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My sisters husband is paying me to not to tell my sister! Is this a good idea?

Today I just caught my older sister's husband with another women! When I came up to them, I started yelling and telling him I'm going to tell my sister on him. He then beg me not to say anything! He said he will pay me to not tell my sister, and he will tell his wife when he is ready. He then gave me 500 bucks to not to say a word!

I did took the money, but yet i don't feel right of him hurting my older sister. ...But yet I did need the money. Do you think I should just give the money back and tell my sister or just not say anything?? I'm 16 by the way







Hybrid Moments
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You sold out your sister for $500....

How much would it cost me to rent you for the night? 100 bucks should cover it right?


moocow
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Give the money back, apoligize to your sister, tell her, and then ask her if she can lend you some money.


Punk Chik
Wow, of course u don't feel right. Do u rely need ppl on YA to tell u the difference between right and wrong.
Okay, keep the money, but tell ur sister. Win-Win situation!


Bright
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No, it is not a good idea. You should:

Tell your sister PLUS either give back the money, or maybe give the money to your sister.


alpha & omega
You enter into a contract to be quiet once you took the money. Tell your sister when she gets old. By then, she will not care.


astrud
Blood is thicker than water. She is your sister, how can you not tell her. How do you think she is going to react when she finds out that you knew about the affair and did not tell her?


Jesse Lurel D
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i think you should tell your sis and keep the money because hes a a$$ for doing that to your sis and putting you in that situation


jeremydalejones
depends how close you and your sister but be prepared for your sister to hate you cause you should know in your heart what to do instead of asking strangers , its your family not ours if u really dont know what u should do then forget it


Delina o
i would have took the money, waited about a day or so then i would have told my sister, its a win win situation take it for granted :D


There won't be anything left (=^_^=)
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This is a tough one....
$500 is a lot....Give the money as a gift to your sister. But let her husband tell of his infidelity. Her intuition when she sees the money will give her a clue that something is wrong.


salivate16
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He is not going to tell your sister anytime soon. That takes balls, and he clearly doesn't have any.

I don't care what you do with the money, but tell your sister immediately.


miss cachette
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I have a sister. In every respect of the word.

You don't.

I almost became kinder when I read that you were 16. But, honestly, even when I was 16, I knew right and wrong.

Again.

You don't.


Marci S
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Give your Sis the money, to put in an account...for when she has to leave him~! I saved money for a year, so I could leave mine. Women need some that no one knows about,,,just in case~!


Silenceâ„¢
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You need to TELL your PARENTS to tell your SISTER - about EVERYTHING. He's a scumbag and he cannot be trusted. Your sister needs to know. Do not spend any of the money as PROOF. Good luck with everything and God bless you!


Sab
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tell your sister. put yourself in her situation, and im sure u wouldnt want to be betrayed by your sister or cheated on by your husband. Their is no value to a relationship with her sister.I hope u do not regret your decision, good luck.


Tori
Keep the money, but tell your sister anyways. That's what he deserves. :P

If you think your mom will make you give the money back, tell her that he never gave you money. But I doubt he'll admit to bribing you to not tell her.


Michael P
keep the money and tell your sister. otherwise you are betraying your sister and placing yourself on the same level as her husband.
whats worth more to you your sisters happiness and trust in you or 500 dollars and your word?


Chozenwoman
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Ok never sell your sister out for money, keep the money show her and tell her and you ae only 16 so it is not too many things that you are in need of other than the teenage trips to the mall..tell her and don't look back ALWAYS protect her first..


Infantrywifey
I think you need to tell your sister. Your family should be way more important then 500 dollars. If she finds oyt you knew it will make things so much worse. I would sit her down and tell her what happend, then show her the money as proof he tried to pay you off, then spend it with her just you two


Mary M
You should give the money back. However, I would not say anything to your sister. Eventually, she will find out if she does not already know. Saying something to your sister may strain the relationship that you have with her--especially if she decides to stay with him.


maduckford
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That is your sister and she will always be, let her make the choice whether or not he continues to be her husband. He should pay very dearly just for being a cheating back stabber. Tell her and let her decide how he should pay on her end. Be there to support her whatever her decision is.


Dreamer
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Give back the money, you will feel guilty using it and your sister's trust is worth more than 500 dollars. Tell your sister if you care about her than tell her! Not telling her is like you saying your okay with a guy cheating on someone you care about! And if your sister finds out that you knew and didn't say anything, I doubt she will trust you ever again.


Bunni
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Tell your sister. Do not dishonor your family! It will be bad for your image if people know they can easily bribe you. Not to mention, how will your sister feel when she eventually finds out he's cheating, and when she finds out you knew?

If you love your sister, tell her. I would want my little sisters to tell me if anything like that ever happened.

If you need money, all you need to do is get a job for a little while, save up, and then quit. ...and you can keep the money you already have.


jude
keeping the money he gave u could destroy your relationship u have with your sister. but telling her she could turn on u and not believe u. if your sister later finds out u knew and did not tell her it will hurt her. money isn't everything, i would give the lying cheating sneak his money back, and since its your sister i would tell her the truth. but i would ask my parents first.


shelly89
Are you serious wow you rather take money instead of helping your sister but once a cheater always a cheater you can get the money another way but your sister deserves to know tell him that you dont need the money and that you want him to tell her or you will but dont do that to her it will hurt more to find out you took money and you never know she might end up giving you money for telling her


♥SEVEN♥
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Girl do not do this to your sister over money...that money will be gone in NO TIME AT ALL. I know to a 16 yearl old, that is a lot of money but it is not worth hurting your sister over.

Tell your sister and show her the money, she just may let you keep it. Or give you half, who knows.

Whatever you do, do not hurt your sister.


transcendhate
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You should definitely give the money back and tell your sister. If you need the money that bad, then I'm sure you could find another way to make some.

If your sister finds out later, she will be mad, and she will be very mad at you for not telling her. She deserves to know.

If your relationship with her is worth more than money, tell her. You can give him his money back afterward.


drewxjacobs
By taking money for your silence, that makes you a party to his misdeeds. You must know he has no plans of telling his wife of his indiscretions. How would you feel if it was your sister that took the money and kept information from her about her husband's infidelity? I don't know that it is your place to tell her, but I wouldn't align myself with her cheating husband either.







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