wanted to have something on the side - I say tell him you have moved on,, just as he has. |
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secretagent
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Perhaps he still has a type of lust on you. He misses you maybe and wants to know if you moved on from him, it's a odd situation, but why else would he be wondering why you never found serious love after him. Maybe he thinks you're still into him or something. |
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bushwacker_osk
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He's trying to make you question the fact you broke up and your life is not as full as his but at the same time he's trying to make you jealous of his good ? fortune as in 'if you stayed with me you could have what I have,to make feel inadequate.keep on living your life and bunk him. |
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He is just curious, I have asked my x's the same sort of questions. I think your putting too much thought into it. Or do you wish you and him lasted? if he is flirty then maybe he is unhappy in his marriage and is wondering if your up for a good time baha. Anyways, i dont think it means anything, other than him being curious as to what u have been doing for the past 10yrs. |
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Siylvia
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Maybe
1 . He just care about you, think that he already married and had kids and you don't.
2. Or he still have feelings for you.
3. Or he bored with his daily life.
4. Or he just busy-body.
Maybe you should try to tell him to stop and ask why, so can solve out you mind. |
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FlyGirl Kori
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Honestly, I wonder that about my old boyfriend too.
I am happily married and am not thinking of cheating or wondering what might have been. I am just curious because for a long time I thought we would get married so I care about what has happened in his life.
No need to be rude. He is being nosy, but he's probably just curious. |
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Michelle
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Hes probly just curious about "what could have been" and/or hes not happy and want to know if there could be anything between you two. Ether way hes married and you should seriously think about what your doing... should you cut him off now, or see what happens. Do you want to be the kind of "woman" that messes with married men and ruins familys... The choice is one only you can make. But I would make it sooner rather than later! |
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tampatarantula
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Well, either he's not happy and he's projecting his unhappiness by stepping on you or, He really just wants you to be happy. Either way, its important to be compassionate as an ex and "grilled" sounds like he's more than likely the first of the two. Don't invest too much in his opinion as long as you're happy. |
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Rock, Paper, Scissors
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It's none of his business if you're sleeping with someone, I would take offense to those questions, especially since he's married. My ex husband once started asking me questions like that and I flipped it on him. He was asking me if I was still with my boyfriend I felt uncomfortable and I was like "...No, why are you, what's your deal?" He told me he wasn't with his gf anymore. I don't know were he was going with the conversation but I ended it because it felt awkward for me. Funny thing is the girl he supposedly ended the relationship with turned out to be pregnant just a couple of months later. He's still with her now it's been 5 years. If she only knew what he said to me that day....that he didn't love her and that she was just a b*tch. |
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Lisa
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I'm not married myself and I'm in my thirties and I've encountered this phenomenon as well. I guess it's a case of it's always greener on the other side of the fence. He probably thinks you're living this exciting single life while he's watching Teletubbies with his kids on Saturday night. |
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Jade
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It's probably because he's either: 1)Unhappy with his own current situation and wants to see if you're available to get together again; 2)He's being nosy; or 3)He's making conversation. Whatever the reason, I'd say that he's asking for too much personal info (why you never married or had kids?? Like that's any of his business!). Tell him that it's none of his business and you can also ask him why in the world he would get married and have kids. |
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