My sugardaddy won't leave his wife and kids for me and the kid we have together, what do I do.?

I knew from the start that he was married, at first it didn't bother me, but about 1 year ago when we were at the store shopping he ran into his mother-in-law, my sugardaddy is the CEO of a big company and told them that I was that client he had been telling them about and introduced our 1 year old son as "her child" it made me feel really low. He wasn't even there for the birth of our son and he refused to be on the birth certificate, I had to threaten to tell his wife for him to be on it. I'm getting tired of being that "stripper girlfriend on the side" I want more, I want to me loved. I don't want to be seen as some trashy stripper that has 8 kids with 8 different guys
I told him this and he said "i'll never leave my wife, and she'll never leave me." what do I have to do to get him to come to his senses? I recently met his 19 year old son Benzedori ("Ben" they're middle eastern) and I was thinking I could tell him about his dad and me, the kid comes in the club to watch me dance sometimes, maybe if I sleep with him that will get my sugerdaddy back for discarding me?

Pink, it's my new Obsession	last time I checked you had to be 21 to get into a strip club.....

VersatilePessimist	um no...just stop talking to him maybe he will miss you

spy_optica	you buzz off. HES MARRIED

majiksmom	BOO~HOO.....TROLL !

Jo	you have only yourself to blame for the mess you're in.

Jacqueline	you're joking, right? you're such a.. freak really. and he's an ***hole.

KwissyBabee	Seriously , Your A Douche ; I've Never Seen A Question That Bothered Me So Much In My Life !

Richard Dewsh	You should get over yourself and stop using guys for money. Get a job, you lazy *. You're a ***.

Magic Man	you shoud just play the role you accepted.

Gloâ˜…	Today set some positive goals for your life and move on in that direction away from this man and his family.

Sundi	lol wow ***** you have a good imagination. First your daughter has no respect for you because of your profession and now this. Resolve one thing at a time Keep the BS stories coming

pat z	Have you taken a creative writing course?

cool breeze	Your a guy right ? channeling your inner stripper got too boring ?

I Heart Revenge	To be honest he isnt living his wife. I suggest you just move on hunny, and find yours self baby daddy #9 but this time make him permanent.

ZoeMeow	Forget about this man and begin your life over with your son. You'll need to get a real job or two and stop relying on this non-reliable, non-eligible man.

Poppet	Uh huh. Ya, not going to happen. It never was going to happen. It never will happen. Time to grow as a person and move on. Take some time to yourself and realize where you went wrong in your life. Good luck. You'll need it.

Haze	Don't sleep with his son! Your situation isn't a good one, and the truth is the only way to make it a good one is to break things off with the guy He really isn't going to leave his wife

Richard B	There is not a chance that this relationship will go any farther than it already has. He has made his decision and there's nothing you can do that will make him change his mind. You're in a lose-lose situation here.

Just Me	You're pretty sick to want to sleep with this guy's son, who is also btw the half sibbling of your child. ugggg.... He doesn't love you or value you, obviously. Gain some self-respect and leave him alone, seek child support and move on. Find somebody who is single to fall for.

Mike	dude your really ****** up!! how low could you get you knew he was married wtf!!! your both ignorant ps by the way you make it sound, you should be known as the stripper with the 8 kids ffrm 8 men if you go sleepin around with other men that is what you get

yessica	Home wrecker! It wouldn't be right for him to leave his already happy, established family for you and your son. Eventually this will get out and will mess up both families. You got yourself into this, and you knew while it was happening. So you figure it out!

Peace&Love	Benzedori...hahahha what a name. Anyways, just wanted to let you know you sound like one in a million. And his son (who is 19) comes in to watch you strip? Thats hot. Oh and you both have a child together? Thats great. You both sound like 2 amazing people, I envy you.

wohoozit	Well you knew what you were getting into. Period. If you have a child you should ask for support if you sleep with his son? Your sickening.If you di indeed try and break up the marriage I pray the Wife stomps your a s s

DK42	Quote: "I don't want to be seen as some trashy stripper" Too late. Quote: "the kid comes in the club to watch me dance sometimes, maybe if I sleep with him that will get my sugerdaddy back for discarding me?" Again too late (see above). Done trolling? Gad I do hope you are a troll and not serious, please say you are trolling.

Stephanie	You need to stop this , he not going to leave his wife for you and your child, you should have know that from the start, but you need to move on and find someone that will give you the respect and love that need. but he need to support his child so get something in writing, but time to move on and leave his son along,, two wrong don't make it right..